Going Beyond Ministries with Priscilla Shirer – A Perfectly Patient God

Priscilla Shirer (born December 31, 1974) is an American author, motivational speaker, actress, and Christian evangelist. Her father is Dallas mega-church pastor Tony Evans and her brother is Christian entertainer Anthony Evans.
The daughter of Tony Evans, senior pastor of Oak Cliff Bible Fellowship Church in Dallas, Texas,[1] Priscilla grew up well acquainted with the Bible. As a freshman at the University of Houston, she interned with a Christian radio station. Soon listeners were calling the station, inviting Priscilla to speak at their Bible study groups and other events. Soon she was invited to lead a weekly Bible study at the Zig Ziglar Corporation and then to join its speaker team. Priscilla has worked as an independent contractor for CBS and hosted a local television show, but recently she has focused solely on Christian ministry opportunities. She calls Anne Graham Lotz, daughter of evangelist Rev. Billy Graham, her mentor in ministry.

Together the Shirers established Going Beyond Ministries, a speaking bureau featuring Priscilla. The parents of three young boys, the Shirers share ministry and family responsibilities. While Priscilla continues to minister full-time, Jerry manages his schedule and other business aspects of Going Beyond Ministries.

Priscilla speaks around the world at churches and other events, including the LifeWay Christian Resources-sponsored Going Beyond conference and Deeper Still: The Event, where she shares the stage with Beth Moore and Kay Arthur. She has also authored several books.

Shirer graduated from Duncanville High School and Dallas Theological Seminary, earning a master’s degree from the latter in Biblical Studies.

In 1993, Shirer was a freshman at the University of Houston. Shirer was married in 1999 to Jerry Shirer, former Hilton Hotels executive. The couple has three sons.

In 2013, Shirer was a speaker at the 2013 Women of Faith conference. In 2015, Shirer made her film debut in the Kendrick Brothers film War Room. In October 2016, Shirer was recognized as one of four prominent women of faith during the 10th anniversary of God’s Leading Ladies Life Enrichment Program at The Potter’s House.[1] Shirer also featured at the 47th GMA Dove Awards.

