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well today I want to welcome you to week

two of a series that we’re doing called

ducks in a row and if you’re a visitor

we get excited around here because we

don’t have to do this we get to do this

a lot of us were lost and broken and

jacked up and messed up and in darkness

so deep that we didn’t even know our

left from our right and and the grace of

God came in and he saw us and he was

like yeah with all of that I’ll still

use you and he picked us up and and he

turned us around and and and and we’re

not where we want to be but we’re not

where we used to be and there there

comes an excitement in our hearts when

we get the opportunity to do what we

never thought was possible and so for

all of us as a church is we’re in this

month of generosity I’m hoping this

thing becomes contagious I’m hoping this

thing in you is not something we do for

a month it’s something that you’re doing

every day of your life you’re waking up

every day and say god how can you use me

today and so as we move in this I want

you to get out your notes and I want you

to be able to pull out your phones cuz

we’re gonna take notes today as we start

week two of this series that we are

calling ducks in a row and this whole

series is about generosity and

stewardship and again those aren’t sexy

words but they’re significant words

those are words that God it gets his

attention and more than the words get

his attention

the actions of generosity and

stewardship get his attention and we’re

talking about finances we’re talking

about how we live our lives we’re

talking about giving and I don’t want

nobody to check out cuz this is the

point where a lot of people get tight

and they’re like oh my god I knew I

shouldn’t have came here this Sunday I

need everybody to relax because we’re

gonna approach this thing with

information and inspirations from the

Word of God and then I’m gonna let you

do whatever you need to do with the word

that God places on your heart okay but

the word tells us in proverbs chapter 11

verse 24 one of my favorite scriptures

it says the world of the generous gets

larger

and larger but the world of the stingy

gets smaller and smaller a lot of people

are trying to figure out why things that

were once booming are now decreasing

it’s because the generosity factor went

down the you used to give so much you

used to share your contacts when you

didn’t have many like when you didn’t

really know nobody if you could help

somebody you would now you didn’t got up

a little bit on top and somebody asked

you for anything and you feel like

sharing with them may be a threat to

what you’re doing and God says no no no

you’re doing it backwards because the

world of the generous gets larger and

larger but the world of those who have

to keep everything to themselves and

keep all of it for them and make sure

that just me and my four and no more

have anything it gets smaller and

smaller and what you end up you go from

guarding a kingdom to something very

very small and God says that’s not how I

called any of my people to live I want

them to live a blessed life everybody

say blessed life say it with your chest

say blessed life and I really do believe

that that’s what God calls all of us to

do so last week I just asked a simple

question are your ducks in a row that

was the only question I asked because

there’s a priority a uniformity there is

a order to having ducks walk in a row

and we did this thing called the ducks

in a row assessments last week or I

called it the Dyer assessment and this

is what we came to the conclusion of I

want you to see this if you have your

ducks in a row according to the parable

in Matthew 25 you’ll have faith for the

future you will acknowledge God with

everything that you have and you’ll use

what you have right now everybody say

right now

well Pastor Mike it’s not a lot use it

well it’s not as much as them use it

well I’ve had some bad really bad breaks

and all I have is really not even worth

telling anybody about God said one of

the most extravagant gifts given in all

of history was a woman who came with her

very last and and they called it to my

and and and Jesus stopped all of his

disciples when all the big ballers were

coming in and dropping stacks and making

it rain he wasn’t impressed with none of

that all he said is huddle everybody

stop do y’all see that woman right there

what she just did

what’s more extravagant than everybody

else

he said she just gave out of what she

didn’t have so we’re not talking about

amounts we’re talking about heart

posture and and and see this is the

problem many of us with my hand up first

we’ve been in this category where we

would dig holes like literally go in

debt for stuff we didn’t need keeping up

with the Joneses and nobody knows who

they are

like y’all got what I’m saying and if

you’re if you’re digging the hole you

have fear of failure you assume that you

know what God’s gonna do and then you

use excuses for what you have right now

it’s not enough well I’m in college I I

only have a minimum-wage job I’ve went

through bankruptcy God said I don’t care

where you are he said I’m the god that

will see you through every situation but

but he’s just looking for somebody to

allow him to use what they have now and

so I’m not telling you where you are on

this list but my prayer is that at the

