Whatever we become and achieve in life is determined by our ability to trust God. However, it is only when we believe in Jesus Christ and are confident that God will do as He promised that our lives can be transformed.

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and one of the primary reasons that many

christians do not live a godly life

do not live a life that is rewarding and

a life that is has

is permeated by peace and joy and

happiness and contentment even in

difficulty in trial

is because their faith is not steady

it’s not strong

it’s not firm it’s not mature they’re

still in the baby stage

of wavering faith thinking well maybe he

will maybe he won’t

next on in touch wavering faith

and jesus came up and spoke to them

saying

baptizing them in the name of the

following holy spirit

faith is not only the key to answer

prayer faith is the key to everything in

your life

every aspect of your life is affected by

it

what you accomplish and what you become

in life

is affected by your faith whatever you

achieve in life

wherever you head out whatever direction

of life you’re going in

your faith is the key now all of us have

a degree of faith whether you’re a

christian or not and many people have

faith in things that really don’t turn

out right and they end up being

disappointed

that when you place your faith in god

through his son jesus christ

life is going to become exciting you’re

going to have a sense of accomplishment

and achievement

you’re going through difficulty and

hardship and trials in your life

but the difference is this you’re

walking with him

you have his presence his power

his assistance in your life to see you

through it no matter what

and when i think about how people look

upon god

and how they look at their life and

oftentimes leave him out totally

and wonder why things are as they are

well what is faith in the first place

faith is simply

the confident conviction that you and i

have

that god is who he says is and he’ll do

what he promised to do

that’s what that’s what our faith as a

christian is all about

we have this basic conviction that he is

who he says he is

and he will keep his every single

promise and as a believer it won’t take

you long to figure that out

likewise we don’t have to worry and fret

about things

the scriptures in fact jesus in the

sermon on the mount said don’t be

anxious about all these things

but he brought us to trust and paul says

also in philippians that that p the

peace of god garrisons us about protects

us

when we walk and live by faith and trust

him you’re gonna walk

with anxiety and frustration and worry

and you’re gonna walk in faith can’t

have them both

all in the water don’t mix faith and

unbelief do not mix

so what how is it that you and i develop

faith and how does that faith grow

well i want to talk about this whole

issue of wavering faith

that is i mean by that yes he will no he

won’t

i think so i’m not sure and so there are

lots of people who just waver in their

faith all throughout their christian

life

and wonder why god doesn’t do more in

their life and you may be one of those

persons

well in this particular message

i want to show you how to deal with that

so that you can

grow in your faith it cannot just simply

be

little faith that waivers great faith of

assurance

perfect faith god does something awesome

and great in your life

it’s yours for the hearing and the

applying in your life and i trust that

you listen very carefully

so i want you to turn to the book of

james and we’ll read these first eight

verses together

and he is writing to those who are

undergoing difficulty in hardship

and this is the way he addresses them

he says in first chapter verse 1

james a bond servant of god and of the

lord jesus christ to the 12 tribes

who will disperse the broad greetings

consider it all joy my brethren when you

encounter various trials knowing that

the testing of your faith

produces endurance and let endurance

have its perfect result

so that you may be perfect and complete

lacking in nothing that is that you’re

growing and maturing in your christian

life

but if any of you lacks wisdom

let him ask of god who gives to all

generously and without reproach

and it will be given to him and what

he’s simply saying is if you’re going

through difficulty at this point

ask god to give you the wisdom to know

how to face it and to walk through it

and then he says but he must ask

in faith without any doubting any

wavering

for one who doubts is like the surf of

the sea driven and tossed by the wind

for that man

or woman ought not to expect that he

will receive

anything from the lord being a

double-minded man or person

unstable in all their ways that’s a

pretty strong statement

he says if you’re unstable that is if

you’re just weaving back and forth about

whether god will or whether he won’t

he’ll keep his word maybe maybe he won’t

then you’re unstable if you’re unstable

in your faith which is the foundation of

how you live

you’re going to be unstable in other

things and one of the primary reasons

that many christians do not live a godly

life

do not live a life that is rewarding and

a life that is has

