Comfort. Convenience. Comparison. Those aren’t things we want to be attached to, and yet we find ourselves drawn to them daily. The enemy uses them to keep us in condemnation. But God wants to convict our hearts, and lead us back to Him. In week 5 of Cuffing Season, Pastor Mike brings a word on where condemnation comes from, and how we can step into the grace of God that is given to us. If this message was for you, let us know in the comments & send it to a friend! #CuffingSeason #CuffedToCondemnation #condemnation #conviction Join us for service every Sunday at 11am (CST) and weekly for NoonDay Prayer at 12pm (CST). If you received Christ through this message, text SAVED to 828282. We would love to hear how God is touching your life through this ministry! Tell us your story by emailing [email protected]! If you would like to support TC financially you can give through the TC app, or online through our website by clicking here https://transformchurch.us/give/
. You can also Text ‘TCGIVE’ to 77977. If you need prayer, email [email protected]! For more information about Transformation Church, visit transformchurch.us. 00:00:00 – Intro 00:06:19 – Condemnation definition 00:11:02 – Condemnation definition 00:12:05 – In Christ, sinning is a symptom of our humanity, not our identity 00:20:17 – John chapter 3 verse 17 00:23:00 – God’s whole concentration was sending Jesus for salvation to destroy condemnation 00:23:27 – 1 John chapter 3 verse 20 00:24:47 – Condemnation is not greater than your calling 00:27:33 – 2 Corinthians chapter 2 verse 11 00:31:29 – Luke chapter 5 verses 4 through 8 00:33:30 – Luke chapter 5 verses 10 & 11 00:35:48 – Your common without Christ is an empty catch 00:42:17 – Commitment to Christ is learned 00:44:22 – Discipline turns into a desire 00:51:49 – At some point, your commitment is going to be confronted 00:52:59 – Luke chapter 24 verses 54 through 57 00:56:23 – Luke chapter 24 verses 58 through 62 01:02:44 – Condemnation always wants control of your life 01:17:07 – Condemnation always pushes you to what is comfortable 01:18:13 – John chapter 21 verses 1 through 3 01:19:24 – John chapter 21 verse 7 01:21:22 – John chapter 21 verses 15 through 17 01:24:54 – Condemnation is fueled by a lie. Conviction is fueled by love. 01:26:28 – Romans chapter 8 verses 1 through 4 01:29:37 – Jesus conquering the grave produced the grace for your greatest mistakes 01:23:55 – Romans chapter 5 verse 20 01:31:09 – The practice of communion conquers condemnation 01:32:49 – 1 Corinthians chapter 11 verse 24 01:33:10 – Communion is not a ritual, it’s a reminder 01:38:14 – What uncuffs you from the lie of condemnation is the love of Christ 01:39:49 – Replace the lie with love
today we are in week five of a series
we’re calling cuffing season let’s give
god some praise today
and um
five has a special place in my heart
because five is the number of grace
and this is the fifth month of the year
and this is the fifth uh message in this
series and actually somebody else was
supposed to preach today
and we’ve been in such a flow the holy
spirit said don’t you dare step out your
spot
i was like lord we had planned this you
know rest
relaxation he said you’re going on
sabbatical in about a month and a half
but i need you to finish
the assignment
i’ve given you
i need you to preach today and so
literally i called pc last sunday i was
like dawg i’m up again he said what
about
i said uh-uh
the holy spirit didn’t change the plans
and he’s given me a direct message on
what
to preach about and i said he said what
is it i said well let me tell you this
message
i i know there’s thousands if not
hundreds of thousands of people that
send transformation church and myself um
direct messages and telling how much the
sermon series are blessing them or
asking questions or trying to see if i
can marry you the answer is no i can’t
marry y’all i’m so sorry i can’t do
everybody’s wedding but
i just wanted to address it all together
um
but sometimes the lord leads me to the
dms to to find
out what’s resonating and what people
are hearing and seeing
from these messages since we haven’t
been able to meet in person in almost
two and a half years and let me just say
the day is soon approaching
oh it’s closer than you think
when we open up we’re having a party for
five weeks straight i don’t care
[Applause]
[Music]
get ready
everybody get ready
it’s gonna be a homecoming i don’t care
what month it’s in we’re gonna have a
band i’m gonna wear i’m gonna i’m gonna
be my daddy i’m gonna be a drum major
i’m a back bend i’m gonna do something
[Applause]
but since we have not been open
uh one of the things i do is i feed off
of people
i can look in people’s eyes and see
what’s going on i talk to people i hug
people and since i haven’t been able to
do that
um god has given me instructions to to
look when he tells me to look and
literally i opened up my instagram and
the young lady
she said that she said pastor mike the
messages have impacted my life so much
over the last three weeks
i don’t know even how to express it
she said but
i have a problem
it’s true
i’ve been cuffed to comfort
i’ve been cuffed to convenience and i’ve
been cuffed to comparison and for the
first time in my life at her age i’m
admitting it
i’ve seen it but i’ve never admitted it
and today i’m admitting it
and i can’t help but tell you that
instead of feeling joy i feel
condemnation
what do you do
when the truth of where you actually are
makes you feel more defeated and want
you to go back to what was comfortable
okay
and at that moment the holy spirit said
that’s the message
he said today i need you to break the
cycle of condemnation
over my people
because they have been cuffed
to condemnation
and see this is one of those that you
may not suspect
but even after you come into the
knowledge of who jesus christ is and you
being who you are in connection with him
the enemy can try to play you on what
you used to do
and how you used to be and where you
should be and if you wouldn’t have made
that mistake you would be so much
further and if you wouldn’t have gone to
that website if you wouldn’t have met
those people and if you wouldn’t have
married that person
and if you would have just been there
when your child was abused
oh come on i’m coming for real stuff
today
if you wouldn’t have met that person
your whole life and what the enemy tries
to do is cave you in to isolation
through this spirit of condemnation
and many of you have been cuffed to it
when god speaks directly to you that
you’re gonna do something you can’t
accept it because of the spirit of
condemnation
but what if they really find out who i
am
what if they find out that every
thursday i still gotta
hit a drink
what if they find out that last month i
was
sleeping with such what if they find out
that i still owe taxes from five years
ago
what if they find out y’all hear how
silent it is in the building
because the spirit of condemnation has
come to rob you of your life in christ
and today
i’m about to be ignite
i’m not playing with this spirit because
it’s robbed so many of you of the
freedom that is now yours as a believer
of jesus christ but you have been so
cuffed to condemnation that you’re
walking around ball and chain god’s
calling you to do great things you can’t
even see it for yourself he’s put you in
a land of prosperity but you still
remember when you were in a land of
desert god has brought you around
relationships you prayed for but you
can’t even lean into him because you’re
remembering all the people who left you
god is coming to free you from
condemnation today i need somebody to
give god praise and faith today even if
you can’t see it yet today
god’s word is going to uncuff you
from condemnation oh that’s about to be
good
um um
i i’ve realized
um that too many of god’s children have
a life in christ but they’re living
condemned
so so so i need to let you know what
condemnation means write this down
definition of condemnation
it’s a sentence to punishment
you did it so you will be punished for
this
forever
you had a baby out of wedlock
you will wear that
for the rest of your life
don’t celebrate them fully
don’t don’t don’t be proud of it
don’t don’t don’t no no no it wasn’t an
event it’s your identity
that’s what the spirit of condemnation
comes to do
is turn events into identity
[Music]
yes it happened that’s not who i am
yes i did it
that’s not who i am
yes i’ve repeatedly done it
but that is not who i you don’t know me
[Music]
but the truth of the matter is i said it
but you don’t believe it
and we put this sentence of punishment
on our lives after we come to christ
that somehow we think he’s making us
scary
you’re the kid who put yourself in
timeout
[Music]
why
when it’s found out or you confess that
you did it
you go to punish yourself
and you didn’t even listen to what the
authority said about you
it’s because the spirit of condemnation
has you thinking that god is a punisher
i know
i know you was raised in that church
i know you was raised where was hell
brimstone fire
going to hell
going to hell
skirts hell
lipstick hell
watch as hell
food nah we eat food
i’m gonna do a message on gluttony next
week
[Applause]
but
but what happens is
we don’t realize that god is not a
punisher he doesn’t punish
he disciplines
there is a difference
punishment has negative emotion involved
that’s why when you see the person at
the line in the store and their kids are
curious
and they
put
a million candies in front of them at
the checkout line at eye level you don’t
think that’s on purpose
but i told that little
before we came into the store don’t
touch nothing
you took them into a store with 10 000
items
at age seven
and you really expecting them not to
touch nothing
what happens if they touch it
put that down little day date
you ain’t going you know we ain’t got
money for that you ain’t gonna embarrass
me in the store and you pop them
you punish them
cause emotionally
it was charged by your fear of being
embarrassed
[Music]
an emotionally mature adult
can be able to tell them sweetheart
we’re not getting that mommy already
asked you one time please put that down
but if you do your chores maybe next
time you can you’re dis you’re teaching
them something
but when you pop them and now they’re
crying in the store and then you say
shut up before i give you something to
oh
oh
you know
what do you think it taught him
yeah
it taught him to do what adam and eve
did hide
and so now we have a culture
that’s hiding from authority
because we think that all authority
is going to lay punishment
on us instead of give us discipline
and so that spirit of condemnation says
hide everything
stay undercover
do it when nobody’s listen cause if you
get found out
you’re going to have a sentence to
punishment
rest of the definition
or to pass judgment against
to pronounce to be
guilty
if you do it
you’re guilty
and the enemy uses this
because we’re in this flesh suit
do you know the real you is not even his
body
[Music]
do you know the realest version of you
is your spirit
some of y’all spirits will we
some of your flesh is way stronger but
the realest the version of you that will
outlast this body
is your spirit and what the enemy tries
to make you feel is what you do in this
body is more important than what you do
in the spirit
okay this is going to take a lot
so the enemy uses all of our mistakes
missteps and our mishaps to keep us in
condemnation