well hello to all of you I bring you

greetings from Dallas Texas thank you so

much for having us thank you so much for

having us here in Chicago where it is

cold Jerry and I are privileged to be

here and it is an honor for me very very

humbling that the Lord would allow me to

participate in something like this at a

place that I so admire and have for so

many years the legacy of Moody has been

a part of my life in some form or

fashion for a very very long time I’ve

got this daddy named Tony Evans and just

for the record I thought that man

everything he knows

and my father has been in partnership

with moody in some former fashion for

nearly three decades and so I as a

teenager remember sitting by and

listening and overhearing conversations

happening between our friend Greg

Thornton and other members of the

publishing department and broadcasting

arms I remember being in that home that

pastor Colin talked about where we were

a part of what God was doing and because

of that the influence of Moody has been

a part of my life and now the life of my

own children as well

Moody was the first place

Greg Thornton to be specific that put a

pen in my hand and said you could write

you could write something that could be

a blessing to others and he encouraged

and continues to encourage us and so it

is an honor for myself and my husband to

be here and to be able to share

something that I pray will be a blessing

in your life I’m just glad that you all

stayed because after what pastor Colin

just preached I feel like we have had a

word today can anybody say amen to that

and so thank you for being here I’m

excited about what God might share with

us before we break this afternoon and

how hopefully he will put a period put

an exclamation point feel in your heart

this pursuit of holiness Lord Jesus

thank you so much for your word thank

you that it is living and active and

sharper than any two-edged sword thank

you Lord that you have allowed us to

come into your presence today and that

we have the privilege to hear you speak

to us through the scriptures Lord the

best I can do the best of anyone that

stands on this platform can do is speak

a general word to an audience full of

people with so many different

backgrounds from so many different

cultures facing so many different life

circumstances but what the Holy Spirit

can do is take that one message and

divide it up thousands of different ways

so that every person here is a direct

personal word from God we are expecting

that but the words of my mouth and the

meditation of my heart be acceptable in

Jesus name Amen

I have three siblings we are four of us

all together I’ve got an older sister

her name is crystal she is at home right

now helping me with my children she

homeschools her children and we live

next door to each other and so my three

boys are now with her three boys she’s

got six of them right now

Lord bless her an older sister and I

have two younger brothers

Anthony jr. and Jonathan jr. my youngest

brother we call John John because he’s

the baby of the bunch and my baby

brother does what baby brothers

I’m sure anywhere and everywhere always

do when he comes over to my house now as

an adult he goes straight to the

refrigerator or to the pantry and

forages around for anything that he can

find to eat and he was doing this

recently he was at at our house he

walked in he went over immediately to

the refrigerator he opened up the

refrigerator and began looking through

it trying to find something that he

could sink his teeth into and as he

looked into the refrigerator he was

reminded of something that he wanted to

share with me and so right there in the

kitchen he started to tell me a story

about his oldest child who is five years

old now her name is Kelsey she is my

niece he said for some I don’t think I

told you something about Kelsey for when

she was two and I want to tell you this

story he began to tell me that when

Kelsey was two years old when she was a

toddler and she was hungry she would

walk over to the big box in the kitchen

that had the food in it she would point

at the refrigerator and say he he said I

would then go and pick up my sweet

little precious toddler I would take her

over to the booster seat that was

attached to the chair at the kitchen

table I would put her in the booster

seat so that I could get her some food

but in her little two-year-old mind she

now was just far removed from the big

box that had the food in it so she would

throw a temper tantrum and cry a river

of tears and wiggle her way out of the

chair and then March and stamp her

little feet back across the kitchen

floor to the big box that had the food

in it point at it and say eat he said so

then I would pick her up I would take

her back across the kitchen put her in

the booster seat she would

cry a river of tears throw a temper

tantrum wiggle her way out of that chair

March her little sassy self back across

the kitchen point to the big box that

had the food in it and say eat he said

so then I would go pick her up and I

would take her back across the kitchen

floor sit her in the booster seat we

would go through this over and over and

over again and at the time he was

telling me this story he was giggling a

little bit but he said Priscilla let’s

be clear at the time this was actually

happening that one anything funny about

it

I was trying to get her to understand

that where I was putting her was

actually where she needed to be in order

to be positioned for what it was she was

requesting that she was fighting against

me when all I was trying to do was sell

her in the right environment so that she

would be prepared to receive what she

was requesting in the first place and I

giggled and laughed as I thought about

little Kelsey I could just picture her

doing this as he was telling me the

story and as I laughed right there in

the kitchen the Holy Spirit stopped me

in my tracks and said Priscilla don’t