is permeated by peace and joy and

happiness and contentment even in

difficulty in trial

is because their faith is not steady

it’s not strong

it’s not firm it’s not mature they’re

still in the baby stage

of wavering faith thinking well maybe he

will maybe he won’t

so i want us to address this whole issue

because it is a major

issue in everybody’s life and when you

think about it

what he says in this passage he says if

a person’s faith

is continually wavering now watch this

that doesn’t mean that it never wavers

all of us have come to circumstances and

situations in our life

where maybe we’ve never been confronted

with that particular issue before

or it may be that we’re facing something

we don’t know exactly how to deal with

it

and so we may waver in our faith that

ought to be a stage

not a continuous waving of our faith

because it begins with

little faith the bible says and it can

grow into great faith which

you have assurance on the basis of what

god said that he will keep his promise

and do exactly as he says perfect faith

means that you’ve reached the stage in

that given situation

whereby you’re so fully persuaded that

you don’t ask him anymore

you just say thank you god it’s a done

deal and you walk away

from the difficulty of it and the

uncertainty of it with absolute

assurance that your heavenly father

has given you perfect faith it’s it’s

as good as done so wavering faith

is that juvenile kind of faith and it

should not last in their life very long

but for most people that’s the way they

live their life

now with that in mind and i think about

uh how many people wonder why

and god doesn’t bless them the way he

desires to bless them or way he promises

to bless they wonder why

because they’re unstable when it comes

to their faith

and if your faith affects every single

aspect of your life

that’s one area you need to be steadfast

firm confident assured that this god

whom you serve

will keep his word every single time and

two things are absolutely essential

to a personal relationship with jesus

christ and that is that we believe that

he’s who he says he is

and that he’ll do what he promised to do

so with that in mind i want us to think

about a couple of things here i want you

to turn if you will

to the 11th chapter of mark for a moment

11th chapter of mark

and this is a very important passage of

scripture about

faith and about god answering prayer and

you’ve read it many times probably and

wondered

what in the world does that mean so in

the 22nd

verse of mark chapter 11. the scripture

says

jesus answered saying to them have faith

in god

truly i say to you watch this whoever

says to this mountain

be taken up and cast into the sea and

does not doubt in this heart but

believes that what he says is going to

happen

it will be granted to him now was jesus

saying that you and i could just walk

around had enough faith we can knock

this mountain down toss this with noah

no

he’s not talking about throwing down

mountains what he’s simply saying is

this

he is saying that no task

that is asked in harmony with god will

not be done

that is whatever we ask listen that is

in harmony

with his will and our life god will

bring it a pass

is he going to do something just because

we ask no if it’s not his will it’s not

going to happen

so he’s not talking about tossing

mountains down he’s talking about

that degree of faith we have and then he

says therefore i say to you all

all things but which you pray and ask

believe that you have received them and

they will be granted to you

believe that you have received them he

says and they’ll be granted to you now

when i think about that and i think

about our people’s faith

and how they weave and wobble around uh

i want to take just a moment to give you

a glimpse of the place of faith in our

life

now watch this i don’t want you to try

to write them down i’ll get back to them

later

what i want you to see is this every

single aspect of the christian life

is wrapped up in faith and we’re going

to put them up rather quickly so you can

get them

we have access to god by faith

we walk in our christian life by faith

we have sonship with him by faith

we live daily by faith we have

righteousness by faith we have

forgiveness of sins by faith

we have christ indwelling us by faith

we receive the holy spirit by faith

we are protected by faith we stand

firm in difficulty by faith we resist

the devil by faith

we have victory over the world by faith

we have victory over the evil one by

faith

we have victory over difficulties and

circumstances by faith

we have power through faith every single

aspect of your life is wrapped up in

faith

so when somebody says well i have

faithful how much faith well

you know i believe in god that’s not

enough we’re talking about

practical faith that works every single

day

whether you’re in your family on your

job or in pleasure whatever it might be

our life is to be a life of faith fully

trusting

in this god who is so clearly described

in the word of god

this god who is always truthful he never

changes his mind

he’s a god of goodness and love and

mercy and kindness

he is omnipotent omniscient i’m the