end of this series everybody that’s over

here will move to this side of the list

and will start to live a blessed life

everybody say a blessed life one of the

craziest things about the story we

talked about last week and if you have

time I want you to go back and watch

that message like if you’re watching

this on rebroadcast I want you to stop

it and go back and watch last week’s and

and if you’re in here I want you to go

back and study but in Matthew 25 verse

14 to 30 this whole story was about

three different people who who the grace

of God gave me one of them five one of

them two and one of them one and he

didn’t matter

it didn’t matter about the amounts he

just wanted them to do something with

what they had been given so in this

series this whole thing about us being

the the the blessed people that God

wants us to be

I really started to look at this

scripture cuz verse 29 really struck me

and I want to go there real quick as we

end last week’s service today and I’m

gonna start a new message today – I want

you to see this real quick Matthew 25

verse 29 it says those who use well

everybody say use well those who use

well what they are given even more will

be given and I said man God what if we

could have nobody have an excuse like

like we’re doing this random acts of

kindness thing we’re going out and we’re

blessing people and we’re investing in

people and I want y’all to know that

investing in people the Bible calls that

true riches like when you invest in

others that’s true it stirs more than a

stock in a bond and real estate when you

vest in people it’s true riches

everybody said true riches so I had this

wild idea like this crazy one that what

if we gave everybody the opportunity

that came to church today the

opportunity to live out this parable in

real life like what if we gave everybody

in the audience money and then told them

to go out and invest it like really I

want to give everybody in the audience

five dollars right now icers will you

start passing it out to everybody in the

audience right now

I want everybody know everybody that

comes to church to that transformation

Church in every service you’re getting

five dollars from transformation Church

okay now no yeah excitement okay now now

this is funny that there’s mixed

emotions right here because some people

in this moment it’s exposing where you

are because for some of you five dollars

five dollars

let’s find out as follows you didn’t

have that that’s the first thing about

it and and the second thing I want you

to know is this is five dollars that has

an assignment this is five dollars that

I want you to be led by the Spirit of

God this week not to eat it oh but you

know that’s what we do the thing that

God tells us to so many times we eat it

and many people don’t have when God

tells them to because they eat their

seed I don’t want you to eat this I want

you to be led by the Spirit of God to

walk up to somebody to do it anonymously

to leave it as a tip for your waitress

to go up to that person you know who’s

struggling that person for in front of

you that says I want ten and they drive

in a Ford f-150 the only one ten dollars

and gas you alive that’s all the money

you have I want you to put an extra five

on it

what I’m asking everybody is that a

transformation Church we’re gonna

represent nobody’s gonna have an excuse

not to participate and get this engine

of generosity going can I get one big a

man in the place hey this is the type of

church you’re a part of we don’t want to

just hear the word we want to do the

word amen amen

and so every service take your five

dollars and do right cuz I’m not gonna

come check on you but they’ll remember

what the scripture said those who use

well what they are given even more will

be given and I’m giving you more

let’s be honest because many times the

vehicle that God blesses us through one

time that’s the only way we expect him

to bless us but what you got to realize

is when you’re obedient in this lane

God’s working something over here and

when you’re obedient in this lane God’s

touching something over there

and so when you’re obedient it says they

will be given even more and they will

have an abundance or they will live a

blessed life but for those who do

nothing

cuz somebody’s gonna let this go and

they’re gonna let it fall under the seat

of their car and somebody else is gonna

be like I don’t want spend my own money

and they’re just gonna spin this and

ain’t nobody gonna come get you

except this Bible book but from those

who do nothing even what little they

have will be taken away we could go home

right here that like that

that’ll preach and so we as a church are

gonna live a blessed life everybody say

blessed life and transformation nation

we haven’t forgotten about you check

Instagram on Tuesday we haven’t figured

out a technology to be able to see an

area buddy who out to $5 yet cuz we all

know but we got something coming for you

so I want you to stay online cuz this is

not about just this church you’re an

extension of what God is doing all over

the world and we want you to be a part

of this too okay all right now this is

the part where most people when you do a

Finance Series and generosity and

stewardship people check out but I want

you to check in because this thing about

living a blessed life is more than

having a blessed wallet what we really