last too long or too hard because that

would be you I’m the one that the Lord

has had to be patient with when he put

me in the right places or with the right

people or has sent me in a specific

direction and I have rebelled against

that direction or gone against the

conviction in the leading of the Holy

Spirit or just tried to ignore them or

circumvent them he has had to be patient

with me just like John John had to be

patient with this little girl who could

not quite understand the very thing that

I often have difficulty understanding

that we have a father who actually knows

best and we should just trust him and so

right there in the kitchen I became

grateful more than ever for the patience

of God the long-suffering nature of our

God toward us that that we can’t wear

god out that he doesn’t need a good nap

before he can handle what’s going on in

our lives

our God is a long-suffering but he is

slow to anger

patience is great that is love endures

forever that is mercy is extravagant

that is Grace is boundless I’m happy

about that today anybody happy about

that today and so I became grateful for

the patience of God more than ever on

that day it freed me up as I suspect it

might you to as I talk to you for just a

few moments about the patience of God

because when you understand that you

actually don’t have the capacity to

where God out it keeps you an eye from

walking on eggshells in our relationship

with God stepping gingerly and carefully

and cautiously because we are concerned

that if we have one more mistake or one

more misstep or we in some way go around

this that the wise counsel of God that

he might be finished with us that this

might be the time that it is a straw

that breaks the camel’s back and he puts

us on the Shelf and he can no longer use

us because we did that or said that or

with there or our past is riddled with

that particular action a revelation of

the patience of God toward us as we this

week concern holiness and pursue

holiness in our life if we will remember

that God’s patience is on our side that

we can’t where god out on the journey

the enemy would have it that you and I

are so shackled by our fear and

insecurity that God might have just had

enough of us he wants to so shackle up

with that fear in that guilt in that

sense of condemnation that we never get

around to what John 10:10 says that he

came to give us and that is abundant

living you can’t live abundantly when

you’re shackled by fear and the patience

of God knowing fully grasping and

understanding and appreciating the

patience of God can set you free so I

want to talk to you for just a few

moments moment about one of the

characteristics of God that I think is

possibly one of the least discussed one

of the least written about his

patience most of the time when we think

about God we think about his his power

as it is demonstrated so we consider how

in the Old Testament he was powerful

enough to cause the Red Sea to divide or

the walls of Jericho to come tumbling

down or how in the New Testament we

consider Holly was powerful enough to

cause Lazarus to be raised from the dead

but I want you to think about with me

for a few moments today the flipside of

God’s power the God’s power is not only

seen in what he releases God’s power is

also seen in how he restrains himself

from giving us what we rightfully

deserves God’s power is not only seen in

what he does sometimes God’s power is

seen in what he chooses not to do

patience when we think about it in a

human sense it is a characteristic and

attribute of humanity that most of us

struggle with I will be honest with you

and tell you that I am naturally an

impatient person I am prone to impatient

when there is a problem that needs to be

solved I have come up with a solution to

that problem in the first 5 minutes that

we ever had a problem and I am ready to

get on with the business of going ahead

and figuring out how we’re going to get

to the end of this thing as quickly as

possible now it might not be a good

solution but I’ve got a solution on the

table I’m ready to get after it

I’m an impatient person that is my

tendency I think there are probably

others of you who will admit to being

impatient people can I get one witness

in here please don’t make me feel like

I’m alone thank you

do you know the way that God cures or

helps us to mature I should say in our

level of patience is that he puts us in

a scenario where we have to wait so he

will allow you for example to marry

somebody who takes 24 48 72 hours to

make a decision

about anything

in my marriage with my husband Jerry

when we have a problem in the first five

minutes I have come up with a solution

Susan not my man he’s going to think

about it pray about it fast on it sleep

on it ask wise counsel regarding it lord

help me help me

most of the time when Jerry comes up

with a solution it is the exact same

solution I had in the first five minutes

that we ever had that’s actually not

true Jerry because he sinks through the

consequences because he takes time to

deliberate and consider what this one

decision will actually mean because he

has patience he makes wise decisions in

that dynamic of marriage the Lord is

teaching me he is growing in me

he is maturing in me patience the reason

why you might work next to that person

on your job that you know if they say

one more thing to you you go nuts them

out the reason why the Lord might allow

you to be in that scenario is because in

that dynamic he is growing and maturing

in you

so because patience is a characteristic

that most of us as human beings have to

mature in then we assume and put that

same dynamic on God we think that

because we’re unsteady in our level of

patience that God must be as well that

since we have to mature in it God must

have to mature in it as well we wouldn’t

say that out of our mouths but we live

like that we treat him and so he has to