present he is a god of

righteousness and judgment this is the

god in whom you and i believe

here is a god who is absolutely always

truthful

never untruthful it is his very nature

to be truthful

he cannot be otherwise it’s an attribute

of who he is

and yet in spite of that many people

flounder through life

wondering why they’re not blessed and

why they have this trouble and that

and the issue is that they do not really

and truly believe that god is who he

says he is

and as long as i doubt him i will miss

his blessing

that’s very important you listen

carefully because many people

think they’re trusting him they think

they’re believing him

because they say well here’s what he

says and and

you know i believe what he says well do

you specifically believe

that this request you’ve made of god god

is going to answer

and if so on what basis just because you

asked no

well just because you’re good enough no

my simply

asking and my being good is not going to

make god do something

that’s not his will nor is he going to

respond to that to answer

he’s going to respond on the basis of

who he is his will

his purpose and his plan his goodness

his love and his mercy

and his kindness toward us god is an

awesome god

who has us in mind and the day you were

born listen

the day you were born god already had

in store for you all the blessings

for all of your life on this earth and

it’s the way we respond as to how much

of that blessing

we’re able to enjoy and to achieve in

life

and we claim them by faith we walk in

them and enjoy them by faith

that’s why it’s the most important

aspect of your christian life

everything else depends upon it now when

we talk about

uh wavering faith here’s what we’re

talking about we’re talking about faith

that sort of staggers uh i believe in

this moment and then

i’m questioning him at this moment i see

my way clear

now but tomorrow i’m not sure and so

instead of being

steadily focused upon god that kind of

faith is

wishy-washy it staggers uh it’s like a

cork you throw

in the ocean and the wave takes it this

way and the wind blows it this way and

it’s back and forth and back and forth

and the person who has wavering faith

is unstable they’re unstable the

scripture says in all their ways

that person says well i’m not very

stable look at your faith

what is it that’s governing you are you

governed by what people say about what

god says

and what i want you to see is that god

does not change

and what he promises he’s going to keep

no matter what now

let’s um well a good example of that

wavering faith would be this

when peter uh and jesus were in the boat

jesus had been teaching and he said let

me get in the boat with you and push you

out a little bit from land

and i’ll be able to be heard better and

so he gets in the boat

he finishes his message so when he

finishes his message jesus says to peter

peter

let’s go fishing now um

this was the time that uh didn’t exactly

work the best in the world for

peter because first of all

he was the fisherman and he knew

that fishing at this time of day was

absolutely

not going to work and jesus said let’s

go fishing so he he

finds himself wavering fish this time

well

he i heard him speaking i know who he is

but

so he had a good reason for waving in

his faith and sometimes you’ll face

something

you’ll say i know that’s what god said

oh but lord do you know all the detail

do you know what she said you know what

he said you know what’s going on in my

life lord

i know that’s what you said but oh god

how can this possibly be

so we waver in our faith for different

reasons

and what i want to do is i want to talk

about what some of those reasons are and

that causes

us to waver in our faith and you’ll see

them on the screen

i want you to jot them down as i said

last week gentlemen the back page your

bible

somewhere that you won’t lose them

because when you find yourself doubting

look in that last page of your bible and

say well now wait a minute

could it be this this this and sometimes

we don’t understand what’s happening

that’s why i want you to jot these down

why do we waver we wait unless we waver

when

trusting god is in conflict with human

reasoning

and you say well like what well let’s go

back to peter for a moment

so there they are in the boat and uh

when jesus says

let’s go fishing here’s what human

reasoning said from peter’s point of

view it’s a waste of time

i’ve been fishing in the sea of galilee

for years and years and years

i am a fisherman you’re not a fisherman

jesus you’re a teacher

you’re a prophet uh you’re a speaker but

uh i’m the fisherman

and so i know that fish in the silver

galilee do not bite

in the middle of the day they bite at

nighttime that’s how we pull up these

big

uh big uh troughs of fishes

just all kind of fish at night time

human reason said it’s a waste of time

jesus said let’s go fishing he gave in

to jesus

because of course jesus spoke with such

authority i’m sure

it came upon he thought forget what i

think i’m going to do whatever he says

and you’ll recall they had a great bunch

of fish

the nets were full and breaking so

sometimes you’re going to come to human