he uses what we do in our humanity
to sum up our identity
so let me put it in a point because
we’re going to have to journey in christ
sinning is a symptom of humanity not our
identity
as long as you’re in this earth suit
you will sin
now there’s a difference between
actively sinning and trying to do it all
the time and just wilding out
or making a mistake or how the bible
defines sin missing the mark
i missed the mark
i missed the mark
i was supposed to not lie dang it i lied
to them mr mark
i was scared that it was going to cost
me something so i just die
deal with my flesh felt i missed the
mark
you’re going to miss the mark every day
you breathe
it’s a symptom of humanity
but it is not your identity
okay i just got this is the stuff nobody
told me so when i was in my bedroom and
and
i masturbated and i watched pornography
and i did this stuff it made me feel
like nothing for a month
cause i was
what i
did oh y’all don’t want to be real
it it affected how i enjoyed life
it affected how and and i’m not saying
oh cause somebody i can hear something
are you giving people a license to sin
don’t nobody need a license to send
who whoever needed a license is then
they doing today you did
no no i’m trying to explain to you what
the enemy uses to keep you in that
condemnation cycle that makes you go
back to sin
the longer you sit
in your filth
you become immune to the smell
i’m trying to pull you into fresh air
the pneuma the life the spirit of god so
you can have freedom so when you fall in
him i gotta get this off me ah no no
no
no i messed up
i got a shower got a shower
but the longer you sit in it
okay
so in christ now notice i’m saying in
christ
because you you have to put your faith
in your life in christ that’s what i was
talking about for everybody who just
gave their life to christ
at the before sermon salvation i like
that
what ended up happening to you is you
put your life
in christ
and now
you’ve become a new creation
the old has passed away i’m gonna show
you the scripture and behold it
everything becomes new so now
your eternity is secure
but your history
has to be sanctified
so where i’m going
is already settled
but why
would you be living your whole life to
get to heaven and live in
hell i’m walking heavy today i just
and so today i just need you to know
that in christ somebody say in christ
say it like you mean it in christ
i failed but i’m not a
failure somebody say in christ
in christ i messed up but i’m not a
mistake
somebody say in christ
in christ i lost but i’m not a loser
somebody say in christ
in christ i cheated but i’m not a
cheater
uh oh
i’m coming against culture
once a cheater
according to
who because in
in christ
you may not be able to give me another
chance
you may not be able to forgive me
you may not be able to look beyond my
faults and see my need and see that that
actually came from a trauma that was
trying to be covered and solved do
something i didn’t have the tools to do
but yeah i cheated
but i’m not a cheater
pastor mike how do you know because it
was me
oh you want to be real
before see i know this is stories no
pastors tells you because they want to
let you know that they’ve been great all
their life the devil is a liar
before me and pastor natalie met when i
was 15 and she was 14 the greatest gift
that god ever gave me was my wife
and what ended up happening was i
started listening to culture about three
years later when i was about to graduate
from high school
and i started exploring different
relationships because i heard this one
dude i wish i could sock him in his face
right now
but but i didn’t know i didn’t know
and he was like bro how are you going to
just
settle down with her and you ain’t never
experienced nothing else
don’t that sound like the enemy
in the garden to adam and eve
i ain’t on the bible then i couldn’t
call it out so i was like
started exploring stuff broke her heart
sent hurt into another relationship that
that that was not good for her went down
a spiral opened up things we both lost
our virginity we’re going through all of
these cycles now we back together but
don’t trust each other and trying to
move and act like we do and all of these
different triggers and traumas and all
of these different things in the
meantime just standing here like god is
going to bring us back together ain’t
talking to nobody no not a part of no
community group trying to figure out how
to navigate life and all they telling me
on sunday is this going to be all right
how
so i need some house i’ll pay extra
hundred five
give me a come on somebody anybody when
you tell
how
[Applause]
and we struggling
going through all type of stuff
and there was one moment in that season
where i could not see myself
out from under the cloud of condemnation
because i knew everything i was
suffering at that moment was because of
decisions i made and the enemy was in
the corner hyping me up that’s right
you here and you stuck you might as well
leave her
she’s never gonna trust you
you’re gonna always have to side hug
everybody for the rest of your life
oh these are real y’all don’t
she always gonna call and ask who’s
there
see these are the real things
she y’all she ain’t never gonna let you
and she ain’t never gonna and the enemy
is just literally
to the point where i was almost like i’m
i messed up so bad i might as well walk
away from the gift god gave me
the spirit of condemnation condemnation
almost made me forfeit
the greatest tool god has used to grow
me
the truth of the matter is i cheated
but i
in christ
am not a jeter
it’s been over 15 years 20 years almost
since the incident happened
but 15 almost of those years i let the
cloud of condemnation still stay over me
see i couldn’t even share this with you
because i would be concerned about how
you would view me
can i tell you today
i don’t care
because i have been made free in christ
oh i need somebody to hear me
i was tough to condemnation but your boy
is free now
and today i want to offer you the same
level of freedom
because the enemy will try to convince
you that’s who you are look what the
bible says in john 3 17 for god did not
send his son jesus
into the world
to condemn the world
out of everything
the reason why
and i know churches have told you
you’re condemned for that but
god did not sin
y’all know what this is in the bible
this is right after the most famous
scripture that everybody got tattooed on
they chest
john 3 16 say it with me for god so
loved the world you ain’t been a church
in a year that he gave his only begotten
son you don’t know where it is everybody
whosoever believeth in him shall not
perish but have everlasting that’s john
3 16 john 3 17
for god did not send his son into the
world
to condemn it
this is the one we need to remember
[Music]
he didn’t come to condemn the world
i know
i know those people came to condemn the
world
but everybody you hate god loves
i’ma say it again
every single person that you’re opposed
to politically god loves them everybody
that’s in a deaf different sexual
orientation
god loves them what i’m telling you is
i’m going to step on your opinion right
now but when god came to the world he
saw all of the mess we would all be in
and he said i came to save you
not condemn you
okay
the religious people just logged off
here we go
for god did not send his son into the
world to condemn the world but in order
that the christians
so that in order that the people who are
my same skin color
the world
might be
saved through
not church
not religious activities
through christ
that’s why everything we do at this
church is for the lost and found but for
one reason transformation in
not michael todd
i don’t want you to look at me as a
savior i’m a tool to point you to the
savior
this is transformation in
christ
and until you get that the enemy will be
able to play you because the people you
look up to when their humanity is
exposed
you think somehow god fell off the
throne because they did
okay
first john
go to first john chapter 3 verse 20 and
i’m going to give you a point real quick
god
god’s whole concentration
was sending jesus for salvation
to destroy condemnation
i’m going to say it one more time
god’s whole concentration the reason he
made this plan after we messed it up in
the garden
his whole con concentration was sending
jesus for
salvation to destroy what condom
first john 3 20
for whenever our heart condemns us
now we know where condemnation starts
condemnation starts in the heart
so that means i don’t even need a group
of people to feel condemned
that means it can happen at any moment
and it says for whenever our heart
condemns us god
is i love this one greater
he’s greater than our heart
and he knows everything this gives me so
much comfort because even the stuff i
ain’t told
y’all he know all of it
and he’s still greater than everything
that has tried to condemn me in my heart
for some of y’all that should be a
praise break because if we all knew
what who you really are
in the hard drives of crap that you got
okay
and the skeletons you have buried in the
middle of nevada
and
and and all of the things that have
happened not even in your actions but in
your mind and in your heart
and i said i know all of that
and i still choose you and watch this
he’s so good and i’m still going to give
you a calling
i’m going to look beyond all little crap
and give you a calling
and i came to let somebody know that
condemnation is not greater than your
calling
i need somebody to hear me say that that
everything that has tried to condemn you
everything that you actually did
everything that you allowed to happen to
you it is not bigger than god’s calling
for your life
and i’m speaking to the depths of your
soul
who have been believing that god no
longer will use you
because of what you did
and i came to tell you that god’s
position did not change in the universe
because you messed up
it honestly makes him bigger that he
could take somebody as jacked up and as
messed up as me and you and he can still
give you a calling and lift you up out
of that place of darkness i’m telling
you right now his strength is made
perfect in my weakness
that’s why if i’m gonna boast
it’s in the most high god y’all hear me
what i’m telling you is the spirit of
condemnation
comes to make you think that somehow
that the calling of god on your life is
void
and i’m coming to speak to that thing
that has had you paralyzed for a decade
because you had the
abortion and now it’s a hot topic
everywhere
and every time you see a post
you dare not tell anybody
that in a season of your life where you
didn’t have the emotional tools and the
people around you to make a sound
decision you decided to abort a baby
and now it was not an event it’s your
identity
you don’t stand comfortable and
confident
when people are talking about situations
because you feel like you’re defined by
that moment
and today i came
to tell you that god still has a call
for you
even if you had an abortion god still
has a call for you
even if you messed over the opportunity
that was supposed to take you from here
to there god still has a call for you
if you went through bankruptcy and you
no longer have the clout you used to
have god still has a call for you he’s
not in the cloud he’s in the callings
whatever
you have been given by god it’s still
valid
but if the spirit of condemnation is
what rules over you
you’ll never accept what’s already
available
oh
second corinthians chapter 2 verse 11.