develop to grow more in order to be able

to handle where we’ve been and what

we’ve done in the mistakes that might

come even in the future as we pursue

holiness but our God does it has to grow

in his level of patience he is

completely perfect 100% of the time the

essence of all the patience was ever

meant to be our God already is in fact

when you think about it of all of the

links in the chain that make up the

character of our great God his

omniscience and omnipresence and his

sovereignty and holiness all the links

in the chain when you think about it

patience is really the most central and

most critical and most important of all

of the links in the chain because if it

were not for the patience of God we

wouldn’t exist long enough to get to the

grace and the mercy and the omniscience

and the omnipresence it is because our

God is patient that we get to experience

all that he is

one scholar put it like this I love it

so much it is his patience that held our

sinful hands and led us to the doorstep

of his mercy so that we might enter in

his patience rolls out the red carpet

for us to experience God fully I’m

grateful for the patience of God I’m

grateful that that Exodus chapter 34

says he is slow to anger and great in

power of course he has a real sense of

justice and righteousness that he must

serve the wrath of God is a very real

thing but what I want you to just

understand for today is that he does not

have knee-jerk reactions born out of

frustration like we might with a person

or a toddler that is asking the same

question ten times in a row he doesn’t

have that same threshold of impatience

like we do he is God

he’s not applying for the job he just is

the only one suited to fit the role one

of the clearest places in scripture

where God patience is brought up is in

the book of first Timothy so if you have

your your Bible or your iPad your iPhone

any manner of imus just flip on over to

first Timothy because in first Timothy

in the very first chapter the Apostle

Paul is speaking he is writing to a

young preacher named Timothy he’s going

to tell him a lot of stuff about life

and about ministry and how to be

successful in the role to which God has

called him but right in the very first

chapter of the very first letter he

prioritizes a message about the patience

of God I suspect because Paul knows that

that Tim’s going to make some mistakes

that there are going to be some missteps

along the way because there are for all

of us in life and ministry and so he

wants Paul to have just like I believe

the Holy Spirit wants you and I to have

today

a revelation of how patient and

extravagant extravagantly loving kind

our God is to us first Timothy chapter 1

verse 16 says this and yet for this

reason I found mercy in order that in me

as the foremost Jesus Christ might

demonstrate here it is his perfect

patience what kind of patience is it

y’all His perfect patience as an example

for those who would believe in him for

eternal life let’s just start right here

Paul paints a beautiful picture of the

patience of God and he says I want you

to know that the are God’s patience is

not just great and it’s not just good

it’s not just amazing he says his

patience is absolutely perfect which

means when you go to the furthest

extreme the furthest reaches of that

which represents the patience of God you

cannot find one little bit of

imperfection even at its most extreme

his patience is completely perfect and

pulse are just in case you’re unsure

today just in case because of where

you’ve been or what you’ve done or the

thoughts you’ve had or the missteps

you’ve made along the way just in case

you’re unsure whether God has enough

patience to handle you and to handle

your life or to handle me and my life

Paul says would you please just take a

look at me because I am a demonstration

of how patient our God must be now Paul

doesn’t give us any details he just

tells us I am the foremost he means I am

the chief of all sinners he’s basically

saying you ain’t done nothing I have not

already done you haven’t gone anywhere I

haven’t gone your hands haven’t touched

anything in your eyes haven’t seen

anything your ears have now heard

anything but mine have not he basically

is saying listen I have been in a pit

that is deeper than anything you could

ever dig for yourself and if our God had

the mercy and the Grace and the loving

kindness to reach down into my pit and

pull me out of that pit Paul said you

ought to just be expecting the fact that

the same God who did that for me is the

exact same God who can do that for you

his great

is sufficient his patience is capable of

handling any and every situation that

may exist in our lives

Paul says I’m a demonstration of how

perfectly patient God yes I love how

this verse starts in the new American

Standard Bible that I am using new

American Standard Version the first

three words a few words are and yet for

this reason I like one versus start that

way because they give me sort of a

compass they offer me some direction as

to how I’m supposed to the context in

which I’m supposed to set this

particular verse into and yet for this

reason it’s kind of like when you see

the word therefore in Scripture anytime

you see the word therefore you do need

to figure out what it’s there for

because it is there for a reason and

this verse is the same yet for this

reason which means there are some

reasons that Paul has already listed in

this text that drew him to the

conclusion of verse 16 he didn’t just

come up with it out of thin air he wrote

down some specific reasons that led him

to write in verse 16 that our God is

extravagantly perfectly patient I figure

that for just a few moments what you and

I could do would be to backtrack up

through the text just a few verses so

that we can figure out what the reasons

are I want to know what they are and it

occurs to me that as you and I see these

reasons that he points out about himself