reasons i’ll give you a good example

it’s a simple example

if somebody said to you i want to give

you ten thousand dollars

but uh i’m going to take a thousand of

it

that belongs to god but you’re gonna

have more with nine thousand

human reason says nine thousand dollars

will never buy as much as ten thousand

dollars

that’s what human reason says it’s not

reasonable

it’s not reasonable that nine thousand

will buy more than ten thousand

yes it will for what he protects he

gives you a better deal here in other

words

i can go through and i’ve lived long

enough to tell you you

cannot fail or lose tithing your income

reasoning doesn’t work oftentimes with

god

because he he is above and beyond

reasoning that’s what faith’s all about

faith says if i give him if i give him

ten percent

my nine’s gonna buy more than that

that’s what faith says

lack of faith says man i gotta have all

ten of it there’s no way in the world

that you can do that if you count from

man’s viewpoint

right but look what you look what you’re

doing we’re talking about an omnipotent

god

who owns everything who can send things

into your life you never thought about

you never dreamed of

that’s who he is and that’s the kind of

god he is read the third chapter of

malachi

and see what he promises he says he says

it’ll be overflowing

because god watch this god always

rewards faith period a second reason

that we wave in our faith

is we allow our feelings to overcome our

faith we say well

i know that’s what god said but i’m you

know what i feel so unworthy your

unworthiness has nothing to do with the

blessings of god

you feel unworthy you say i feel so

inadequate

uh what do i feel of fear what are

people going to say i’m a fear of

criticism and failure

and loss and all the rest you’re looking

at the wrong thing

in other words if god says here’s what i

want to do in your

life trust him what he’s requiring of

you may be difficult

where he’s requiring you to go may be

difficult and i

can think of sometimes that people have

said to me and god told me to quit my

job

and they argued with god and argued with

god and argued with god about it and

finally they finally did it and what

happened

god gave them another job made far more

money all the different kind of

blessings that came their way

human reason says you don’t quit your

job without another one

and this day and time that’s real

reasonable we highly agree

but let me if god tells you to quit it

you better quit it

if he tells you i got something better

for you you better better trust him

god’s not going to tell you to do

something listen that he doesn’t know

what’s going to happen on the other side

of that

and so i’m not suggesting anybody quit

the job i’m suggesting that you

obey god and watch him work in your life

and oftentimes people are not willing to

obey him think about this

if you disobey him you you don’t you

don’t have any idea what

could have been yours if you’re to trust

him

god’s not up to tricks he he’s not a

mystery god

he’s a god who loves us if he tells you

not to do something

he knows what’s on the other side of

what you’re about to get if you do it

you say well this is my this is my only

chance this is my last chance noted

if god is in control and he is he knows

exactly how to

organize and arrange our life and when

when we should do things

of course we fail to see god at work in

our circumstances

then we waver and one of the reasons we

waver sometimes is because

he tells us to do something or we ask

him about something

and it doesn’t happen immediately and so

we

result by saying well i must have been

wrong in asking for that no

well i must have asked for the wrong

thing not necessarily

well i i must uh well i must this and

i’m going to say we waiver

and oftentimes god

is ready to answer your petition but

watch this in his time

in his way for example if god

is responding to a request that you made

and he knows there’s something in your

life that’s not right

and watch this anytime god wants to

bless you

always uppermost in his thinking is

where you are

spiritually and you walk with him

because if we live in sin and disobey

god and god just blesses and blesses us

what will happen we just keep on living

in sin thinking we’re getting by with it

so if you’re asking for god for

something in your life

and it’s not happening you need to look

at yourself first of all and say lord

what do you what do what do you see in

my life that you need to deal with and

about 99 of the time you’re gonna find

something

and so he wants to deal with that

because secondly

it may be that what what you’ve asked

him for is his will

he wants to do it but he knows to you

deal with that sin in your life

it won’t work when you get out here

because you’re going to mess up

and that’s what happens when we try to

live in the will of god we’re going to

trust him

we want to keep something in our back

pocket over here just for us

that doesn’t fit who god is and what his

plan is for our life

then what happens he’s protecting us

likewise one of the reasons he doesn’t

give it to us quickly

is because he he gives you the blessing

by saying