the reason i got to preach this today
because i need you to stop getting
played by the enemy
the bible tells us in second corinthians
2 11 it says in order that satan might
not outwit us
that means he’s trying to play you every
day
he’s trying to scheme on you he’s trying
to make you think that you better than
you are oh girl i’m 60 years old i don’t
deal with that no more shut up
you just older and dysfunction you know
you haven’t you haven’t what are what
are adults older kids with more
responsibility what are you talking
about you still complain you still
compare you still do all that what are
you talking about you just have a
mortgage if you don’t allow god
no i’m serious cause we do this stuff
and like i’m grown
that’s the worst testimony to still have
that attitude and be grown
[Music]
you still grown and can’t look
beyond somebody’s fault ncaa you s
you groaning you can’t love people
beyond your offense you
talk to me you’ve grown that’s arrogance
as long as you’re on this earth you will
still be learning you will still be
growing you will still be going and
that’s why i’m saying to you right now
that you still need to know the enemy’s
playing for you at 65 at 70 at 75 just
because you’re a seasoned saint you
don’t think he won’t make some of y’all
fall into temptation
you think it don’t matter no more
because you’ve lived for seven decades
okay let me stop
it says in order that satan might not
outwit us
for we are not unaware of his schemes
i want to know what my opponent about to
do
if i’m playing a game
and somebody that used to play for the
team comes over and said i know exactly
what they about to run
it gives us d everybody say advantage
to be able to go on to that court or
that field and be able to defeat the
appoint opponent well we also have an
advantage his name is the holy spirit
he’s our advantage and when we know the
things that the enemy is trying to do by
god’s word and the understanding of the
holy spirit then we get an advantage
and today i want to give you an
advantage
as we break the spirit of condemnation
and i god gave me this really cool way
to illustrate it he said michael my
people are in the cycle of condemnation
it’s a cycle
it’s cyclic
it happens over and over y’all know
every two years
how you move from la to new york to
dubai
and every two years
there’s a relationship that takes you
out
how in the world
have you gone to four different jobs
but you find the same people
at every job
how come
you get to this level in your schooling
and this time of the year and then
anxiety and depression hits you
because you didn’t get an a on that it’s
the cycle
of condemnation and the enemy is playing
god’s people and today i need to break
it so we’re going to look at somebody’s
life who experience everything from the
calling to condemnation and his name is
peter and and peter is one of those
people that i really identify with
because i feel like i like the gangster
that peter has i like the understanding
of like jesus i’m down for you but then
like like there’s a lot of nuances that
i can see in me that were in him and so
i want us to walk with him from luke
chapter five verse one
and let me give you perspective peter’s
out
living in culture doing what he normally
does
and he has this encounter with jesus
it says when he had finished speaking
this is jesus
because he was speaking and there were
so many people that came up that he was
like hold on i need a boat and he gets
in peter’s boat
and he says push out
and he’s in his boat and he says push
out into the deep water
let down your nets for some fish
simon said to him and this is simon
peter okay he said to him um
teacher we worked all night and we have
caught nothing but because you told us
to because you said so somebody say say
so
because you said so
i’ma do it
when they had done this they caught so
many fish that their nets started to
break that’s a whole sermon in itself i
can’t stay there
but it says they called to their other
friends in the working boats to come and
help them they came and both boats this
is what i want you to see we’re so full
with the miracle they begin to sink
watch this
when simon peter saw the grace of god
it doesn’t say that right there but
peter did nothing to earn that type of
miracle
he literally was doing it one way it
didn’t work he obeyed jesus he did it
and it worked so much
that he didn’t know how to handle it
when simon peter saw this grace
he got down at the feet of jesus and he
said now this is not my response to the
biggest day in my business history
like think about that’s like you being
an entrepreneur and you having a million
dollar day
watch his response
go away from me
lord because i’m a sinful man
right there something peter had done in
his past
when he experienced the grace of god
could not accept it
and that was the seed of condemnation
did y’all see it
he and all those with him were surprised
and wondered about the many fish james
and john the sons of zebedee were
surprised also everybody was tripping
they were working together with simon
then jesus said to simon
do not be afraid the same thing he tells
you with all of your past do not be
afraid from now on
you will fish for men when they came to
the land with their boats they left
everything
and followed jesus i need to let you
know condemnation the cycle of
condemnation never starts off bad
it starts off with the calling
put the cycle of condemnation up here
because i’m gonna have to help them like
the first thing god is going to do
is give you a calling
he said i’m gonna show you my grace i’ma
overwhelm you with it
and then i’m gonna call you
out of that season you were in of
fishing and i’m gonna give you something
else that’s not gonna negate your skills
there
he said i’m gonna make you fishers of
men i’m not gonna take away your skill
i’m just gonna change your lake
i’m not asking you to become a different
person i want to use everything you did
there and i want to give you a calling
that advances my kingdom oh my god
so peter is called
but he’s called by someone specific
can i tell you something your parents
can’t give you a calling
they will try to direct your calling but
callings do not come from parents
callings do not come for entrepreneur
ceos
callings don’t come from watch this
college
some of y’all go to college to try to
find your calling
that’s not where callings come from
callings come from one place put it up
there when you’re called no no no put
the lord under called
when you when you’re called your calling
comes from the lord okay
no no yeah go ahead and put the whole
thing up there i’ll walk through it
um sidebar on this scripture right here
um
when they put the the nets out there
what they was doing what they was
regularly commonly doing it didn’t work
when they did what god said to do
it worked write this down a point this
sidebar i don’t know who it’s for it may
be for you your common without christ is
an empty catch
everything you do commonly without him
you’ll never get anything that nourishes
anybody else
if you keep go go ahead do your little
blog do your little podcast
do do do you little fashion
do your business do it without christ
it’ll never be something that sustains
you there will be no sustenance in it
you will just keep doing it and it’ll be
an empty catch but ask god to come in
here proverbs 3 5 acknowledge him in all
your ways and watch him direct your path
watch the catch be able to bless so many
people that you have to call haters
and competition
to get some of this
because god’s been so good
sidebar
after this moment peter starts following
jesus
and this is where peter becomes
everybody say committed
because the first thing you will have is
a calling you’ll be called by the lord
but then you have to be everybody say
committed
and let me tell you something nobody
told me commitment is learned
you don’t you don’t wake up committed to
nothing
and i don’t know why y’all act like
somehow if it’s a struggle sometimes or
you have to do it over and over again or
if you have to develop the pattern of it
somehow it’s not real no no no i’m just
learning
right now as my son mj is beginning to
learn to say words let me say it again
as my son mj is learning to say words
that’s a miracle around these parts
as this miracle in motion is unfolding
his teacher has to go over
and over with him the same thing why
not because he don’t want to learn
he’s committed to learning he got to sit
down every day and do it but sometimes
you gotta continue to practice
what you want to be permanent
and in church we don’t talk about this
we act like you get saved and now you’re
committed to christ
jesus christ
we
we act like we’re supposed to step into
every situation and have all the answers
and no no no no i’m turning the other
cheek no
i’m learning
don’t catch me on the wrong day
cause i’m still learning
how to be committed to christ
don’t you go to that church i do but i
ain’t the past
and i want to give you permission after
you’ve been called by god
to learn how to be committed
every day i’m learning how to be
committed to my wife
it’s a decision i’ve made
but it’s a practice that i have to
display every day
and so it’s the same thing when it comes
to god
and and peter then goes into this season
of being committed
peter was like that gangster committer
he might have been the first one to say
jesus christ that he might have been
the reason i think that is because when
they were in the garden of gethsemane
he had learned by walking with jesus to
be so committed
that he got real zealous
that when they came to arrest jesus and
jesus already told him it was going to
happen he’s like peter chill
they come and this must be done not not
on the set jesus
i bet i bet you i wish they would come
up off in here and he was just standing
there like this
if you in the hood and anybody standing
like this
go the other way do you understand what
i’m saying do not mess with them
he was so committed when they came up
my man was like on site
some of y’all
becky on site what does that mean is
that a a construction environment no
like if somebody says on site it means
we’re not talking when i see you
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that’s that michael jackson
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peter
sees the dudes trying to come at jesus
no words pulls out a shank shrink
cuts off my man’s ear
jesus in the back like oh my god
but but
but peter’s passion
was fueled by his commitment
one thing i can work with this is for
every ceo
i can work with somebody who committed
enough to be passionate
like like like don’t just find somebody
who has the competency find somebody
who’s committed
peter was committed and jesus was like
i know
you come
let me help you with the ear
picks it up
puts it back on
peter probably got somebody back like
hold me back fool hold me back and he’s
ready he’s like peter
i told you this
this had to happen
but the thing that i take from this is
peter was committed
the first instruction was follow
and his learned commitment turned into a
fight
sometimes it’s just gonna be a step yeah
that’s good
i don’t really know what i’m doing
i don’t even know if this is gonna work
but we walk by faith and not by
peter had learned to walk with jesus and
be committed so much that what was a
simple follow turned in something that
he would fight for
what i’m asking you is what are you
following that you’re willing to fight
for
he got committed and you can go look
that up in luke 24.