being a demonstration of the perfect

patience of God by the time we finish we

will not only see that he Paul is a

demonstration of how perfect God’s

patience is but actually every person

sitting in this room and Beyond is a

demonstration of how perfect God’s

patience is as well so let’s take a

journey together we’re going to start in

verse 15 to find out what the reasons

are so just backtrack up with me just

one verse verse 15 is where we find our

first reason it says there it is a

trustworthy statement deserving full

acceptance that Christ Jesus came into

the world and here’s the reason to save

us sinners

among whom I am the foremost of all

listen to that again Paul says it’s a

trustworthy statement deserving full

acceptance that Christ Jesus came into

the world to save sinners Paul says the

most incredible way that I can seek to

point out to you and demonstrate to you

and try to encapsulate how perfectly

patient our God must be is the fact that

he saved me

Paul can barely believe it he saved me

you know when we are in situations like

the one with you and I get the privilege

of being in today here today at founders

week or if you’re watching online or the

churches you attend on Sundays or the

Bible study group fit you might be a

part of oftentimes we can hear about

this salvation this death on the cross

of Calvary that forged a way for us to

have a relationship with God we hear it

so frequently and in so many different

ways and with so much different verbage

that all comes down to the same

principle but oftentimes those of us who

are this blessed to be in settings like

this so frequently can allow a statement

like that to roll off of our shoulder

casually we hear it and we know that we

are saved but the gravity of the

situation escapes us but never in a

million years should we ever hear the

fact that you and I have been saved and

it not caused us to want to fall to our

knees and lift our hands outstretched to

our God and thank him for forging a way

for us to be in relationship with God

listen the unbelieving often ask why

what a God who is so kind only allow

there to be one way for us to have a

relationship with him if he is so good

at history is so kind why would he

expect it so many different people from

so many different cultures so many

different backgrounds could only have

one way to be in a relationship with him

and while that my

be a pretty good question it’s actually

not the right question the right

question is not whether or not a kind

God would allow one way the question is

why would a God who is so holy allow

there to be any way for people that are

so unholy to have any relationship with

him at all the fact that he has allowed

us the privilege to be in relationship

with him that he sent his own son to

bear the weight of our sin yo there was

a price that had to be paid for my sin

and for your sin and praise the Lord we

don’t have to pay the price he paid the

price for our sin there’s nothing casual

about that and Paul points this out he

brings it up as one of the reasons why

we should know beyond the shadow of a

doubt that God’s patience can sustain us

every day of our life he basically is

saying if he was patient enough to save

you

he’s patient enough to sustain you you

know there are seven billion plus people

on the planet the fact that you and I

happen to live in this blessed day and

age and generation where we get to be at

gatherings like this one where you can

turn on your computer and stream live to

gatherings like this one where there are

churches pretty much on every corner

with someone who is standing a pastor

who is shepherding the flock and

prayerfully leading them through the

Scriptures and the fact that you can

turn on Christian radio and hear up

speakers proclaiming the good news of

Jesus Christ and in Dallas we’ve got a

couple Christian radio stations so you

can listen to one if you like

traditional Christian music or another

if you like a more contemporary style

there is so much available to us the

fact that you and I get the privilege to

live in the year 2014 where there is so

much that has been given to the body of

Christ and people that are in

relationship with him do not for a

moment think that was by chance my

friend you might have surprised your

mama and daddy but you did not surprise

God

he planned for you to be here with the

seven billion plus people that are on

the planet your great great grandfather

happened to find the woman that should

be your great-great grandmother the two

of them came together and had your great

grandfather then your great grandfather

with the seven billion plus people that

are on the planet he just happened to

find the person that should be your

great-grandmother but UNM came together

and created your grandfather and sent

your grandfather with the seven billion

plus people that are on the planet

happen to find the woman to be your

grandmother and then the two of them

came together and created your father

and then your father with the seven

billion plus people that are on the

planet he happened to find a woman that

should be your mother and then the two

of them came together and this is a

little graphic but all the millions of

sperm the exact right one connected with

your mother’s egg to create you would

you not for a moment think that any of

that was blood by chance God has been

orchestrating and strategizing to make

sure that you and listed in this at this

point in history it’s the plan of God

there was nothing chance about it and if

you think that it was a miracle that you

were born would you think of how much

more of a miracle it is then that you

were born again since the beginning of

time God has been strategizing for your

soul since before time began really he

he has been making sure that there would

be a way for you to be in relationship

with him that is how much he loved you

and I have never heard anyone describe

