Dr. Tony Evans is the founder and senior pastor of Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship in Dallas, founder and president of The Urban Alternative, chaplain of the NBA’s Dallas Mavericks, and author of over 100 books, booklets & Bible studies. His radio broadcast, The Alternative with Dr. Tony Evans, can be heard on more than 1,300 US outlets daily and in more than 130 countries.

you see many of us the problem of us

getting along with other people is our

inability to get along with ourselves

everything visible and physical is

preceded by something invisible and

spirit the consequences we are dealing

with in our lives in our homes in our

culture we are dealing with them because

there is a gap between where God is and

where we are he wants to know that you

want him and not just wanted stuff see a

lot of folk go to church to get God

stuff but who don’t want the God who

gives it so if you’re in distress

don’t let that drive you away draw you

near when you get close and want to live

for him want to please him want to honor

him want to exalt him want to draw near

to him then heaven opens up and he lets

you find

a crisis is when you are overwhelmed by

negative events or situations or

circumstances causing you to feel

helpless or hopeless it is where the

events that are overwhelming you are

beating at your well-being whether it’s

a health crisis family crisis monetary

crisis mental crisis it’s beating you

down and there isn’t a solution clearly

in sight but where do you go when your

life is in a crisis no words

none of the places you look to to

resolve it can help you that’s our

situation in Johnny Levin now let’s set

the stage Lazarus is sick and we know

from the story he’s sick unto death

because it would only be a few days

later he would die so he’s not just sick

he’s seriously sick and whatever medical

help there was was insufficient to

resolve the problem of his medical

crisis

so what Martha and Mary did the sisters

of Lazarus is they went to Jesus they

sent word to Jesus you and I would call

that today they prayed they sent word to

Jesus Jesus our family member has a

crisis there’s a life-and-death crisis

and we’re crying to you to resolve the

crisis now I want you to observe

something we’re told in verse 3 some of

their prayer requests the one whom you

love is sick we’re told in verse 5 now

Jesus loved Martha and her sister and

Lazarus so evidently spiritual people

gets it so they prayed they said words

of Jesus the one whom you love is sick

and it’s serious Jesus sends back a word

this sickness verse 4 is not to end in

death but for the glory of God so that

the Son of God may be glorified that’s

pregnant with theology he says first of

all I’ve got good news for you bad as it

is this sickness is not unto death but

God wants to get something out of it so

let me give you and me and us theology

and whatever the sickness is you’re

facing the scenario of the crisis that

you will face God will allow things in

our lives that are not preferential to

us but

glorifying to him this sickness is not

unto death but it is for the glory of

God so one of the questions you must ask

and answer in prayer when you are in

when I’m in when we’re in a crisis is

you must answer the question God what

glory do you want from my crisis but I

got a problem my problem is verse 6 when

he heard he was sick he stayed two days

longer in the place where he was come on

Jesus where Jesus was and where Martha

and Mary were two miles apart so not

only does he delay he delays any clothes

after two days

Jesus tells his disciples let’s go to

Judea so let’s go guys

then he says something else a new term

for Christians verse 11 he said to them

our friend cause remember Lazarus is

close to Jesus our friend Lazarus has

fallen asleep but I go so that I may

awake him out of his sleep verse 13 now

Jesus had spoken of his death but he

doesn’t say he died he said he’s

sleeping this is a different terminology

this is new the word sleep is only used

of Christians in the Bible so not use

this general public only used of

Christians one thing messed me up beat

in two days come on Jesus hurry up

second thing messed me up is two miles

you close but the next thing that messes

me up in verse 15 is and I am glad for

your sakes that I was not there come on

now how you gonna be happy about it

Martha’s talking she’s listening so

there is a question on the floor both

sisters have the same question but they

approach the question differently

Martha raises the question in verse 21

Martha said to Jesus Lord if you had

been here my brother would not have died

verse 32 therefore when Mary came where

Jesus was she saw him fell on his feet

saying Lord if you would have been here

my brother would not have died those are

the exact same words both sisters which

means they have discussed Jesus

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can’t do it let me make sure I’m being