and so what ends up happening is um
i i want to just say it in a point
commitment to christ is learned
just so that
like you’re gonna have to develop this
give yourself grace
oh
but you have the cloud of condemnation
over you
so every time you mess up
there’s no grace for that you know how
we know it’s because of how you judge
other people when they mess up
the most judgmental people
that is a mirror
of how they actually feel about
themselves
i can’t believe that these celebrities
and if i was you’ll never be
that’s why you behind the screen
commenting on what everybody else is
doing have done nothing great enough to
even be commented on your family don’t
even text you about your stuff
let me stop
what i’m saying to you is because of the
spirit of condemnation
you would rather be judgmental and
critical
we need to do that one cuff to critical
critical you rather be critical of
people
and not celebrate them
but it’s honestly the mirror that you’re
reflecting on others that you actually
believe about yourself
and so when you started your bible
reading plan
and you made it six days
on a streak
and missed the seventh one
you stopped the whole plan
you ain’t even going back to the plan
because you were cold morty you were
more committed to the streak than the
scriptures
you wanted to be perfect in your
performance instead of actually get the
power of the scriptures oh my god and so
what ends up happening so many times is
because we won’t give ourselves grace to
mess up and start again and to try and
you know what that didn’t really work
out try this business and work we won’t
give ourselves the grace then we judge
other people with that same spirit
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[Laughter]
and all god is saying is commitment is
learned
and let me say this to you because this
is something i’ve learned in the last
decade discipline
turns into a
desire discipline never starts out as a
desire
nobody’s like yes
let me do things i hate
let me start off
my day
with the things that make me feel small
little and incompetent
no
anything i have to be disciplined at is
because it’s hard to do for me
you know what is not hard for me to do
eat ice cream
it’s never been hard
to get a pint of bluebell
just run through it
if somebody else want to bite
never been hard you know what’s been
difficult for me
not pulling up that quick trip
like i ain’t been the quick trip in like
four months that’s the best gas station
here in oklahoma
like
i used to go to quick trip
i got an electric car
why not quick trip
like
like i don’t need gas
but i was saying
can i just tell on myself i plug my carb
i don’t use the the petrol
quick trip every day
grabbing things
that reinforced my comforts
things that i ran to in middle school
starbursts
what
a stick of starburst i can ah i can hit
the whole thing
color combinations
with a sprite oh
the magic in my mouth
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y’all gonna act fake up here
gummy worms trolleys
have y’all tried the new fruit punch
jump off
my security brought me some of those i
almost fired him
so good
what i’m saying is
even though i’m 35 i always go back
to my default of comfort
specifically when i’m under the cloud of
condemnation
but i don’t feel good enough i just want
to feel good
when i don’t feel worthy i’ma make
myself feel worth it you know what i’m
saying and this is how we find ourselves
in a lot of positions
because we didn’t commit
to being disciplined until it turned
into a desire
this morning me and pastor charles was
working out
and our uh our trainer um
i got possessed by the devil i think
and said today
we’re doing mike tyson push-ups
i didn’t know exactly what that meant
but i
i knew it wasn’t good
and so
i’ve learned the reason i need a trainer
is because i will not be disciplined
if i have to decide
what i’m doing
see some of y’all are in such a
leadership position that you’ll never
get somebody over you i pay this person
but i pay him to tell me what to do
the art of mentoring and the art of
being trained should be at every level
of your life
every love i don’t care if you’re the
ceo somebody should be telling you what
to do in specific areas
because i got to be disciplined
this meant charles come here let’s show
them what we did this morning
y’all
no i ain’t never done it in a suit we
still walking sideways
okay
come on let’s get down here come on
y’all ready
we can get at least
how many
four
four more maybe five so he made us put
our our thing up here lean up do a
push-up and then come back in this
crouch position
and and the whole time i was thinking
this is dumb
i shouldn’t be doing this mike you’re a
grown man
get off the floor and the coach said if
you want
to see the results
these are the type of things you got to
do so me and charles guess what we did
you ready let’s go
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[Applause]
but listen listen
oh god brother no he said three more nah
you do
you do it
okay
no no no watch
charles i don’t know about you
but if if on the platform was the first
time we had done that
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that would have been a lot more
difficult
but because in the dark at 6 30 this
morning
we were being disciplined when we got on
the platform even what i thought would
be harder
was actually i said four we did six
and if we had to like if my kids lives
depended on it that’s the only reason
all of our kids all 10 of them as many
kids as you all have
i be pregnant right now i don’t even
know i don’t even know
that baby just keep popping them out
really
whoa
but we could have done more
because we’ve committed to discipline
until it turns into a what desire okay
okay
so so let me give you
this next level of the cycle of
condemnation you get called then you’re
committed
and then you get confronted
life
as long as you live life
whatever you’re committed to
will be confronted
see in peter’s life
when they take jesus from the garden
after
he gets uh
plastics gives plastic surgery to the
soldier and jesus fixes it
then they take jesus away to be
tried
and this is the events that happen right
before
jesus
is crucified
let me tell you this point because some
of y’all are really committed to christ
until you get confronted
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you talk about i love everybody until
somebody that’s hard to love
god puts right in front of you
you talk about how generous you are
until the 1st and the 15th
see i don’t care who you are life is
going to come to everybody say confront
me
at some point your commitment is going
to be confronted
and and and and you say
you you say you’re humble
get ready
your humility
is going to be everybody say confronted
this is
life
i don’t care how much you pray
i don’t call how much you give i don’t
care how many scriptures you know
whatever
you are committed to
will be confronted by life
i’m a man of crazy faith i have a son
with autism
you have faith
really believe god
let’s see
jesus
why in the world would this happen
we live in a fallen world
there are certain things we can’t
control
but we can respond
and and and when peter gets confronted
something happens
that i don’t know if too many of us
would be far away from the reaction that
peter had
it says luke chapter 24 verse 54 i’m
just trying to show you the cycle so we
can break it so we can get uncuffed
then they seized him that’s jesus and
led him away
bringing him into the high priest’s
house
and peter was following watch this at a
distance oh
be careful how much distance you put
between you and jesus
three seconds before he was so committed
he cut off the ear
but as soon as consequences came
he started walking at a distance be
careful
when you start claiming jesus in 2022
and people start giving you consequences
start judging you
do you become quiet about your faith now
are you still unashamed 116. are you
still
because peter started following at a
distance
and when they had kindled a fire in the
middle of the courtyard and sat down
together peter sat down among them
hold on somebody who was that close and
with him everywhere was able to
blend in with everybody else now
okay
then a servant girl
seeing him
when he got into the light
she looked closely and was like
look look
this man
also was with him
but he denied it
now he was just committed
to cut off the ear but but now the
consequences has come he’s been
confronted with his calling and his
commitment
now he denied it
saying woman
shut up
i don’t know him
it reminds me of that meme that says i
hate to say it
i hope i don’t sound ridiculous
i don’t know who this man is
he could be walking down the street
i wouldn’t know a thing
i’m sorry to this man
he
he denied jesus openly
but walk with him privately
okay
some of y’all so ready to pray on the
prayer line
but will not invite your boss to your
church
cause you know what they do
that’s exactly why
you should be the hands and feet oh but
you’re not on time for work
so your performance practically has
taken away your power and presence in
their life
this is why we have to live a certain
way
so that when god calls on us
to be able to be his hands and feet we
have not already disqualified ourselves
by bending to culture character
i’m preaching up here y’all
he denies
i’m sorry to this man
verse 58 and a little later someone else
saw him and said ain’t you
what’s your name
ain’t you one of them
but peter said man
stop talking to me
no i’m not
and after about an hour
still another person insisted saying
certainly this man
also was with him
for he too is a galilean
but peter said
man you better shut up talking to me
i don’t know what you talking about but
you bout i got a knife
and immediately
while he was speaking denying what he
was committed to
the rooster crowd
and the lord turned and looked at peter
at the moment he was doing it
i just want to make sure you know i see
you in it
i just want to make sure when you lay
down you know i saw you
i just want to make sure you know
you don’t have to hide this from me
i know
and this is so deep because jesus told
peter before this happened he said
this is what you’re going to do