this up better than my own dad who

describes this battle for your soul as a

cosmic chessboard think about it as God

on one side and the enemy on the other

both of them vying for you both of them

wanting to win you over to their side

and God made the very first move on this

cosmic chess

Lord for your soul Genesis 1:1 was that

move and he created the world and then

he created mankind in a perfect setting

a perfect relationship with himself and

then the enemy

he made a move didn’t he he slithered

into the garden and caused sin into the

picture so that now there is lies and

rebellion and murder and men kind of

separated in fellowship from God and it

seems like the enemy is one but our God

never to be outdone he had another move

he caused Adam and Eve to come back

together they had a baby boy named Seth

Seth gave birth to Enoch and the

scriptures say in Genesis 4 that when

Enoch was born everybody began to

worship God again but then the enemy had

another move on the cosmic chess board

for your soul and for mine he caused sin

and rebellion to enter back into the

hearts of mankind so that had

proliferated so far across the entire

earth that the entire Earth needed to be

destroyed by a flood and it seemed like

the enemy had won but our God never to

be outdone he made another move and his

name was Noah and he said Noah build me

an ark Noah said build what build an ark

because it’s going to rain and Noah

didn’t quite get it but he he decided to

obey any win anyway and through one

man’s obedience mankind was preserved

but the enemy not to be outdone he made

another move sin and rebellion entered

back into the picture again and it

proliferated across the earth but our

God never to be outdone he made another

move and he went to this little pagan

town called Earth and he found this guy

named Abram and he raised him up and

said imma change your name and I’m going

to change your destiny I’m going to send

you to a black brand-new place and

create my people the nation of Israel

they will bear my my mark upon them they

will bear my name my banner over them

will be love and my favor and protection

and promises will follow them every day

but the enemy he he made another loop he

caused now God’s people to go down into

Egypt for hundred years as we talked

about earlier they were enslaved and it

seemed like for sure the enemy had won

but our God never to be outdone he made

another move and his name was Moses and

Moses was raised as the Prince of Egypt

and at the right time God

oldest Moses to go tell Pharaoh let my

people go and after 10 miraculous

plagues and forty years in the

wilderness they came into the Promised

Land the place that was marked by God’s

favor and presence and power with them

they were finally where they were

supposed to be but the enemy made

another move he caused now God’s people

to turn their back on y’all way the one

true God and to begin to worship idols

by the time you get to the end of the

book of Judges the last line of the book

of Judges says this everyone was doing

what was right in their own eyes kind of

sounds like America in the year 2014

doesn’t it but our God had another move

up his sleeves her name was Ruth and

Ruth had tragedy and chaos in her life

but at the right time she met her

kinsman redeemer and the two of them

came together and they had a little baby

named Obed and Obed gave birth to Jesse

and Jesse gave birth to a little baby

boy named David and with that one move

the enemy didn’t even know it but the

checkmate was already on the way and at

the end of the Old Testament there are

400 years of complete silence God is on

one side of the cosmic chessboard vying

for your soul in mind and the enemy is

on the other side and for 400 years

nobody makes a move and all of history

is sitting on the edge of their seat

waiting to see who’s going to make the

next move and then the New Testament

opens and Jesus Christ enters the

picture and with that one move God makes

a move that the enemies still to this

day has never ever had a response for

amen

and he did that for you and for me Paul

brings it up here in first Timothy

chapter 1 because he’s basically saying

through its listen if God had enough

patience to orchestrate events through

the last couple millennia don’t you

think he can handle the last six weeks

of your life that if you had enough

mercy and grace and love toward you that

he made sure you and I the veil was

lifted from our eye 2nd Corinthians

chapter 4 verse 4 since the enemy is

blinding the eyes of the unbelieving so

that they might not see clearly the very

fact that you and I are in this room

believers in Jesus Christ that our eyes

are open to see him clearly it didn’t

just happen by chance my friend God has

been orchestrating events to bring us

into relationship with himself it’s a

miracle that we are saved Paul says if

he had enough patience for that he’s got

your life covered but that’s not the

only reason he gives us there’s another

reason and it’s in verse 13 remember

we’re backtracking through 1st Timothy

chapter 1 verse 13 he says even though I

was formerly somebody say formerly

formerly a blasphemer and a persecutor

and a violent aggressor yet I was shown

mercy because I acted ignorantly in

unbelief here’s our second reason that

Paul gives us as to why we should know

beyond a shadow of a doubt that God’s

patience is perfect while we can be free

to not walk on eggshells in our

relationship with God he says it’s not

only that he saved me but he said

there’s something else that’s real

specific that draws me to the patience

of God to want to worship Him for it

remember in verse 16 Paul didn’t give us

details he just said I’m the chief of

all sinners he didn’t give us you know

like his sin resume with all of the

details spelled out as to why he was the

chief of all sinners he just said trust

me I am but here we get to this verse

verse 13 and he gives us three of the

things on his sin

