It’s okay to have doubts –– just don’t let them be dead ends.

of course you’ll have doubts just don’t

let them be dead ends and a lot of

people stand at the dead end of a

destiny that God is bringing them into

because they will not walk through the

doubt to get to the promise I meet these

people and they say things to me because

of my profession I guess they make

assumptions about me because there’s a

reven front of my name they make

assumptions about me that I don’t have

real doubts what one gentleman that I

was doing business with he put it this

way he was like I envy you because I

would love to have faith I always wanted

to believe in God but I just always am

the kind of person that doubts a lot and

I envy you that you don’t have those

doubts now here’s what I should have

said back to him it only took me four

months to come up with this

because he is assuming that faith is the

absence of doubt for me faith has never

been the absence of doubt faith that’s

not the absence of doubt it is the means

to overcome it do you hear what I’m

saying because we get in church and we

just all go into this walking dead

willing suspension of disbelief and we

just believe things that have no impact

on our everyday life just like we’re

binge watching Netflix like I’m just

gonna watch this for a little while and

here this little comforting word but

then we go out into the world and we

weed out the stuff but we can’t say weed

out the stuff cuz doubt is bad because

isn’t doubt bad one time I even had a

campus pastor who was giving an

invitation like we will give in a moment

for people who want to place their faith

in Christ and when we do it at our

church we have people repeat a prayer

it’s just a means of allowing them to

express their heart to God so that they

can have a moment that they look back on

and say I place my trust in Christ and

to me that prayer is a very sacred

moment it’s not a time for people to get

their person get out and beat the

parking and it’s not a time for someone

who’s preaching to start sharing their

opinions that is a time to present the

gospel and get out of the way cuz only

God can save a person and now well I

believe this campus pastor meant well

but what he said I had to correct him on

later

and I’m not a mean guy and I make

mistakes up here too but to me he made a

really big mistake when he was praying

the prayer because he was inviting the

people to pray and he said if you want

to give your heart to Christ today and

know for sure that you have a

relationship with him pray this you know

Lord Jesus I believe that I’m a sinner

in need of a savior and I believe

without a doubt that’s the party should

have left out I believe without a doubt

that Jesus Christ the Son of God and the

savior of the world did I give you my

life all of it was good

it was appropriate and there is no other

way to be saved but to confess with your

mouth Jesus is Lord believe in your

heart god raised him from the dead you

shall be saved but that one

parenthetical insert without a doubt I

told him never again when you stand in

the pulpit at elevation do I want you to

put people in a position where you’re

telling them to pray something that they

can’t honestly pray as a matter of fact

don’t put them in a position to pray

something that you can’t honestly pray

because there is not one of you in the

room even with tabs in your pink Bible

that can honestly say without a doubt

not a one of you and if you can hang on

you hadn’t had teenagers yet

somebody took my backside back me up on

this the triumph of my faith is not the

absence of doubt the triumph of my faith

is the ability for the light to shine in

the deepest darkest recesses of my heart

I got doubts but I trust him anyway so

my faith can say even though I walk

through the valley of the shadow of

death and the shadow of doubt and the

shadow of dysfunction I will fear no

evil it’s not that I don’t go through

valleys I don’t die there even though I

walk through the valley of the shadow of

death this is Christmas reaching people

even

though throw us in the fire our God is

able to deliver us but even if he

doesn’t we will not bow our knee to you

O king Nebuchadnezzar I know Lazarus is

dead but if Jesus is on the scene every

tenant is a destiny waiting to begin I

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have my doubts I don’t believe this