and he was so zealous with his
commitment he was like there’s no way
me
p-rock the same one you said the church
you about to build on me foundation i’m
a solid dog
i got you
jc
peter for life jcp that’s who does us
and he said before
the sun rises
you’ll deny me how many times three
times and the rooster will crawl
he denied him three times he forgot
about it
and then the rooster crows and jesus
looks directly at him
watch the
revelation remember
the saying of the lord
how he had said to him peter the rooster
crows before the rooster crows today you
will deny me three times
and because
jesus looked at him
in the middle of his darkest moment
he responded by going away and weeping
bitterly
this
was the seed
of condemnation
he knew jesus saw him in the actual
authenticity of his lie
in the middle of his mess
smelling like everything he had been in
and instead of recognizing the love of
god
he chose the lie of the enemy
okay
so the cycle of condemnation you’re
called by the lord
you’re committed and you learn that
commitment by walking with him you get
confronted in life
and then if you believe the lie
you walk in condemnation
and i don’t know what lie you’ve
believed today
and i don’t even know the lie that peter
believed
but at some moment he believed a lie so
much that it condemned him that he went
away he watched this he was already
walking at a distance
he went further away
it said he went away weeping bitterly
because his calling commitment and his
confrontation made him come to a point
where he made a decision and now he felt
that he was condemned
and this for me
is the part when he went away weeping
bitterly
it’s when i believe in peter’s life the
cloud of condemnation formed over his
life
and this is something that for many of
you is the same thing that’s over your
life right now
you have seen a situation
and you made the wrong decision
and now
it’s caused you to think god no longer
sees me how he used to see me
he sees me defined by the moment i had
and the cloud of condemnation appears in
our life
and it usually starts off really small
you know what
i’m just gonna walk through life with
this situation
and i’m gonna allow it to be something
that’s around me
but then i know it’s always lurking but
then it comes
and it begins to get over my life
and i walk behind this thing
and everywhere i go
and everybody that sees me you know
there’s something back there
but you can’t see who i really am
because i don’t see who i really am
i don’t know if i’m called to lead
i don’t know if god still has a plan for
me
i don’t know if god is going to use me
i don’t know if everything that is going
on right now will ever change because
i’m still walking under this cloud
of condemnation and the thing is the
longer you stay up under it that’s how
people start to know you
some people have never even met the real
you
because when they met you you still were
hidden behind the cloud of condemnation
they don’t even know that you’re a
person of joy because you forgot you’re
a person of joy
they don’t even know that you have a
strong calling and you’re prophetic and
that god uses you in all kinds of
situations they don’t even know
why don’t they know is because you’re
hidden
behind the cloud
of condemnation
can i say it to you in a point
condemnation always wants control of
your life
it always wants control
the reason it comes into your life is
because even if it’s a sunny day it
wants you to feel like it’s raining
even when god blesses you he wants you
to feel like it’s nothing compared to
how he blessed them
and matter of fact you probably
shouldn’t enjoy you shouldn’t even
celebrate it because you don’t deserve
it
jesus
some of y’all god has blessed you so
much and you have still not accepted the
favor and goodness of god over your life
because you’re walking under the cloud
of condemnation
an enemy is playing you like a video
game
day after day making you feel unworthy
there’s job positions you should have
applied for and you have all of the
credentials and all of the skills but
you won’t even fill out the application
because you feel like somewhere along
the way you did something that was too
bad to deserve an opportunity like that
what if i fail what if i mess up what if
i succeed should be your idea what if
god is with me what if god allows the
windows of heaven to open and a blessing
be poured out that i don’t have room
enough to receive that’s my right as a
child of god
when the cloud of condemnation comes
over my life
i walk with this thing everywhere
i’m writing a book right now
and uh
i’m i’m working on
helping people walk through damage
i feel like god’s called me
to bust open
this myth and lie that people that god
uses at a high level somehow came out
perfect
and i want to use everything when the
spit hit the fan earlier this year
when god healed me of
that moment
he said michael now i want you to use it
in real time
i want you to tell this story all of the
next book you write
i want you to use it not 15 years from
now
i want you to get up
and i want you to share
what i did for you and taking all the
damaged areas of your life
from childhood all the way to now and
i’ve used it for your destiny
he told me the value is still in you
even though people may think you’re
damaged goods
the content on the inside of you is
still good
and if you would put it in the hands of
a master y’all i’ma preach this thing
that i would take every damaged thing
and turn it into something that would be
for your destiny so i’ve been writing
this book
and the spirit of condemnation tried to
come over me as we started writing this
book
how in the world
are you about to share the real
of everything that’s happened to you and
with you and you decided to do
and god began to say michael
i called you to do this
because
there is no freedom if there is no truth
i’ma say it again
you cannot
think
that you’re going to actually be free
and there are still secrets
freedom only flourishes in truth
so right out the gate
in the second chapter
i talk about how i was physically abused
at age six or seven by a neighborhood
boy
quiet
because this is happening in black
communities everywhere
i know nobody says it
i don’t know anybody just a boy in the
neighborhood
awaken things
that were never supposed and i knew it
was wrong had no language
it happened to me
it wasn’t it wasn’t it wasn’t something
i went seeking out
at that moment
the cloud of condemnation
started to form over my life
and what happened from that point it was
something that i repressed so deep that
i didn’t even remember it
until four years ago
i haven’t told nobody about it literally
we were in the middle of a series called
damaged goods
and i was asking all the people just go
back in your memory
and remember the things that god’s
delivered you from just dumb up here
and i just want you to think about it
and just ask the holy spirit bring it
back to your memory
and bring it to the feet of the master
and i was in here one day
and the sound man was playing worship
music
and the holy spirit it just hit me like
a ton of bricks
and i got overwhelmed and i started
crying
and all i knew to do was either to hide
or heal
i was already the pastor to church
oh y’all thought this happened before
the ordination so i can make sure that
i’m men of god that’s worthy of the word
no no no no god says i’ll i i’ll heal
you in layers
i’ll do i’ll keep doing the work if you
would just let me do it i’ll keep doing
it i’m the pastor of the church
sitting right here at the altar
i literally canceled the rest of my day
and i had to run to the arms of my wife
and fearful
not knowing how she would judge me
this happened to me but but i don’t know
now that i’m caring as i’m thinking i’m
crying i said now i’ve got something to
tell you she’s like what baby and i told
her what happened
and in that moment god used my wife
as an extension of god’s love on this
earth towards me
and she said only three words
it’s not
for words it’s not your fault
and when she said it’s not your fault it
was like a damn broke on the inside of
me
and i wept at 31 years old like a like a
six-year-old
because from the point of offense
all the way until the spirit of
condemnation was broken
it had been stored up with all of these
emotions that the enemy still had now i
know i was addicted to pornography now i
know why i was chasing these feelings
now i know why why it’s because that
spirit of condemnation said you got to
prove that you’re not gay you got to
prove that something’s not wrong you got
to prove i’m saying stuff ain’t nobody
gonna say but i’m gonna tell you this
whole thing and as god begin to break
that thing i feel the presence of god
right now as he began to break that
thing up off of me
freedom came to my life
and i realized i wasn’t damaged i was
made for destiny
i realized that if the enemy can’t shut
me up he gonna tear this whole thing up
with my testimony
i am a living witness of the goodness of
god
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condemnation tried to control me but i
found christ
in whom the sun sets free
it’s free indeed
until we get this real in the church
people going to be living these fake
bound cuffed lives
if i got to go first
and if i got to sacrifice the platform
to tell the truth i don’t care
today i’m free
oh i felt that thing today i’m free
you can’t tell me none i ain’t told you
i’m free
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it must be exhausting
to continue to live
hiding
see the reason i got to confront this
thing a condemnation condemnation
is con condemnation is the deepest root
it’s the deepest root that brings up
fruit that’s negative in our life
like all of the fruit that we see
we try to deal with that
but
condemnation
is deeper than what your physical body
is dealing with
so scientists now are saying that so
many diseases and so many things are are
are connected to stress
but stress is still
not the deepest root
of where our pain in humanity comes from
it’s spiritual
can i show you a picture real quick and
we gotta get out of here put up put up
the root of condemnation i i hope when
you see this it never leaves your mind