resume he says a blasphemer a persecutor

and a violent aggressor I’m glad that we

weren’t distracted by all that in the

beginning that he didn’t give us all of

the details of his sin resume because

sometimes when we see too much of

someone else is what someone else has

been delivered from we have a tendency

don’t we just so concentrate on their

sin resume that we forget we don’t

actually have time to concentrate on

anybody else’s sin resume because we

have one of our own don’t we if I were

to take this microphone and pass it

around this entire auditorium we’d be

here well through the remainder of 2014

going over all of our own sin resumes so

Paul didn’t give us a detailed as to not

to distract us but finally here in verse

13 he just gives us three things that

described it that was a blasphemer

violent aggressor a persecutor of those

who name the name of Jesus Christ three

six syn resume but at the very top of

this resume he put a title in bold font

all caps lettering so that you know for

sure that that’s the title you need to

read before you read any of the details

on his sin resume he says these things

are who I was formerly they are not who

I am anymore proof of the patience of

God if not only that he saves me but

that he changed me it’s not only in my

justification

it’s in my sanctification as you all

probably know our sanctification is a

progressive progress process this

decision you and I have made by by

planting ourselves in these seeds to be

holy to pursue a lifestyle that is

congruent with the image of Christ Jesus

that’s that progressive sanctification

that path that we are on is the Holy

Spirit of God Himself that sticks with

us while we change this is good news

because some of you have had friends

that have left you your side when you

thought that they were going to be the

ones to hang with you while you dealt

with that area in your life

it really was going to take you some

time to become sanctified in that

particular area of your life but they

betrayed you and they couldn’t hang on

some of you probably have spouses who

left you went because they couldn’t deal

with the change process the

transformation process that you had to

undergo in your life but no matter who

else has left you or forsaken you you

need to know that there is one who will

never leave you nor forsake you and that

is our great God that he sticks with us

while we change that’s how his patients

have seen not only in the fact that

we’re saved justification but in that we

are progressively being sanctified by

the grace of God do you know that is

actually one of the Holy Spirit’s job

description 2nd Thessalonians chapter 1

verse 13 it says that the Holy Spirit

sanctifies us it’s his job description

he got a degree in sanctifying you his

whole job one of the many jobs and that

he does in our life one of them is to

conform us into the image of Christ to

cause us to think differently and walk

differently and talk differently and

desire different things to have

different ambitions and interests than

we ever thought we would have now I

don’t know if you’ve noticed or not I

certainly have but trying to change

ourselves from the outside in is

exhausting not only is it exhausting but

it’s temporary lasting change doesn’t

happen from the outside in it only

happens from the inside out when God’s

own spirit takes up residence in a

person at the moment they accept Christ

as Savior he sees chapter 1 verse 13

says at the moment you believe you

receive the Holy Spirit of God the best

gift you’ll ever get in all of your life

and that gifts the Holy Spirit who is

not a wind or a fire or a ghost or a

dove he’s often symbolized by those

things but that’s not who he is he is

the third person of the Trinity not

third because he is least in value just

third because he’s the last to be

revealed to us in the pages of Scripture

but the Holy Spirit of God is all the

fullness and all the grandeur and all of

the greatness and all of the glory of

God

father it’s in the person of the Holy

Spirit which means if the Holy Spirit

lives in you that all of the greatness

and all the grandeur and all the

authority of God the Father now takes up

residence on the inside of you and on

the inside of me and the Holy Spirit of

God lives in you to help change you from

the inside out to mold you into the

image of Christ so as we listen to this

message this morning about stewarding

our families aligning ourselves

underneath our great God and stirring

extruding our families as such and as

you like me I’m sure felt such

conviction over that alignment and

making sure we are in tune with what God

has for us as we consider throughout

this entire week the journey that is

before us the things that need to be

tweaked and changed and realigned and

reconsidered and refocused as we follow

God with all of our hearts and all of

our souls and all of our strength no

matter how far you have left to go in

your journey how many changes that need

to be made you need to know that you

serve a God who’s gonna stick with you

while you change he’s got enough

patience for that he’s got enough

patience with so Paul says the reasons

that I know that our God is patient is

not only because he saved me but it is

also because he’s changing me have you

ever wondered how popcorn pop somebody

say yes I’m so glad that you want to

know

inside every kernel of corn there is a

microscopic dot of water and so when you

take a microwave bag of popcorn you put

it in the microwave the heat from the

microwave is not actually heating up the

shell of the popcorn that’s not what

you’re after the heat from the microwave

is heating up the little microscopic dot

of water that you can’t see that it’s

inside the shell and so as that water on

the inside is completely heated up it

creates steam and and at that steam

gains more and more heat it creates more

pressure and then that pressure starts

to put push against the shell until