here’s what i’m going to do trust me say

okay god i’m going to trust you

a day goes by a week goes by month goes

by

you’re saying i made a mistake no he

just said trust me

he didn’t say trust me in five days

here’s what i’m gonna do most of the

time

god doesn’t give us any details and the

reason he doesn’t give us any details is

he wants us to trust him so here’s what

he’s doing

you ask him about something and and you

feel like well that’s what god wants me

to do

and it doesn’t happen what you don’t

know what you don’t realize the way god

operates

he’s over here working to do what

getting the situation right so you can

have what you ask

because it’s his will but that’s the

time has to be right

there may be other people involved god

knows for example you’re trying to buy a

house

and you want you got to have it right

now he may know that if you just wait 60

days

you can save thousand dollars but you

gotta have it now

and if i gotta have it now i’m not gonna

walk by faith

and how many instances i could give you

personally and many of you could do the

same thing

and so if i understand if i understand

how he works

then i understand that watch this timing

is very important to god a good example

he said to joshua you march around

jericho seven times

seventh day seven times that day here’s

what i’m gonna do

they probably marched around at one time

and said well nothing happened two times

nothing happened

three times that four five six joshua

must be out of his mind seventh day

seven times and what happens the wall

comes down

all of us have had walls in our life

that we want to come down

today and we thank god you’re late no

he’s not late

listen whatever god gives he gives the

best

he doesn’t give second rate anything

we’re the ones who get in trouble

by insisting on doing it our way in our

timing instead of trusting god

then of course uh when we listen to

negative counsel from other people

now remember this there isn’t anybody in

this world

who knows perfectly the will of god for

you but god

there isn’t anybody in this world who

knows when your life’s going to end but

god

there was there’s nobody who knows the

circumstances of your life

nobody who knows how well you’re

equipped or how ill-willed you’re

equipped

nobody knows you like god so when you

ask him about something

and uh then you start listening to other

people

most of the time watch this carefully if

you’ve got friends

who are not very doing very well and you

talk about how god’s going to bless you

you know what that i hate to say this

but you know what they’re on they

their attitude is well how’s god going

to bless you he’s not blessing me

and so what happens am i right amen

now say amen you know it’s true because

that’s the way though human nature is

and so the best thing to do if you ask

god about something don’t ask anybody

else

if god has said here’s what i want you

to do watch this

it doesn’t make any difference what

anybody else thinks

as long as you’ve got the mind of god

you can live with that

and he’s going to give you clear

guidance for what you ought to do

you you can’t trust god and everybody

else and i’m not saying don’t trust

anybody

but i’m simply saying this if god leads

you in a particular direction

and you know he has what difference does

it make

well don’t listen you don’t have to

answer to everybody else you just answer

to god

who’s the blesser not your friends but

god trust him

then of course when we uh focus on our

circumstances rather than god we’re

going to waver

and i think oftentimes uh what happens

the more you focus on your difficulty

your hardship or even your pain when

you’re suffering

the more you focus on it what happens

the bigger it gets

well i mean i’ve been going through this

and i’ve been going through that

and if your friends listen to you and

say i’m so sorry i feel so sorry for you

the more pity they give you the bigger

it gets the bigger it gets

the more you doubt god and so the issue

is focus and i think when i think of

focus i think of

many instances in the bible but one of

the primary ones is daniel

and the lion’s den and so

the bible says he slept with the lions

all night

if he’d have been focused on lions he

would have been sleeping

he’d have been over the corner somewhere

all crouching down hoping that they

wouldn’t see him or something

and it brings me back to one of my most

favorite illustrations

when god just did something for me in

one of the most difficult times of my

life

it probably was one of up to the very

top

and this lady came to see me and she

said

i want you to have lunch with me and

then i want to take you up to my

apartment and show you something

well she was about 70 something and i

was 30 something so i felt pretty safe

and so so um

uh we ate lunch and i i went to see you

and i was going through a very difficult

time at church they were doing their

best trying to get rid of me

and uh so she uh

we walked in she said don’t sit down i

want to show you something

i walked over and showed me this picture

of daniel in the lion’s den

and she said now son uh i want you to

tell me what you see

so i said well and i can still remember