rolling anybody here ever been felt God

has let you down doc God where were you

got to put it in another word don’t you

care

be this close stay two days longer and

be glad doesn’t make sense if you would

have been here she expresses her pain

and disappointment to Jesus point is

okay to be honest in your prayers then

neither sister is condemned because they

express disappointment with God God’s

son after she expresses her

disappointment she goes on to say in

verse 22 even now I know that whatever

you ask of God God will give to you whoa

I don’t want you to miss this Jesus

verse 21 I’m hurt

because I needed you and you didn’t come

but however in spite of my pain I know

my beliefs and if you call on the father

now as bad as this situation is he will

still honor your request so she marries

watch this she marries her emotions with

her theology so you want to always have

a theological and doctrinal foundation

when you are emoting over your

circumstances

she is emoting about her pain but

retreating to her theology that’s why

you need to learn doctrine she says look

right now I’m disappointed but I know

what I believe and I’m going to appeal

to what I believe in spite of how I feel

right now so you need to learn some

theology and doctrine because that will

ground you when the emotions are doing

this and when you’re in a crisis that’s

what the emotions do as you’ll see here

in a second

Jesus says to her your brother will rise

again she says to Jesus yeah yeah no I

learned theology went to eschatology

class on the last day he gonna rise I

know I know about that then Jesus hits

her with another theology can I talk

some theology here because I want to

ground you I want to root you he says I

am the resurrection and the life he who

believes in Me will live even if he dies

doctrine is critical but doctrine is

always to lead to a person if all you

get is doctrine you may be heavy in the

head with information but light on the

experience you may know about the

resurrection but never experience one

because he says the resurrection that’s

doctrinal is tied to a person so here

this point the written word must always

lead you to the Living Word if you see

we have two extremes some are so

Orthodox with the written word that they

can quote the Bible quanto theology

quote the doctrine but never have the

experience because they are tethered to

the written word alone this other side

wants to fall in love with Jesus with no

doctrine so they live on the emotion of

the experience without the end

underpinning of theology you need the

doctrine to know what to believe you

need the person to make it experiential

in your belief if you read the Bible but

you don’t see Jesus your eyes say close

even though your heart burns at the

Bible study he told her that he told the

Pharisees he says you you search the

scriptures you read your Bible but you

still don’t experience me so the goal of

this church the goal of your life is

through the written word to come into an

experience of the Living Word which the

Holy Spirit offers to every believer who

seeks to do that ok let me run one cuz

because I’m just in the introduction ok

no just kidding

says I’m the resurrection he says at the

end of verse 26 do you believe this this

is gonna be critical this is gonna be

this will change your life do you

believe this she says yes I believe you

are the Christ the Son of God who comes

into the world now it’s Mary’s turn Mary

not coming to Jesus she’s too

disappointed and let’s tell the truth

sometimes you’re so disappointed with

Jesus you don’t want to talk to it the

game I raised here to tell you don’t

wanna pray no more okay good because

he’s not moving he came too late should

have been here yesterday okay that kind

of thing so she one side so Jesus calls

her he says Mary come on come on come

talk to me now he bids us come she gets

up quickly because he invited her and

then she tells him verse 32 if you would

have been here my brother would not have

died now in verse 33 everybody’s crying

we’ve got a weeping time because when

you’re in pain you’re going to cry if

it’s hurts bad enough when you have your

crisis it will bring you to tears if it

hurts bad enough in your particular

situation but I feel much better in

verse 35 the shortest verse in the Bible

when I read Jesus wept he wasn’t too big

to cry he the son of God Jesus cried why

because Hebrews chapter 4 verses 14 to

16 says that he sympathizes with our

infirmities he hurts with our pain I

have good news when tears are coming

down your eyes they’re coming down his

eyes because the Bible says he feels

your pain he feels what you feel when

you’re in a crisis so now Jesus raises

the question where have you laid him

where is he buried so they come to take

Jesus to a was buried and he stirred up

verse 38 sense

he’s deeply moved within he’s moved at

the sin and the pain that the world

offers that creates sickness in the

first place

without sin there would be no sickness

without not not personal sin necessarily

but atmospherics in the germs the

viruses the bacterias that infiltrate

our body the toxins all of that is the

environmental repercussions of sin and

he was stirred up and the crisis that

they were in and the reasons for it and

so he says stay with me here verse 39

Martha remove the stone

Martha’s response Martha said to him

Lord by this time there will be a cinch

for he has been dead for days

remember that delay by this time he

sinks jesus said move the stone she says

let me give you a lesson in mortuary

science he been dead for days rigor

mortis has set in which means the cells

have collapsed when rigor mortis sets in

and the cells collapse it releases a

green substance when this green

substance is released because ricca

mortis has set in because the cells has

collapsed that produces a stench because

of the decay

he said remove the stone and what what

did he tell her he said did not I say to

you if you believe you would see the

glory of God in other words here it is

faith must always precede sight once you

put sight in front of faith because you

were from Missouri once you put sight in

front of faith you’ve negated faith