finally that shell pops open and now

that looks completely different on the

outside not because you did anything to

the outside just because you heated up

what was on the inside and when you heat

it up what was on the inside

you got to see on the outside all of the

potential that was in the shell all

along this is what happens with the Holy

Spirit of God on the inside of us the

Holy Spirit he is there you can’t see

him but he’s there my friend and as you

heat up the work of the Holy Spirit of

God on the inside of you by being in the

word and surrounded with believers in

Christ and following and heeding the

conviction of the Holy Spirit on the

inside of you you heat up his work on

the inside of you and he begins to press

against this shell until finally you

just pop open and you are completely

different than you were before this is

the work of God in us molding us into

the image of justification and

sanctification are not the only things I

want to share I think of a couple more

minutes to just share one more reason

with you at least verse 12 is our last

step we’re going to take as we backtrack

he says I thank Christ Jesus our Lord

who has strengthened me because he

considered me faithful putting me into

service putting me into service he put

me into

Paul says proof of God’s patience is not

only that he saves me it’s not only that

he changes me

it’s that after all I’ve done and after

every place I’ve been and after the

thoughts I’ve had and after the missteps

I’ve made that he still could use me for

his glory not only seen in justification

it’s not only seen in sanctification

it’s seen by this location that God has

planted me in that he could somehow

allow me to be used for his goal I want

you to know that I can’t believe that

God would use me for for his glory for

his service and I want you to know that

when I say that I do not only mean on a

platform like this one or behind a

microphone or putting pen to paper to

write a Bible study or a book I am

stunned by that but when I say to you

that I cannot believe God would use me

for his purposes I don’t mostly mean

here what I think about are mostly are

the smaller spheres of influence in

which God has planted me honestly I

think about my husband I think about

that God has entrusted to me

this guy this guy that that when his

life here on earth is over he is

supposed to see Christ Jesus and

prayerfully he will hear the Lord Jesus

say well done young man and my job as

his wife if you encourage and support

him in that endeavor and so he gets to

hear a well done

I can’t believe God would entrust me

with then we’ve got these three little

boys Jackson Gary jr. and Jude we name

the last one Jude because that’s as

close as we could get to Revelation

because it is finished

[Applause]

so we’ve got these three little boys

that we are praying our rears in a way

that they will become men of God mighty

warriors for God and they will be or I

will fence them but I’m look at these

three little boys and I can’t believe

God would entrust me but he would let me

partner with him in the formation of a

little soul can’t believe I wonder how

often it is this has happened so many

times in my own life that God are the

enemy rather excuse me causes us to be

devalue the significance of the location

where God has planted us so we think

that being seated around this dinner

table with this family man this is this

is not as important as if I were doing

something else and we devalue the dinner

table and we devalue the classroom or we

devalue the corporate job that you may

have you think the location where I am

is not significant and as long as the

enemies have got you thinking that where

you are is not the location where God

has specifically strategically planted

you so that you could could magnify his

name it could be the light in the midst

of the darkness right there in that

place as long as you gotta he’s got you

thinking that place is insignificant

he’s got you right where he wants you

but if like Paul will see he saved me

he’s changing me and he’s using me right

here right now right where I am

this place is significant in the King

anga and if he had enough patience to

save you if he had enough patience to

change you to change me to walk with us

every step of the way and if he has

enough patience despite everything we

bring to the table to still use us for

his glory in our families or on our

teaching job or in the courtroom as a

lawyer or as a CPA or in that

organization or as a student on this

campus wherever you may be if he has

enough patience to use us then we should

sit back do what Psalm 46:10 says just

be still don’t strive cease worrying be

anxious for nothing don’t walk on

eggshells don’t be afraid don’t be

riddle

with guilt in combination condemnation

over what has happened in your life just

live free the patience of God rolls out

the red carpet for us to march

confidently into the presence of God and

into the plan of God for our lives

knowing that if he is for us no one

nothing could ever be against let me

pray for you Lord we thank you for your

patience today we are so grateful Lord

that we cannot outs in your level of

grace and mercy and patience toward us

for anyone that may be under the sound

of my voice that have been concerned

that maybe they had reached the limit

even if it’s just one person Lord who

just needed to know today that you’re

still with them you’re still on their

side will I pray right now that you

would come to them like a flood would

you just spread your compassion and your

grace and your mercy upon them so

tangibly so palliative Lee Lord that

they will know beyond a shadow of a

doubt today that you’ve seen them that

you’ve heard their cry that you’ve

answered the deep requests of their

heart and then Lord set us all free set

us all free to live abundantly thank you

for your patience we are so grateful in

Jesus name Amen

[Applause]