look at that picture i see

this line over here looking up and this

one looking down and

see the bones and so i thought of

everything this little lady

could possibly have thought about and i

said she said do you see anything else

i said no she said if you’ll notice

and then the picture had all these lines

and daniel had his hands behind him he

was looking at this ray of light

she said what i want you to see is

daniel doesn’t have his eyes on the

lions

but on god it was like god hugged me

that day

because from that moment on all of my

fears disappeared and all of my

uncertainties

and uh a lot of other things probably

disappeared

because she got my focus right

when you focus on the trouble and the

heartache and the burden of the pain

it gets bigger and we feel less

confident

less significant and overwhelmed because

remember this

daniel was looking at omnipotence

who created the lions

he could shut the lion’s mouth he got to

kill every one of them in a second

he just let him hang around while

daniel went to sleep that night

and before he probably went to sleep and

when he woke up he went up and looked up

and

just reminding of god that he was where

he was because he had obeyed god

and god delivered him it’s where your

focus is and when i think about faith

if i can think of any other word that

that joins me to faith it’s focus

as long as i’m focused on him and what

he says in his word

and being in his word and looking at him

rather than

rather circumstances

this unconditional loving god i know

he’s going to see me through whatever it

may be no matter what it is

then of course when we’re ignorant of

god’s ways and i have uh mentioned that

several different times and that is if i

don’t understand his ways

then i’ll question you so what’s his

ways the best way to describe that is

this

watch this god always operates

on the basis of principles not on the

basis of feelings and how we feel and so

on principles for example

the simplest one is we reap what we sow

more than we sow later than we

sow god always operates he does never

change that

and so for example one of those

principles is obey god leave all the

consequences to him that means

i’m going to do what he says i’m going

to let him take care of the consequences

god always acts for example he says one

of those principles is

that god acts in behalf of those who

wait for him

and so if i’m going to act on the basis

of principle then i know i’m going to be

heading in the right direction doing the

right thing because

god operates on principles and that’s

the reason you and i can learn how

to relate to him because if i don’t

understand his ways then i’m going to

say god what are you up to

well he’s just up to doing and being who

he says he is

and so you could come up with most any

problem and i believe

give me a little time and i can come up

with a principle to say

if you’ll obey this principle watch what

happens because

god wants us to obey him and listen

leave the consequences to him let me ask

you a question

is there any consequence of your

obedience god can’t handle

right none he can handle every one of

them well if i

obey him and leave the consequences to

him

here’s what happens i’m going to be able

to have peace and a sense of joy

and confidence and assurance it doesn’t

make any difference what’s going on

because he’s in control

and if i’m obeying him he’s already

taken care of it

because listen the only thing that can

happen in your life

is what god allows if you’re a child of

god

what he allows he allows for a reason i

may not like it and there have been lots

of times i’ve told him i didn’t like it

and you know what he said nothing

nothing he just let me

hammer away with it and deal with it

until i finally said god

you’re right i don’t like this i know

you’re right because that’s what your

word says

and even though i don’t like it i want

you to have your way no matter what

you can’t lose then of course one of the

other reasons is simply this

guilt over your past or present sin

now watch this when you’re living with

guilt in your life

or you’re living with sin in your life

you’re going to have a very difficult

time trusting god

because sin short circuits the power of

god in a person’s life

and one of the reasons that he doesn’t

answer a lot of people’s petitions

because

they somehow overlook that they think

that somehow i can send a little bit

here and send a little bit there and

send a little bit here and send a little

bit there

and god he’s just going to overlook all

that he doesn’t overlook sin you know

why because it’s a destroyer

sin doesn’t destroy it warps out

thinking and so

when we have for example let’s just say

that something happened back out in your

life and

you’ve never been able to forgive

yourself for watch this here’s what

you’re saying

when the bible says if i confess my sin

repent of that sin he’s faithful and

just

that means he always does just means he

has the right to he died for me

to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us

from all unrighteousness

that’s that’s the law of god that’s

that’s his promise if i trust him

i’m going to accept his forgiveness and