because it changed my life this is the
root of condemnation
if you can see at the top
all of the leaves are dying
and can you put up what those are see
these are the leaves of our life
sickness broken marriage poverty
everything on top of the surface that we
see
is always attached to a root and what
the church does many times is we start
cutting the leaves
hoping that better ones will grow back
we go to different churches
hoping that the environment will help us
we move to a different city
we stop following certain people and
following other people
but you never addressed
the root so it’s always coming back
but even when you go to the root system
put the first one down there
everything that happens
this is where science ends
they say it’s because of stress
that’s why we got calming abs
take 15 seconds and breathe
two more times
and we’re just breathing
but even getting healthy doesn’t heal
your soul
your physical health
will not confront
the traumas that happen to you as a
child
so so so where science ends they’ve
started to look at the bible and the
bible says something that there’s a
deeper root than stress guess what it is
fear
and and and and and they’re saying that
all of these things poverty sickness
depression anxiety all of that stuff is
formed by stress
but stress
is a response
to fear
fear of the future
fear of failure
fear of not being good enough
and do you know what the root of fear is
put it on there condemnation
this
is the big root
it’s the tap root dad said
it’s that thing if we pull this up
fear can’t live
stress can’t live
poverty brokenness anxiety depression it
can’t live what i’m telling you right
now is this thing of condemnation was
the first thing that the enemy tried to
tempt adam and eve with
remember what it was put this back up
keep it up there i want you to see
all of their symptoms
came
because god said you messed up you
walked out of my thing now you’re gonna
have stress you’re gonna have to work
and i never meant for you to have stress
i meant for everything to be provided
for you but why did stress come into the
picture is because they exhibited fear
and they hid when they should have
brought it to
god do y’all remember
when they messed up when they made a
mistake it didn’t change their identity
it was an event not their identity
but they believed the lie of the enemy
so what did they do in fear they went
and hid
maybe jesus won’t see the only two
humans on the earth
and they became fashion designers
and made swim trunks and bikinis for the
first time out of leaves
but why did they do that
the fear
was because of condemnation
they thought god was trying to keep
something from them instead of keep them
for something
so they believe the lie
if you eat this fruit
it’s always counterfeit
he don’t want you to know something that
he knows
and as soon as they bit the fruit
condemnation fear stress and all of the
sicknesses we have in this world
what i’m telling you is when you’re
everybody say in christ
you don’t have to live like this
you have another choice
peter had another choice
when jesus looked at him
he could have ran to jesus
and said i messed up
i’m sorry
forgive me
but he believed the lie of the enemy and
ran away from him
and guess what peter went to do
can you guess
what was he doing when jesus found him
guess what he went to do
he went back to what was comfortable
can i say it to you in a point
condemnation always pushes you to what
is comfortable
he spent three years now walking with
jesus learned all kinds of skills
but guess what he went back to
the place where jesus found him
if you live in condemnation when you go
away from god you don’t go to better
places
you go back to the place that you were
in
when god came and found you
you go be comfortable in gossip you’re
comfortable in sex you’re comfortable in
being feisty at business you’re
comfortable at being passive whatever
you were doing before christ
that’s your default setting you know
when you’re playing a video game and you
die and it makes you start over again
that’s where we go when we believe the
lie of condemnation
peter goes back fishing in john 21
and it says jesus dies rises and he
comes back to encourage his disciples
i’m giving you a lot of bible right here
but in john 21 verse 1 it says later
jesus appeared
again to the disciples beside the sea of
galilee he went to the place
where peter found himself comfortable
isn’t it amazing that god in his grace
will come find you
this is how it happened several
disciples were there simon peter thomas
nicknamed the twin nathaniel from canaan
and galilee they’re all there and simon
verse three it’s i just want you to see
it simon said i’m going fishing
i’m going to cuff back to what is
comfortable
keep preaching pastor mike but i have
this cloud of condemnation over me so
i’m going back to the drink
on going back to the relationship i’m
going back to the weed i’m going back to
the peels i’m going back to lying i’m
going back to hiding i’m going back to
ice cream i’m going back to what is
comfortable
and jesus calls out
and he says oh yeah y’all
y’all doing that net thing again
how’s it going for you
you’ve gone back to what’s common
without me
how’s it going
verse seven
it says then the disciples
caught a bunch of fish and the miracle
happened again and it says then the
disciples jesus loves said to peter it’s
the lord
when simon peter heard that it was the
lord he put on his tunic for he was he
was stripped for work and he jumped into
the water and headed to the shore
hold on what
they on the boat
doing what’s coming they catch no fish
again it’s a repeat of where jesus found
him
that’s why we got to read so much more
of the bible y’all
because there’s patterns
the same exact scenario
you will find yourself in the same exact
scenario
so that god can prove to you from that
spot
he can still use you
they’re up there casting their nets not
catching anything jesus says captain on
the other side again rerun miracle
happens again and this is how peter
knows it’s jesus
i’ve seen this before
that’s jesus
and instead of going away i did that one
time before
i’m going to run towards him even if it
costs me something it doesn’t say he
rolls to shore
the it says the baby was out there
with his chest out
i don’t even understand this he put on
his clothes to jump in the
water he wasn’t even these oh i got
another opportunity let me
like he just he don’t
because when i have another chance
to get it right with jesus
i’m not going to run away i’m going to
do everything i have to do and this man
runs to jesus oh i love it
jesus makes breakfast on the beach for
them
this one this is what the bible said
and then he asked peter a question
i need you to tune in just right here
after breakfast jesus asked simon peter
simon son of john
do you love me
more than these what did he ask him
do you love me
yes lord
peter replied
you know i love you
then feed my lambs how you know we love
them
because the last moment they connected
the last moment i saw you
you had believed a lie
so
i’m now accepting your love
but the last moment was a lie
you’re still
asking me about love
when the last time you saw me i was
caught in a lie
i’m saying it over and over slowly until
it hits you
god will ask you about love
even when he caught you in a
lot okay just stay with me
yes lord peter said reply you know i
love you then feed my lambs jesus told
him
jesus i got another question for you
peter
do you love me
he asked him the same
question
yes lord peter said you know i love you
he says okay so take care of my sheep
and a
third time
he asked simon son of john
do
you
ask me a different question jesus
i told you i love you
peter watch this watch this
was hurt
that jesus asked the question a third
time
he said lord you know everything
you know that i love you
jesus said then feed my sheep
when i begin to look at how many times
that jesus asked do you love me
one
two
three
it was the exact number of times
that peter denied him
one
two
three he was not asking for information
he was trying to give
peter and all of us a revelation
that every lie
can be replaced with love
that one two three god said one two
three one two three four five one two
three four five one two three four five
six one two three four five six he said
there’s no lie you believe that i don’t
have enough love to cover
some of y’all should be rejoicing
[Applause]
he was hurt over what was healing him
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it was peter’s opportunity
to receive the love and replace the
lie all god was trying to do was given
up opportunity to every time he lied
replace it with love
let me just say it in a point
how do you break the cycle of
condemnation with love
condemnation
is fueled by a lie
conviction
is fueled by love
so
so pastor mike you just tell us to go do
whatever we want to do and da da da no
you missed it
when you’re called by the lord
and you learn commitment and you face
confrontations in life
if you believe the love of god when you
mess up
you’re convicted
not condemned
when
peter and jesus locked dice
it was not for condemnation
if he would have believed that jesus
really loved him
he would have been convicted
and the holy spirit can fix us
so that we will make right decisions for
what we already committed to so that we
can fulfill our calling it’s one big
circle but if at any moment you believe
the lie
where there’s supposed to be conviction
the enemy will convince you of
condemnation
so today what are you saying to me
pastor mike in christ
we were never supposed to experience
condemnation
ever
but we are supposed to experience
conviction
when jesus looked at peter
he was supposed to be convicted
that’s why romans 8 verse 1 says
so now
look at this
chapter 8 verse 1
this is how to live a life in the spirit
so now
there is no
condemnation
everybody say now
no condemnation
say it again now
no condemnation
i don’t care what you believed before
but in christ now
no condemnation
so now there is no condemnation
for those
who belong
by faith
to christ jesus
and because you belong to him the power
of the life-giving spirit
freed you
from the power of sin the reason the