think I’m saying is we want blessed

wallets and blessed bank accounts no we

want a blessed life there are things

money can’t buy

yeah y’all know what I’m talking about

there are things that it doesn’t matter

how many zeros you have in your bank

account

if your heart is bankrupt it doesn’t

matter how much you have in your bank

account that’s how people with 50

million dollars can kill themselves did

y’all hear what I’m saying so we want to

live the life that God has encouraged us

to live and that’s why I get frustrated

with a lot of the teaching in church

around finances because what they’re

really teaching is giving your gift

giving your gift and that transformation

church we we teach give to give not

expecting anything back because when you

give to give you get the heart of God

like that’s how let’s think about it for

God so loved the world that he he gave

on a maybe there was no guarantee you

were gonna accept him there was no

guarantee that you were gonna give your

life to Him many people but he gave His

only Son with no guarantee he said when

you start lending to people and you

bless people and you give to people with

no guarantee of it coming back when you

honor me with your tithes when you give

in the house of God he said and you’re

not looking for people to do what you

say when you get you get my heart this

is why I need you to know if you get

this concept this is the thing that can

change your life it’ll change your

marriage it’ll change your family it’ll

change your health it’ll change all of

your relationships and so I want us as a

church to live a say it one more time

with me bless life okay go to Matthew

chapter 7 verse 1 I feel this thing

already

and I want to read this scripture to you

it says judge not that you be not judged

for with the judgment you judge you will

be judged and with the measure you use

it will be measured back to you let me

ask you a simple question was the word

money mentioned anywhere in that

scripture okay I just I just want us to

be very clear so I want you to say this

statement with me say judge not and you

will not be judged

and with the measure you use it will be

measured back to you turn to Luke 6:37

and I want us to say that one more time

everybody say judge not and you will not

be judged come on say like your turn

coffee this morning and with the measure

you use it will be measured back to you

look at the first sentence and the last

sentence of Luke 37 and 38 it says judge

not and you will not be judged no you

don’t gotta say you know I gotta say

this condemn judge not and you will not

be judged condemn not and you shall not

be condemned forgive and you will be

forgiven give and it will be given to

you good measure pressed down shaken

together and running over will it be put

into your bosom for with the same

measure you use it will be measured back

to you now this may shock you but the

word money was never mentioned in that

scripture either and it’s funny that

every time we hear Luke 36 or Luke 38 is

that all for a time it’s like yeah ha ha

and it’ll be giving back to you good

mash up

shaking together satan and worrying over

haha what men put it in your like

they’ll win okay heard it all my life

matter of fact I’ve done it okay but the

word money is never used in these

scriptures which lets me know that God’s

trying to teach us a principle see see

this whole scripture is talking about

judging it’s talking about condemning

people it’s talking about forgiveness

and God saying that if you if you give

it a certain way it’s gonna come back to

you a certain way I heard a pastor tell

a story one time and he was interviewed

and um the the reporter asked him he

said um how much do you talk about

giving and he said every week and the

reporter said what you talk about giving

every week he said yes he said I think

what you meant to ask me is how much do

I talk about giving money see because

every time you even hear the word giving

you think money and what happens is the

enemy has now perverted a term that is

really the backbone of the entire Bible

so that when he tells you to give all

you think about is how much you don’t

have and how you were taking advantage

of and God said I wouldn’t even talking

about money but your heart was shut down

to the concept of giving and this

reporter said oh you talk about giving

every Sunday and he was like you got to

realize that you can’t talk about grace

without giving because for God so loved

the world that he you can’t talk about

having a healthy marriage without giving

because a marriage will not work without

two people who are willing to sacrifice

and give and so giving is the theme of

the Bible and what the enemy wants you

to do is anytime the word give our

generosity comes up he wants you to shut

your heart and your mind down because

then you get locked out of a key of the

kingdom of God and today I want to bring

this thing back alive in you

make it so prevalent so that you can

walk in everything God has called you to

walk in and you can live a blessed life

can I get one big a man so write down my

first point right now giving is all

about the heart honestly giving is all

about the heart let me prove it to you

Matthew 6 verse 21 it says for where

your treasure is not where you promised

it’ll be not where you would like it to

be where your treasure everybody say it

is there your heart will be also your