faith is based on what you do not see if

you’ve got to see it first you won’t see

it

No and how would she demonstrate faith

not by a feeling but by removing the

stone because faith is not a feeling

it’s an actions as you’ve heard me say

many times faith is acting like God is

telling the truth it is acting like it

is so even when it’s mad so in order

that it might be so simply because God

said so so you move in faith even when

you don’t feel it sometimes you’re gonna

feel faith ish got faith all over you

you just feel it

sometimes you won’t ever feel faith ish

but you can know you’re operating in

faith because you move in the stone so

some of us have situations that have not

changed because we still have been

conversations and have not touched the

stone the thing that God told us to do

that we refused to do which keeps the

stone there which means there’s no faith

no matter how much church you have then

Jesus raised his eyes and said father I

thank you that you have heard me oh

that’s theology there you’re praying

through a crisis you’re talking to God

but here’s what you want you want Jesus

talking to God for you see you gotta

talk to him first but what you want is

Jesus to ditto the requests then not

until there was an act of faith Jesus

says to his father I thank you that you

have heard me oh so you can’t miss Jesus

does not waste words now only does he

not waste words he does not waste tenses

of words he didn’t say I thank you that

you hear me I thank you that you heard

me which means we’ve already discussed

this crisis that Lazarus is in when they

prayed the first time at the beginning

of chapter 11 you and I father had a

conversation so now Jesus praise I thank

you’ve heard me I know that you always

hear me but because of the people

standing around

I said it so that they might believe

that you sent me ah now we got a clue

Jesus holds off on answering the prayer

because he wants to use the crisis to

bring a lot of people to salvation oh so

now there is a spiritual reason for a

crisis delay in spite of a prayer being

prayed because there’s a bigger Kingdom

purpose at work than just the healing of

Lazarus if you’re in a crisis and God

has not moved and you’re operating by

faith all that means is the delay is

tied to a bigger point that God wants to

accomplish for his glory

the and the amplification of the name of

his son and the advancement of his

kingdom so you keep praying to a crisis

if you’ve not heard no then you keep

praying so so Jesus prays it’s called

intercession Hebrews 7 24 and 25 where

God Jesus intercedes as our counselor he

goes before us and he delivers us out of

us think his situation because guess

what he says verse 43 Lazarus come forth

so Lazarus walks out of the tomb kinda

here’s my final point as he’s exiting

the tomb the man who had died came forth

bound hand and foot with wrappings his

face was wrapped around with a cloth

jesus said to them unbind him and let

him go hmm when Lazarus has life but

what he doesn’t have is freedom

because he’s bound his hands were bound

his feet was bound he’s wrapped like a

mummy you wrap a mummy he’s wrapped from

head all the way to to the toe so he has

life but no liberty everybody in this

morning who’s a Christian that means you

have life but not everybody who’s a

Christian has liberty you may be bound

by an addiction bound by an emotional

struggle bound by a health situation

something may be holding you hostage

even though you have life now watch this

Jesus gave him life but Jesus did not

directly give him liberty he said he

told them to unloose him and let him go

let me explain something good Jesus

Christ

wants to give every sinful person

eternal life he offers life through his

blood but he sets folk free through his

people he still does it but he does it

through his people that’s why God wants

every Christian to be an active part of

a local church so that you can be

unwrapped if you’re trapped or so you

can unwrap somebody else

if you have been unwrapped yourself God

never meant for you to come once a week

to hear somebody preached the Bible

alone he wants you part of a family so

you can be in the unwrapping untying and

deliverance business so that you can be

helping somebody else and somebody helps

you he wants us unbound from this habit

that happened this sin that sin this

circumstance that’s what the church is

supposed to be it’s not any a weekly

event it is a family relationship where

folks are being loosed and set free

that’s why that’s why the book of

Matthew chapter 10 verse 8 says if

you’ve been freed free somebody else

Galatians chapter 6 5 verse 13 says

through the Liberty that you have

serve somebody else and if you’re not

serving others in the family of faith

but you’re only coming to serve yourself

that’s not called worship service that’s

called worship selfish because you’re

just in this for what you’re gonna get

out of it and you will always limit what

God does for you if you can’t work

through you to do it for somebody else

so we are in the untying business of

losing people and letting them go so in

closing I know there are many crises

here but I want you to pray through it

even if it’s gotten worse and not better

because I want to let you know right now

that God can turn things around for his

own purpose

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life wouldn’t be life without a crisis

would it even one just came out of one

or in or later you’ll run into one

things that overwhelm you

well I want you to join me in praying

through the crisis the thing where you

are desperate for God and make sure you

connect your prayer with obedience when

prayer becomes connected with doing what

God told you to do then not only do you

get to pray you get to see Jesus pray on

your behalf or as the scripture says to

make intercession for us when you’re in

a crisis you need an inner seat of

somebody to help you out Jesus Christ is

so situated to be that supernatural help

so in your crisis get a partner in

prayer through your prayer and your

obedience and let’s see what miracle

awaits you

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