enemy don’t want to get you to get this
because sin in most of your life is the
most powerful force
it’s not the spirit
sin has more control over your actions
than the spirit does
and god’s saying how do you make sin
powerless you believe there’s no more
condemnation for those people who are in
christ jesus
because the power
of the light-giving spirit has freed you
from the power of sin that leads to
death the law of moses was unable to
save us because of the weakness of our
sinful nature because of this humanity
it says so now
so god did what the law could not do
he sent his own son
in a body like the bodies we sinners
have
and in that body god declared an end
to sins
control
over us
by giving his son as a sacrifice
remember talking about the blood of
jesus this is where it comes in right
here it was a sacrifice for our sins he
did this
so that the just requirement of the law
would be fully satisfied
for us
who no longer follow uh
we no longer follow
our sinful nature
but instead
we follow who the spirit
i thought about it how many times did
peter deny jesus
help me how many times did he deny jesus
how many times did jesus ask peter do
you love me
how many days did it take him to defeat
death hell in the grave
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it was almost if
he said you know what
i’ma put an end to this condemnation
thing forever
and it’s going to take me three days to
defeat death hell and grave everything
we’re scared of
fearful of but i’ve not given you a
spirit of fear
but i’ve given you a spirit of power
love and self discipline one translation
says
jesus conquering the grave
produced the grace for your greatest
mistakes
those three days conquering death hell
in the grave
it produced the grace we would all need
to be able to live this life and still
make mistakes
that’s why romans 5 20 says moreover
the law entered that the offense might
abound
but where sin of bounds
somebody shot at me grace
say grace
that’s the unmerited unearned undeserved
favor and kindness of god somebody say
grace
we’re sin abounds
one two three
grace much more balance
one two three four five
pastor mike give me a practical step to
this i’m so glad you asked for that
after we’ve been in this sermon for an
hour and 35 minutes let me tell you
you watch movies this long all the time
and it don’t help you
it actually makes you more condemned
because you think you should be living
that life and god said i have a better
life if you would be content
okay
let me give you a practical tool
when i was uncuffing from the spirit of
condemnation
something that god told me to do
a lot
is take communion
and i was like what
he said you you got to understand that
the practice write this down of
communion conquers condemnation
could you bring out my example real
quick
it said in first corinthians 11 24 most
of us miss the reason why we do
communion
you think it’s a ritual
it’s not something that we do as a
ritual i’m going to prove it to you he
sits the disciples down and he said i
know y’all gonna have to still live on
this earth
and you’re gonna mess up and make
mistakes so i’m going to give you a
practical practice
that you can do every single day
if you not when the church calls it
not when you have the little cups and
the wafers and the grape juice and the
little styrofoam i don’t know how they
think that’s bread but it is a styrofoam
cup like a little skinny styrofoam you’d
be having us eating
he said but
but as often as you do this
read everybody say remember
so when i’m feeling condemned
i need to
remember
what christ has done for me
when i made the mistake i need to
remember my identity in christ i’m a
joint heir with christ jesus i am the
righteousness of christ when i’m doing
the wrong thing and i’ve gotten to a
pattern i need to remember the promises
of god that he has a plan for me not to
harm me but to prosper me
and jesus said i need you to everybody
say remember
first corinthians 11 24 he says and he
gave thanks to god for it
then he broke some bread into pieces
and he said this is my body
which is given for you do this
in
remembrance of me
let me put it in a point
communion is not a ritual it’s a
reminder
oh that’s nasty
and church has made it a tradition are
you not holy
what’s wrong with you
it’s communion let me come up
people took something that god used
as as simple as
uh uh what are they gonna do all the
time what they gonna do what they gonna
do eat
so since they need to eat all the time
let me give them a simple
reminder when condemnation tries to come
and find them
probably three times a day
that three somethings
father son holy spirit every time i sit
down to eat
i can remind myself
i don’t have to live under condemnation
because any man that be in christ he is
a new creation the old has passed away
and behold aha
abracadabra everything has been made
new
so let me demystify communion for you
i need you to know
if you just got baguettes at your house
and big pieces of bread
before you sit down and eat
this week
i want you to break some bread
and remember christ
being whipped 39 times
and taking lashes and being nailed to a
cross
his body was broken for you
and i want you to take some grape juice
welch’s my favorite
and i want you to taste it
and i want you to remember his blood
that was poured out
for every one of your sins so you do not
have to live in condemnation now this is
how some of the older saints like to
take communion but can i also tell you
what god honors
french fries
[Applause]
and a coke
oh and a mcdouble i had you in about a
year and a half
you can literally take this and i know
something else that’s sacrilegious it’s
not about
the ritual
it’s about
remembering
god as i break this fry
see y’all some of y’all so
churchy god at this moment i made a
mistake this weekend god as i break this
fry i’m remembered your body broken from
me god as i break this pretzel god i
remember your body broken from me as i
remember this gatorade as i’m a soccer
mom and i’m taking it and you can be in
the middle of the field serving your
children and feeling like nothing and
god says take that pretzel out of that
99 cent bag and break it and remember my
body and take that gatorade and take a
sip and remember i quenched
the thirst you would have
for the rest of your life
take the oreo
some of y’all would take communion every
day
but break it
and remember his body take the milk
pour it it’s not the ritual it’s what
remembering
i’ve taken a rice krispie treat before
it’s been years
eight months
there’s only freedom and truth okay okay
when the enemy tried to remind me of
what i did
i’d reminded him of whose i was
[Music]
[Applause]
and i defeated condemnation
with the simple spiritual act
of communion
what are you saying to me pastor mike
some of y’all need to be taking
communion every day
that cloud of condemnation has been so
over you
that you literally cannot remember the
last time you felt chosen
loved
regarded by god
and today he says
i haven’t changed
my love for you haven’t changed
your ability to remember what i did for
you has
so take
communion
and as often as you he didn’t say every
sunday
he didn’t say with your small group of
your church he said as often as you need
this
do this in remembrance of me
and i’m telling you you want to break
the back of condemnation in your life
remember what christ has done somebody
ought to give god a shout of praise in
this building oh come on if you’re going
to remember what christ has done for you
it’s over what uncuffs you from the lie
of condemnation
the love of christ
if you’re going to be uncuffed
because some of y’all we can keep doing
the series for the next 10 weeks
and you wouldn’t be able to receive any
of the promises of god
because you still think that you’re not
worthy
but somebody say in christ
when you get your
when you get your life in christ
he uncuffs you from condemnation the
only way you live in it is you choose to
link back up with it
so pastor mike can you put that wheel
back up there real quick
what are you saying to me
and what you do at that last part is
going to determine how you live your
life you are called somebody say i am
called
and somebody say i’m learning commitment
life will confront
but i will believe love
because when you believe love
condemnation can’t come in
when i believe love conviction will come
in
it’ll change you make me feel like oh
messed up need to change some things
need to submit myself need to get more
accountability i need to do this but it
happened but i’m not it
i did it
but i’m not it
what are you saying pastor mike replace
the lie with love
if you don’t take anything from this
replace
the lie
with love
today god i
i did my best to communicate your love
to your people
and i’m asking right now that you would
wash over
your people
and there would be no more bondage
that the chains would be broken over
people father god i’m just believing
right now yeah i feel the presence
coming and invading the lies right now
come on just right now lift your hands
up because there’s no more bondage i
feel like god is about to break chains
over your life he’s uncuffing you right
now he’s uncuffing you from the lies you
believe the condemnation you’ve been
living under that cloud that has kept
you weighted down right now god is
breaking the chains he’s now removing
the stains he’s now removing the shame
he’s now removing the pain father right
now we are declaring there is no more
bondage father that every chain is
broken father god that whom the son sets
free is free indeed god let us believe
the
that you shared with us through jesus
christ
and no longer believe the lie
heal us from the inside out i feel the
presence of god somebody just lift your
hands and say holy spirit work on me yup
yup cause right now you got to give him
permission right now he’s going to start
doing things on the inside of you that
are going to change the lot of love
you’re going to feel joy again you’re
going to be able to get the ability to
come out of laziness and being lethargic
and you’re going to have passion again
god is renewing restoring and redeeming
[Music]
so there is no bondage
every chain is broken
there is nobody