treasure is a tracking device to your

heart wherever you put your money your

heart will be there and I know a lot of

people they they’re like no no no no no

I love God I really everything about

show me your bank account because the

Bible doesn’t say were you where you

hope we’re you one day would it would

project that it says where your treasure

is your heart follows your treasure and

I didn’t say it don’t be mad at me this

is Jesus if you search your Bible this

is in red okay I’ll just plan everybody

this wasn’t an apostle or a minor

prophet or major prop this with Jesus

who said this wherever you put your

treasure your heart follows it and I can

prove it to you if you take your money

right now you put it in a stock you will

check that stock every day you didn’t

care nothing about to stock before you

didn’t care if the business failed or if

it went but the reason you care now

because your treasure is there some of

y’all check your bank accounts more than

you check on your kids you hear what I’m

saying like at lunch you’d be checking

your bank account another change only

get paid twice a month but just in case

come on let’s be honest

before you make every purchase you like

hold on let me get on my app but the

only reason you do that is because

that’s where your treasure is some

people right now if you buy the shoes

that you like and you know the shoes

that you like if somebody steps on them

you ready to fight why it’s because your

treasure is that mean if you do and

restore an old car and you put your

treasure in that car nobody can drive a

car it’s a problem nobody drives it and

it gets more baths than you do do you

hear what I’m saying like like why it’s

because your treasure is there you want

your heart in the kingdom of God you got

to put your treasure in the kingdom of

God I’m not even talking about this

church like there are people watch them

from all over the world and if you

belong to another church

I’m not soliciting you to come here I’m

just talking about wherever God has

called you to

don’t say that God has your heart and he

don’t have your treasure

because it does I know it’s tight I know

I know

but it’s right and I’m telling you this

because I love you and I want you to

live a blessed life I was in delusion

from this truth forever I thought I

could serve and play drums and help

creatively and all this other stuff and

God was like he know he know my heart

and he said that’s exactly why I keep

you at the place you’re at cuz the only

person I can trust to this next level of

elevation is somebody that I know they

have their heart and that’s why I tell

people all the time that God’s not

concerned about your habits first he

said if God gets your heart he can help

change your habits the church has done

it backwards for years it’s like change

your habits stop smoking stop drinking

stop fixing it stop this it’s not that

it’s stopped

like they do all of these stops okay but

it only lasts for a moment because the

heart wasn’t transformed so when God

gets your heart he can change your have

give somebody thank God that he’s a God

that won’t ask you to do something that

he won’t help you with thank you lord

okay but let me take it a step further

okay if God gets your heart he can

change your habit but if God can get

your wallet he has your heart

so a lot of people don’t know if God has

their heart I had somebody come up to me

last year when we preached a series I

was like how do you know that God has

your heart how do you know and I said do

you return tithe every time you get paid

I’ll pass the mic there some situations

going on in my life right now and that

whole voice changed and I said I said

you’re not a bad person

if you don’t return tithe here maybe you

weren’t taught maybe you came on hard

times maybe this is just a redirection

to the way God has called us to do some

people don’t give money but some people

lie so we’re not judging or putting

anybody on a higher standard but I said

when you when you know better you do

better and and I said I said the way you

know the way that I know God has my

heart is on the 1st and the 15th before

I do anything and it hurts every time

like don’t let nobody tell you that it

every disease I stopped looking at it I

don’t even see it just take it like I

own but the crazy thing about Uncle Sam

don’t ask you you don’t ever ask you do

you want to give this he take it like I

know the angle honor me subject but the

crazy thing about God is it can’t be

love if it’s not a choice

oh I’m teaching good up here right now

it and so so that will never take your

finances

never you have to willingly give and so

all I’m asking you today is how’s your

heart

like if if generosity and stewardship in

giving is all about the heart how’s

yours cuz I gotta ask myself that

question every day Mike how’s your heart

cuz I don’t I don’t know

I don’t want to loan to my family member

who just called me like I actually haha

I actually don’t feel like paying for

this that that matter of fact what I

wish I could do and we go through all

these things I’m not saying what it is

for you but I’m saying what it is for me

and all I can do is be transparent right

here but every day I have to get up and

ask myself Michael where is your heart

and I cannot use the world social media

or anything as my gauge to where my

heart should be I have to go back to the

