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when you keep walking in that
forgiveness what it does for you but
also what it does for them that’s
what i think the apostle paul
meant forgive but being an act of
comforting kindness to that
person i think it helps us to
go through the layers the
depths to make sure that we
actually forgive that person
and live it in a practical way
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we’re going to have to be empowered by the
holy spirit to forgive that way to
live like this to show
compassion when people
wrong us have wronged or
offended us i heard someone
say you’ve probably
heard it before that unforgiveness and like
drinking poison and wanting them to kill
the other person but you’re consuming that
over and over and over again
this idea that if you knew you
‘re taking in something that’s poison
in a physical sense
and that’s what makes you toxic ic
and keeps you from feeling good to
function in all areas of
your life is well physically we would
stop taking this substance
if we know that unforgiveness
is the cause of this problem on a spiritual level
we are less willing to
ask this cup and stopped drinking this
unforgiveness it’s toxic to
us
it’s toxic in the spiritual sense and it’s
toxic in the physical sense
people’s physical bodies are breaking down
under the weight of unforgiveness
it is losing throughout lifelong i
think this is an important conversation
i looked on my phone for
a second to try and find the
exact verse but the apostle paul talks about
forgiveness in this beautiful verse he says
forgive and show kindness to
the person you forgave
basically it’s almost like going through
the different layers of forgiveness like
you mentioned crystal it’s almost
like he’s saying what will help
you and the other person is not
just saying that you are forgiving
which is important to believe in having
faith that you are forgiving that person
but also to walk into that actual forgiveness
by doing any intentional act of kindness
whatsoever just a smile in their face
you see them somewhere you
smile at them or you text them happy
birthday you bring them a meal
when they are sick something is going on
what it does for
you continuing to solidify the work of
forgiveness in you and also what it does
for them and maybe getting them out of
that situation where they’re walking on
eggshells wondering if they
‘ve been forgiven or not or even
breaking down and chiseling the hardness of
heart that person maybe didn’t
say they were sorry maybe
it chisels a bit when you
keep walking in that forgiveness what it
does for you but also what it
does for you r them thats what i think
the apostle paul meant forgive
but being an act of comforting
kindness to that person i
think it helps us to go through
the layers the depths to make
sure we forgive actually to
that person and we’re living it in
a practical way you know when you
just said it’s like drinking
poison and expecting them to kill
the other person and I was just like
why is that that I will drink poison
yes why and I think there are
several reasons the first is
that we do not realize that it is
poison it reminds me of
people who say all the time
that we are what we eat and if
we know things are not good
for us why eat them well
sometimes it tastes good pretty good
exactly
but if you have ever eaten
something for the first time which
may not be your favorite initially
and you continue z to eat it after
a while you get used to it and
i think the unforgivable
tastes good after a while i am
so actually you can get used
to feeling comfortable with the feeling 2
i don’t don’t give you what you need
especially if you talk about it especially if
you talk about it we can get drunk on no
sorry yes
I’m thinking of the person listening to you
while we’re talking she says it’s
cute
you’re starting to feel the power
of the holy spirit when it works and you
start to feel that conviction and
i’ve seen women do it i’ve
seen them do yes
but i don’t call it i’ve seen this
in my own life where there is had
something that’s so hard where forgiveness
is so much what i don’t want to
do that i’m willing to sit with
the thing that’s not good for me
because he knows hard
dieting well it could also be that you
have changed your group of friends in common
than the negative thing you are talking about z
de gonna make changes it’s true
you have to make changes i’m
just thinking about the person watching and
we’ve said it before but i just want to
point out that poison even if you
don’t feel like it you you does
not mean there is no
negative reaction in your heart and
mind forgiveness if you know there is
someone you do not
forgive if there is i am sitting here
saying to myself ok what do i want to
remove from my system that is not good
for me i am not
actively thinking and how can i
forgive and how can i
be kind proverb 17 ,9
it says he who covers and forgives an
offense seeks love
how many times do we want to seek to
be right
more than to seek love that’s what
it’s about I’m right c was wrong you
shouldn’t have done this to me i ruminate on it
i keep it as you say
because i’m right
we should want what is right
in the eyes of god more than we want to
be right even if we are right
we are wrong
in the eyes of god if we don’t seek
forgiveness and love as you said
you can sit with but
are you looking for what god wants
are you looking for love is what you
‘re looking for to be told you’re
right well i think with
kindness can also be a prayer
there are some people you
can’t reconcile or that you
can’t do an act of kindness
and leave maybe it’s someone
of the opposite sex you’re saying i ca
n’t go bring them a meal that’s gonna
totally ruin what you want to
do we broke up with whatever
it’s inappropriate at this time
just let’s be clear in his words i
can bring a meal want to kill the
dinners i’ll show you my forgiveness
for the way you treated me so here’s
a meal no it’s terrible maybe
an act of kindness is to pray
for them and t if your prayers his god i
pray that he has an accident or
whatever its not a good triary its
not kindness but your prayer can
be god i took the best for him
when you get to this point then you
know something has changed in
your heart you don’t deprive god
of bringing justice to the price and god
of bringing love and restoration
for them that’s not to say
reconciliation i think an act
kindness to be recognized it can be
prayer
maybe it’s the way you
talk about them yes or you do
n’t talk about wii and you stop i
just think we need we need to
clarify at the site because it ca
n’t be a meal with the ex don’t come
near that moment no matter how
successful it’s the goodness of your heart
it’s the heart to do you know what you
I want to be pure in front of you I want
showing love is what i say
what i don’t say and how i respond
and what i don’t do e t how i
pray for them and cross for them the
best is yet to come in their
lives it is a matter of the heart
because it is pray for those who
persecute you
pray for those who are wronged against
you pray for this j
experienced it myself i was praying and i was like
god
you know i don’t feel like
i mean it but i will keep doing
it until you change my heart i
will out of obedience for you
not because i’m so good but
only out of obedience when you
pray in obedience god can
change your heart shalom i hope
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