because I don’t doubt it

if you don’t doubt it you’re not reading

it

or you’re reading it with no intent to

live in my doubt is the evidence of my

growth is the closer I get the more

questions I have I struggled to believe

it that I’m forgiven that he forgives me

not only for what I did before I

accepted him but for what I still do Oh

y’all are gonna look at me like that on

Christmas that’s what you brought me

that face maybe he could forgive the

past stuff but what about the present

stuff what about that yeah I I have my

doubts I have my faith well I have my

doubts my man thought he couldn’t come

to Christ cuz he had the house he

thought that belief was the absence of

doubt he didn’t have the revelation that

real belief is the willingness to stand

on it even when you can’t see it feel it

or explain it I I have my doubts I read

that if any man is in Christ he’s a new

creation and the old is gone in the

newest come but that verse is still in

progress in my life there’s still some

old stuff in me comes out in traffic

hello I have my doubts I have my doubts

I have my doubts I read that whom the

Sun sets free is free indeed

but sometimes I feel bound by stuff I

have my doubts is that all right do you

need to find another Church now that you

know that the dude with the mic has some

doubts I have my

I have my doubts and Abby is already

doing the thing that you all we all do

at some point in our life if we try to

be religious where she’s going well she

said the other day where did God come

from and I’m like you’re six

can he just have always been there at

age six do we really have to start this

now but that was about the same time I

did it and she said it so funny it was

like she had me on a witness stand or

something she said I bet she was waiting

for me to get home from work because she

asked Holly and Holly said you gonna ask

your dad but that he’d be home in a

couple of hours and she said I have he’s

got a question for you and Abby said

where did God come from and who made him

and don’t just say he’s always been

there and I’m going already yeah already

this is the first gift of mystery that

heaven is giving to my daughter it is

the beginning of a lifetime of learning

the art of faith which Richard Rohr

suggests is patience with mystery not

the absence of it patience with it to

take Mary home even when you don’t know

where this is headed so I did not give

her a cookie cutter answer partially

because she’s smarter than me and would

have seen right through it

and said I welcome the mystery and I

said I used to lay awake in my bed to

thinking about that when I was a little

boy I was probably seven or eight

because boys are two years behind but I

had that same thing I just could never

make sense of it and I still haven’t I

have my doubts but I believe it I

believe that while I was watching my dad

died and I had to preach my stuff back

to myself and I didn’t have the

protective insulation of this to stand

behind or this to hole yes sir it’s a

real it’s a real problem because a lot

of people are waiting for the doubt to

disappear let’s take the next step the

faith if the absence of doubt was a

prerequisite for being used by God Mary

could not have been the mother of Jesus

over here the angel is talking to Joseph

but before he came to Joseph he spoke to

Mary he spoke to them separately because

you have to experience faith for

yourself you have to make your own

decision as to who God is and what he

means to you so while he was speaking to

Joseph who had to endure the

embarrassment of walking through this

next season he was speaking to Mary and

you’re familiar with the story but just

put it on the screens real quick this is

Luke 1 where he said to Mary greetings

you who are highly favored the Lord is

with you that’s the verdict before I

give you the particulars of the

situation I want to bring you back to

the thing that you can always know in

every season of your life if you choose

to believe in

your verdict should you choose to accept

it God is with me God is for me you are

highly favored God is for you and he is

with you in this moment now I got

something I got to tell you the angel

starts off by reminding Mary of his

presence and it says that Mary was

greatly troubled at his words now what’s

there to be troubled about all he said

was hello God likes you seem like Giada

high-fived and this father but she

wondered what this greeting might be

often the first impulse when God really

shows up in your life is fear and it is

only in pushing through the fear that

you find the love of God on the other

side of your fear what’s this all about

but the angel said to her don’t be

afraid Mary you have found favor with

God you have found favor with God and I

got an assignment for you because he

found favor with God you will be with

child and give birth to a son and you

are to give him the name Jesus he will

be great and will be called the son of

the Most High the Lord God will give him

the throne of his father David and he

will reign over the house of Jacob

forever his kingdom will never end

now watch Mary’s response well praise

the Lord and glory to God in the highest

and peace on earth and goodwill to men

on whom his favor rests and your words

to me are like drops of gold assurance

in a heart for now Mary said first thing

out of her mouth was how I know how

pregnancy works how am i pregnant I

promised God me and Joseph been keeping

it clean I promise God we have not been

in the backseat of a camel akai promise

how

her first instinct is not yes

it’s how that is always the response

when God really nots

how how can i really be forgiven by

someone who died on a cross before I was

ever born how can somebody else’s death

really affect my life how that’s a good

starting place how can you really use me

look at me

I’m nobody I’m nothing how how how can I

move forward after this how can I

believe that I still will see the

goodness of the Lord in the land of the

living

how how how see the greatest gifts that

God ever gives are on the other side of

your hell on the other side of your

question on the other side of your I

don’t get it on the other side of your I

don’t understand on the other side of

who me on the other side of what now on

the other side of why this that’s where

the gift is and you shall find the babe

wrapped in swaddling clothes and lying

in the manger God wrapped his son in

something that looks so common that you

would walk by it if you weren’t looking

for it because the greatest gifts that

God gives are wrapped in doubt

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when the promise is wrapped in doubt for

a reason because if he gave you proof

you wouldn’t need faith hey thanks for

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