Word of God and that’s why every time

Matthew 16 anyone comes up and it shocks

me up and it says for where your

treasure is where’s your heart so then I

stop asking myself how’s my heart I just

start looking where’s my treasure and

when you just start looking to where in

the last 30 days you put your treasure

you’ll find your heart you’ll find it

some of us our heart is right here

oh you think I plan we eat okay let me

get off of it cuz these people over here

saw somebody throw a middle finger up

over there they mad

so if it’s if it’s all about the heart

that means we need God to do heart

surgery on us all of us and so if we’re

gonna do that then I want I want us to

to to open our minds right now and let’s

turn this whole room and wherever you’re

watching into a doctor’s office and

today I want to be um a specialist for

you I want to help you I’ve studied for

one week on how to do this and um we

need to prefer to perform heart surgery

cuz um today I think many people in the

body of Christ when it comes to

generosity or having a heart attack

we’re in a place where our heart has

gotten to a place where where it’s no

longer able to flow like like the things

that God wants us to do they’re no

longer flowing because maybe something

got in and clogged up an artery of our

generosity and and I just I just need

everybody to know that this is the

season where God wants to release us as

a church and I just need to know maybe

maybe you’re one of those that were like

me um that had things clogging my

generosity and today I just need you to

ask your neighbor real quick are you

having a heart attack just ask them or

are you having yeah are you having a

heart attack yeah

so today my name is dr. Michael and I am

your cardiologist and I just want to do

a test on you today to see if you’re

having a heart attack now let me explain

to you as my patient one of the common

practices that I do is I explain to

people what the heart looks like as well

as how a heart attack happens so if you

could please go to my big board this

right here is a heart attack and a heart

attack it one out of four people will

have a heart attack this year and what

ends up happening is there’s veins or

passageways that things are supposed to

flow through like it’s supposed to flow

through and what happens is when there’s

fats and plaque or wrong thinking and

wrong thoughts that start to build up

what happens is it comes and it clogs

the area that you’re supposed to let

things flow through and what ends up

happening in it allows an area of the

heart to die and when the area of the

heart dies then all of the heart

functions stop and people have an heart

attack and I don’t take this thing

lightly because I have people close to

me that have got heart attacks

I’m the Bishop of this church had a

heart attack some of my friends watch

family members I’m going to be with the

Lord because of that this is a serious

thing and maybe it’s a serious thing in

the body of Christ when we’re supposed

to have a heart of generosity but we get

things and ideas that the world puts in

our head that begin to funnel and

corrode what God wants us to do and when

it looks up and God says hey could you

give to them there’s a blockage and what

you realize is there’s not a lot of

arteries if you have blockage in your

heart and you stop that thing this is

the crazy thing about the heart the

heart is not the biggest muscle in the

body but it’s the most important because

when the heart stops pumping the hands

stop working the eyes stop work when the

heart stopped could it be that when our

generosity stops pumping

that our grace for people that our

ability to have self-control if it could

it be that our generosity is the

linchpin to everything else in the

kingdom of God and many people are

sitting here right now having a heart

attack just ask your neighbor one more

time are you happy heart attack come on

just ask him are you having a heart

attack see there has to be a flow of

blood and oxygen the same way in the

kingdom of God there has to be a flow of

giving and stewardship and if you cut

those things off it shuts down the very

thing that everything is supposed to

pass through do you know you have miles

and miles and miles of blood that is on

the inside of you and all of it passes

through the Oh God

that’s where there’s a scripture that

says that guard your heart above all

because out of your blood throws every

issue every issue every issue in your

life

and too many people are having a heart

attack so today let me just help you

again I’m your doctor dr. Michael and I

just want to let you know if you you’re

having problems in this area there’s

some things that God want us to diagnose

and he wants us to treat today so could

you go with me to Deuteronomy chapter 15

Deuteronomy chapter 15 and I just want

to treat your heart today okay

it says if there is among you a poor man

or your brethren with any within your

gates in your land anywhere around you

that the Lord God is giving you who gave

you the land the Lord God yeah you shall

not harden your heart

remember it’s all about the heart nor

shut your hand from your poor brother

this is a

another message but your heart in your

hand are connected when you have a hard

heart your hands close when you have a

soft heart your hands open let’s just

stop right there it says verse 8 but you