receive this over you right now
jesus saw
said no guilt
and no shame
[Music]
all my stains
and there is
[Music]
happening
sing that again just lift it up and
worship sendai no
yeah it’s happening right now all over
the world come on somebody say ever he’s
uncuffing you right now from everything
that has tried to condemn you
the divorce
the mistake the thing you did on purpose
he said when you’re in christ he said
i’ll take all of that there’s no guilt
and no
[Music]
yeah something’s happening y’all come
out here let’s sing this just a couple
more times just lift that up come on
lift your hands lift your voice and say
there is no bondage
something is happening
the presence of god is washing over you
receive the love of god
[Applause]
[Music]
jesus christ
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[Applause]
just one more time
[Music]
thank you father
[Music]
[Music]
if there
has been a cloud of condemnation over
your life
and you want that chain broken or you
want to be uncuffed right now hands
lifted right now all over the world in
this room right now i’m about to pray
for you and by faith there is something
about the shift in your mind in your
heart you are not what you did you are
not what happened you it was your fault
but you are not a failure god is about
to redeem and dis and restore and every
damaged area he’s gonna use it for your
destiny if you would bring it to the
king father in the name of jesus i pray
for every person that has been living
under the lie of condemnation and by
your spirit today i thank you for a
revelation that changes infuses love
where there has been a lie we cursed the
lie father god that has come even to
some of us since a young age father i
declare that the truth of your word is
that we are redeemed that we are
restored that we are righteous not by
our performance but by our position god
i thank you that the bondage of
condemnation is broken over your people
today and i declare
that we
would never confuse conviction and
condemnation another day in our life
give us the proper view of you you’re
not a god that came to punish us
but you’re a god that came to discipline
us
so that we can be disciples
and see everybody come to you
[Music]
god i thank you that there’s nothing you
wouldn’t do
to get to us right now father god
i thank you that your love is
overwhelming us yeah even as tears are
flowing even as you’re remembering
things from the past god is saying there
is nothing there’s no shadow
yeah
he’s coming after you coming after me he
loves you that much somebody say there’s
no war you won’t kidding down
[Music]
let us believe father god
like never before god we thank you for
your love
[Music]
i don’t understand
yourself
[Music]
if you’ve never accepted jesus
and his reckless love for you
today i want to give you the opportunity
to no longer live cuff to condemnation
i want you to live
in communion with christ
that’s what peter had on that beach
he said he had common union with jesus
he remembered
where jesus found him and how much grace
was extended to him from his business
all the way to his life
today god’s saying
would you let me commune with you come
in the common union and would you
receive
this love i have for you
in just a moment we’re going to pray and
i believe that there are people that are
uncuffing from condemnation but you
cannot do it without being in christ
any man who is
in christ he’s a new creation
doing this without christ
is going to come up with an empty catch
today i’m asking you do it god’s way
according to romans 10 9.
he said all you have to do is believe in
your heart and confess with your mouth
that jesus christ is lord and that he
died from you and repent that all that
means his turn
i was fishing on this side of the boat
jesus said turn fish on this side of the
boat
when you repent
that’s when the miracle happens
and today i just want to give you the
opportunity
to accept the love of god
and i don’t know what denomination you
came from
or what your big mama told you or what
you watched on some televangelist tv
but god is in love with you
there’s no wall he won’t kick down no
mountain he won’t climb up he’s been
trying to get your attention for years
you just good with the cutoff game your
cutoff game is real good
but god god won’t stop pursuing you
and today is just another opportunity
and may i submit to you today is the day
of salvation
this is the greatest decision you could
ever make it took me from being a liar a
manipulator somebody who was addicted to
pornography
somebody who dealt with trauma and abuse
in god when i gave it to him he took all
my damage and he wrapped it up into
something that i get to share with you
every day it’s part of my destiny now
i’m free
because i found jesus
i don’t want you to live cuff the bound
another day
so today
would you accept the free gift of
salvation and the thing i love about it
is it’s free so that nobody’s works
could pay for this
nobody being born to the right family if
you’re a right skin color if you’re
democrat or republican it don’t matter
he said this is the free gift of god
to every person so i’m sorry that people
tried to make you pay for what god made
free
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but today i’m i’m offering you the free
gift of salvation and all the payment
required is faith
so today on the count of three if you’re
saying pastor i want to be included in
that prayer
i want to receive
grace
through jesus christ
so i no longer live with the cloud of
condemnation i just want you to lift
your hand on the count of three one
you’re making the greatest decision of
your life two i’m proud of you but more
than that your name will be written in
the lamb’s book of life and you will
start a journey with christ that is
gonna transform you forever three to
shoot your hand up all across the world
yeah there are people everywhere i don’t
care if you’re watching this on
rebroadcast or if you’re in the room
right now god said today right now this
moment somebody say now
he’s changing the spirit of condemnation
that’s been over you
and you’re adopted into his family
you’re a son you’re a daughter
your identity is changing
at tc we’re a family nobody prays alone
so y’all for the benefit of all those
who just gave their life to christ
i want us to pray this prayer together
everybody say god
thank you
for sending jesus
for the final payment
for all my sin
today
i receive
the grace of god
today
i believe
the grace of god
and today
i surrender
i believe you lived
you died
and you rose again
with all power
just for me
i
give you
my life
change me
renew me
transform me
i’m yours
in jesus name
amen can we give god praise oh
transformation church
i need y’all to turn up all over this
place
god
is saving people they’re being redeemed
[Music]
replace the lie with love
tomorrow when the enemy tries to
convince you that didn’t mean nothing
you just was emotional
say shut up devil
matter of fact shut the hell up
literally like shut the hell okay
i’m
a new creation
my identity is in christ i’m learning
how to be committed
but i
am going to see what the end of this
call journey looks like
you just made that decision would you
text saved
to the number on the screen and we want
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information
this this is one of the moments that
change people’s life forever and i know
thousands of people watching this
and i just want to say this to you this
will be your best year ever
if it is your best year spiritually
we’re almost at the halfway point of
2022
and your report of how this year was
could be completely different
by the decisions you make to uncuff
today
so i’m challenging you
if you haven’t watched all of the
the the weeks of this series go back and
watch one through five cause next week
i’m for real i’m i’m teaching a message
on gluttony next week
it’s called cuff to cake
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oh i’m i’m when i tell you i’m coming
for all of us me included i’m coming
don’t watch tomorrow and have anything
planned the next day cause we all gonna
be fasting
all i really wanna do is help us
either the word works or does it
i’m not gonna live my whole life being
out here faking some christian life
i want to help us be convicted to move
forward
god is really doing deliverance in all
of us
i’m going to ask you a favor
would you send this message to four
people this week
no no no no no their life depends on it
they’ve never seen
somebody from a platform like this
give
just one two three like
this is the most concise
ministry of
the gospel that i think i’ve done in all
my years of ministry
it
you can get everything from this message
so i’m asking you would you share how
many people did i say
maybe i like the other one three
just give me three now if you want to be
extra credit
set over 15.
but at least
three
i believe god’s gonna do something
strong
and strategic
through your invitation to
transformation
father thank you
thank you for meeting us here this week
thank you that we no longer have to live
under the cloud of condemnation
but we are free in you
when the liar comes to lie
let us remember the truth of your love
and father let us extend grace to other
people the same way we need it
bless us until we meet again father god
and i thank you that there’s a hedge of
protection i pray a special hedge of
protection over everyone traveling
i pray a hedge of protection of these
children getting out of school
i pray a hedge of protection father god
for every person father in that day
father if they are a part of
transformation church transformation
nation god i just thank you that i just
i just
i i sinned warring and ministering
angels out
on the our church’s behalf father god
keep us from things we don’t even know
you keeping us from father god
keep us in in
focused on you father i thank you that
we will not let our comfort
forfeit our calling
and we will no longer things that love
things that don’t love us back
we trust you we believe you and we’re
uncuffing
in jesus name we agree
we expect
amen
will you give god some praise go out
and live a transformed life i love y’all
you