shall open your hand wide to him and

willingly lend him sufficient for his

need whatever he needs

um this is crazy because the children of

Israel walking through this season where

God is basically saying hey don’t get

fooled and and know that you’re in a

brand new season where you came out of

slavery and you’re not where you’re

gonna be but I don’t want you to get

stingy in your process because everybody

says when I get it

when I’m balling when I have more than

enough and God says you’re stopping

you’re more than enough because of how

you’re handling just enough so he’s

telling the children of Israel yeah like

don’t if your brother comes to you and

he said y’all have bad crops this year

bro could you help me be able to get out

of this situation don’t say to yourself

hold on hold on 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 oh no no

no this is the year we almost at the

year of release because back in this day

and it’s funny because the word here at

transformation churches this is the year

of okay

so back in this day every seven years

God had instituted an economic system

that after every seven years all debt

would be taken off of everybody’s

account just real quick how many would

like God to reinstate that economic

system amen okay but but but so he’s

saying if your brother comes to you and

asked you when there’s only a little bit

of time left before it’s the year of

release can I borrow don’t say to

yourself nah bro cuz I know you Rufus

and you ain’t gonna pay me back before

the year release and then if it comes

here I’m a half to give you nah I ain’t

doing it God said don’t do that

he said because that’s selfish and he

said I don’t want you to be worried

about giving it because

I’m the one that will give you seed – so

this was more of a test for you then it

was even an answered prayer for them

because I want you to get the spirit of

generosity so the first thing I got a

diagnose number one thing we have to do

is deal with the selfish heart we got to

deal with the selfish heart look at

verse 9 it says beware lest there be a

wicked thought in your heart I want you

to see where everything’s taking place

it’s taking place in your heart

saying that the seventh year the year of

release is at hand and and your eye be

evil against your poor brother he broke

a hand gonna pay me back at all and you

give him nothing and he cry out to the

Lord against you and it becomes sin

among you notice that selfishness is

wickedness in God’s eyes and become sin

it’s the Bible so what I’m saying to you

is don’t be selfish let me ask you this

question why did God invent giving why

did he create it cuz he had to create it

and I’ve asked people this question

before and a lot of people like he

invented giving so that his work could

could be funded in like his work could

be done and my response to that is

really is the light bill in heaven too

much now the did the streets of gold run

did they run out of gold for the street

God did not invent giving for his sake

God invented giving for ours everybody

sake for my sake because through this

principle it is the number one thing

that works selfishness and greed out of

your heart and I need you to understand

this it’s only when you’re about to give

that selfishness really rares it head

you know you you’re on oh no I’ll give

I’ll give and then somebody ask you for

something that you don’t want to give

and it oh hold on oh no not that why

because it’s only challenged when you

have to give something and this is what

I’m asking everybody in this room is to

be ones that don’t hold

back from God but be ones that say God

whatever I have is yours

and I will give to you everything that I

have everybody needs to know the first

thing that we got to deal with is a

selfish heart now ladies I need to tell

you there’s one area of selfishness that

men I don’t think are gonna grow out of

they don’t want to share their food let

me be very clear that’s why when we went

to the drive-through we asked you do you

want anything I should be I should hear

the men given a roar of do you want

anything and what are the women saying

no I’ll just have some of yours no you

won’t no you want I want my fries and

the fries at the bottom of the bag is

mine too

can I get one big amen I’ll buy you

three you ain’t getting none of these

maybe the man needs a deal with the

selfish heart lord help us okay second

diagnosis here we go we got a deal with

the grieving heart if we’re not gonna

have a heart attack if these things are

going to to block the flow of generosity

we can’t have a selfish heart blocking

us but then we can’t have a grieving

heart look at it in verse 10 it says you

shall surely give everybody say give you

shall surely give to him and your heart

should not be grieved when you give to

him because when you do this thing and

that’s giving with the right heart the

Lord your God will bless you in all your

works and in all to which you put your

hand this is the thing you gotta realize

it I passed so many homeless people that

I had a thought like I’m gonna get him

no money cuz they’re making more money

than I’m making just sitting out here

not doing nothing God says don’t do that

he said because you’re messing up your

blessing obedience is not about what

they do with it it’s about what you did

with what I gave you

and God said you’re blocking up your

next level because you’re worried about

all they’re just gonna buy some alcohol

with it are they just gonna do something

with this God said I asked you to be a

conduit to work the muscle of generosity

and that’s why we can’t grieve after we

give it’s one of the craziest things

that many times when I’ve given a large

seed or when I’ve done something that

was outside of my comfort zone

automatically something breaks on the

way home run out of gas or somebody

needs something or the children need

something and the enemy automatically

comes to see senator net where’s your

God now what what’s happening this is

the trick and you need to learn this

this is so you don’t have a heart attack

that selfishness tries to attack us

before we give but grief tries to attack

this after we give you were so confident

what you were gonna do until after you

let it go I go and automatically like oh

man I shouldn’t have done that I

shouldn’t got saying no he said when you

did that you just qualified for another

level of my favor he said when you walk

into a place after you give with the

right heart not for everybody to see not

so you can get across but so I can see

he said what you do is you make

everything you do have a Midas touch you

ever heard of a Midas touch that

anything they touch turned to gold

he said what you do is you make

everything that it says all your works

everything your hand touches will be

blessed what I’m encouraging you right

now is if your heart if that pathway is

being blocked up because you’ve been

selfish maybe it’s a learned behavior

maybe it’s what you were taught or if

your hearts been blocked up because

you’ve been grieving today the healers

here so that you can get a new everybody

say flow no longer you’re gonna be a dam

where everything stops with you

you’re gonna become a river and God says

if I could get it to you and get it

through you you know I mean right now

it’s crazy I shouldn’t even say this but

I just had this thought and I gotta be

real like after church I’m going to eat

after church and I just thought about it

like I don’t have no money

right now to be able to UM feed my

family and the sky what’s that but the

Scout just gave me a hundred dollars

thank you brother sky now why what’s got

so excited to give up dinner

and give me this hundred dollars cuz I

gave it to him before charge so Scott’s

not grieving this hundred dollars cuz

the only way he would start grieving is

if somehow he thought it was his the

problem with most of us is you think you

go to work and you’re working for your

money you think you made that investment

and it was yo money but all I have is

God songs 24/7 like this DARS is the

Lord’s and the fullness thereof when you

understand that everything I’ve got I’m

just managing anyway it doesn’t matter

if I gotta give it away cuz the source

has an endless supply and so brother

Scott here you can come get this back

real quick and so because he was

faithful to be obedient it’s very simple

for me to trust him with more hey Scott

matter of fact I know I just gave it to

you but what’s your name bro

Luke he’s come here bro so Scott give it

to Lucas

now now thanks now bless me Lucas aw sit

down hey Scott cuz you were faithful

with the little I can always trust you

wouldn’t this is the concept you have to

give God is not trying to keep anything

from you he’s trying to get lured to you

but you gotta be faithful of what he’s

already given to you somebody give God

some praise in this place glory to God

I’m not looking for Lucas he don’t

notice whether to put it in his pocket

and I he like are you gonna use me

God will so you walked in here more

blessed than you your then you’re about

to your leaving more blessed then then

you walked in and so when God asked you

for something it should be very simple

you didn’t deserve the job you got don’t

even qualify to be here your life should

have been gone all crap you did in

college you should be a wreck but the

grace of so the first thing we got to do

is we got to deal with the selfish heart

and then we got a deal with the grieving

heart and then number three we got to

develop a generous heart okay

look at verse 14 it says you shall

supply him this is Rufus who probably

ain’t gonna play us back God you want me

to do what supply him liberally be

generous to him from what from the

church know from your flock from your

threshing floor from your line press

from your bank account from your clothes

that’s what it says from what the Lord

your God has blessed you with you shall

give to him y’all know we were born

selfish right

like our sin nature were born selfish

but the great thing is we’re born again

generous but we have to renew our and

the crazy thing about it is you don’t

never have to teach a child mine like

you don’t have to teach a child my

matter of fact I have a real-life

example I don’t know if this um speaks

of my parenting failures or anything but

this week as I was prepared for this

message a lot of times just do home

videos and my kids and stuff and just

look what my little baby one and a half

year old Ava can’t save but seven words

look what she said hey shared hey are

you saying that Wow no you share it’s

good to share do you understand me Ava

yeah are you gonna share are you gonna

share a bus a share I have felt

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but isn’t that what God’s trying to get

us to do as his children and isn’t that

our reaction

I said Ava are you gonna share she said

uh-uh can’t even say but seven words and

then when I asked her again she laughed

ha ha the truth is many of us look like

that but we’re 50 I mean you’re not

doing that in a bathtub with a rubber

duckie but like but when God asks you

you say mine and God says share and you

say uh-huh

and he says are you really not gonna

share you say and at some point if Ava

keeps walking in that behavior I’m gonna

say when will you grow up like that will

be like after a certain amount of time

there’s grace for it right now

but at some point after I’ve given her

everything that she had the bath water

she was in I supplied that the rubber

ducky she was saying was my thing ah no

money like you after she is not generous

with what I’ve already given her at some

point I’m gonna say when are you gonna

grow up and be more like your father

who’ll give with no guarantee today I

just think God’s checking all of our

hearts is that maybe you need to give

and grow up and not trying to fight what

we’re in the tie visit the Old Testament

over set the New Testament when people

start talking like this I already know

they have a selfish heart it’s that no

it’s okay

you’re keeping yourself from the next

level of blessing but when are we gonna

grow up and be more like our father who

loved us so much that he what day the

last thing I’m gonna tell you last thing

blasting plastic okay number four thing

we have to do is we have to develop a

great

heart yeah we got to be grateful look

what Deuteronomy 1515 says it says you

shall remember though that you were a

slave he told these people he’s like

y’all you can’t be selfish cuz you just

a few years ago

you are a slave in the land of Egypt and

the Lord your God redeems you therefore

I command you this day be generous God

is saying I command you to be generous

well what authority do you have to

command us to be generous is that

everything you have came from me and

sometimes you just need to remind

yourself where you were and where God’s

brought you from and now that’ll that’ll

stir up some generosity in your heart

think about yourself at your lowest

moment and how if somebody woulda came

and gave to you in that moment what that

would have meant for you today I had a

reminder this is one of my lowest

moments right here this is my release

form from you know what it is don’t you

this is my release form of my record

being expunged after I had gotten caught

when I was a young younger adult for car

insurance fraud God in a car accident

didn’t have insurance went home called

Geico you know the number lied and said

I had insurance at the on the day of the

accident not at the time of the accident

I told you I was manipulating conniving

five years afterwards

a young adult pastor hundreds of kids

following me

mr. top you got to turn yourself in the

devil is a liar

I rebuke no no no you can’t rebuke the

consequences I don’t have to carry the

guilt in the shame of it but the

consequence was still real and so I was

facing real jail time this was a eight

this wasn’t a misdemeanor my dad took me

first I wouldn’t got my hair cut because

I knew if I was gonna take a picture my

answer was gonna be right first when I

got my haircut and then my dad with a

lawyer took me down right up the street

less than two miles away from here and I

deter myself in and then I got out of

that situation and I had to do community

service for like 90 days or something

and I’m a pastor my desk is back here

and I was like I can’t come to work

today cuz I got a um I gotta go pick up

trash and as I was sitting in my house

this week with my three kids as a free

man guy said do you remember where I

brought you from do you remember that

all this that you obsessing about in and

do I want the large version of the

extra-large version of the extra-large

you could be choosing whether you wanted

to play checkers or chess today

see it’s very simple to give when you

realize what he’s already given for you

and you may not have a story like this

but I’m telling you you we were all lost

all broken all dead but Jesus Christ

gave it all for us so today I don’t know

if you’re in the middle of a heart

attack right now and the generosity is

not able to flow because you’re being

selfish and you’re grieving but today I

believe God wants to develop in you a

generous heart and a grateful heart

and when we understand that then we’re

able to flow God will give us resource

beyond our imagination cuz he knows if

he gets it to us he can get it when it

stops flowing it dies and so today I

want to pray that even over this next

three weeks as we continue to go some of

y’all that this was just the beginning

of surgery we’re gonna have to work out

this thing but I believing that

everybody under the sound of my voice

will live a blessed life and let the

things that have tried to stop your

generosity are gonna be uncapped

and you’re going to let it flow

everybody say it’s gonna flow if you

know there’s an area of your life that

you need it to flow better in the area

of generosity and stewardship at every

service if you’re watching this I want

you to stand to your feet all over this

place this is not about anybody else

this is for you and God I’m gonna pray

over you right now because I feel the

power of God in this place right now

come on lift your hands all over this

place father I thank you for every

person who’s saying god it’s me father

there’s been an area of my heart whether

it be grieving father God or whether it

be being selfish God that has been

stopping up my heart of generosity and

today we’re asking you to be the healer

let it slow again in the name of Jesus

father even as we take these random acts

of kindness cards and as we take this

five dollars that you have given us I

thank you that this would just be the

start of something being able to flow I

come against General

curses of poverty generational curses of

Greek generation or habits father of

selfishness and I thank you today that

we choose to live a blessed life that we

will no longer sit dormant but we will

press for it and everything you have for

us we trust you that when people see us

they’ll see you who love so much the

first reaction is not what will you do

for me but the first reaction was that

we gave give us your heart in Jesus name

hey listen if you’re in this room I feel

the presence of God in this room if

you’re in this room and you’ve never

given your heart to the one who gave His

his son first today you get the chance

to make the greatest decision of your

life he didn’t just give you money and

give you life he gave you salvation

Redemption forgiveness grace today the

only thing you have to do is receive it

I know you probably did some things this

week that you’re not proud of and you

wouldn’t get up here and say but God was

there and he said and I still loved you

through it and I still care about you I

need to change my habits I need to get

some stuff right God says no no if I get

your heart I hope you change your habits

so today if that’s you I don’t care if

you’ve been in church all your life or

this is your first day today is the day

of salvation and today we want to pray

for you would you everybody just close

your eyes and bow your head not as a

religious moment just I want you to

focus and if God is far away from you

and you want him to be close to you I

want you to pray this prayer and mean it

with everything you got and a

transformation Church we’re a family so

nobody prays alone so we’re all gonna

pray this prayer for the benefit of

those today who are coming to Christ

everybody say God thank you for giving

your son today I need to save you

and I choose you I believe you lived and

you died and you rose again just for me

so change me renew me transforming I’m

yours in Jesus name