move on but if i don’t

trust his promise of forgiveness i’ve

got that weight

that load of unforgiveness that burden

on me continually and so what i’m saying

is god

i know that’s what you promised now

watch this carefully

but god you lied would you call god a

liar

but you do when you refuse to accept his

forgiveness

and you keep carrying guilt and sin in

your life that you’ve asked him to

forgive you and to cleanse your oven and

you still have it what you’ve said is i

know that’s what you said

but it’s not true now if i said that to

you

you would say are you calling me a liar

now we don’t like that listen the very

idea of calling god a liar

is obnoxious to us it’s hard for me to

say it but what i want you to see is

it’s reality

he says here’s what i’m going to do you

say no you’re not

then you call him a liar

you want to get in real trouble just

keep calling him a liar

when you can trust him and believe what

he says

and oftentimes we fail to do it let me

go back to a verse

go back to that chapter 11 in mark from

i want you to see something interesting

here

i won’t read that same passage again but

i’m going to come to the end of it

when he says in verse 22 have faith in

god

let’s move on down to verse 24 when he

says therefore i say to you

all things for which you pray and ask

believe that you have received them

and they’ll be granted to you look at

the next verse whenever you stand

praying forgive

if you have anything against anyone so

that your father who is in heaven

will also forgive you your

transgressions but if you do not forgive

neither of your father who is in heaven

forgive your transgressions now that

doesn’t mean

that if you sin that you’re no longer

safe he’s talking about

daily our daily sins that is if i don’t

confess and deal with it

then what it’s standing between god and

me

and i have to deal with it and so it’s

interesting he put that verse right

after he talked about answered prayer

because he knows what sin does in a

person’s life

it just cancels out what god desires to

do

so then the last thing i mentioned is

when we listen to the lies of satan

what happens we’re not going to trust

him remember what he said to eve he said

eve oh eve you won’t

god didn’t mean that he didn’t mean that

you’d surely die

he just couched it in a way that she

fell for it

when you listen to the devil’s lies and

satan’s you say well does satan talk to

you

where do you think all that stuff comes

from where does all

lust and sin and disobedience and hatred

animosity and unforgiveness comes from

because satan will tell you look god

understands how you feel

look what they did to you they

mistreated you god doesn’t expect you to

forgive them

you just go your way and don’t worry

about it that’s the devil’s lie

and he’s full of them and one of the

reasons people don’t have what they need

the reason they don’t have any peace and

joy in their life is simply because

they are listening to the wrong voice

and the devil will trap you

with trying to deceive you into thinking

that what he’s saying is true

now let’s talk about the consequences

for just a moment i’m going to list them

rather quickly

what are the consequences of not

trusting him and that is having wavering

faith yes he will no he won’t

listen to this first of all we become

double-minded that’s what he said in

that passage

he says if you don’t trust him you’re a

double-minded man

yes he will no he won’t i think he can

i’m not sure

likewise he says we become unstable in

our ways

and a person who can’t make up their

mind and the person can’t who cannot

accept their focus on god and follow him

and obey him

is unstable in all their ways and you

and i know plenty of people like that

they don’t understand what’s going on

they think that’s just life and many

people have accepted

a very low level of living when god

never intended them to live in that

fashion likewise we’re going to miss the

blessings of god

and that’s one of the most evident

things you don’t trust him you miss the

blessing

what does he have for his children he

has the best you say well i know folks

who have more than i have and this

and the other but you know what you

don’t know what more than you have

is doing in their life it may be good it

may not be good if god gives it to them

that’s one thing

listen he knows what you and i he knows

what you and i can handle

he knows what’s best for us at certain

times in our life and all of us

can look back and think well god why did

why did you why did it take so long for

me to get to this place so what it takes

so long for me to learn this or whatever

it might be

all of us are different god loves every

single one of us unconditionally

there’s nobody he loves anymore he loves

anyone else he’s put us in this life he

has a will and a purpose and a plan

i might not always be able to understand

it but one thing for certain

i know that his blessings will come in

his perfect timing

and he knows what that perfect timing is

and we

we listen if you and i knew

if anybody knew especially a lost person

if you knew

what you were missing as a result of not

trusting god as your savior

putting your life in his hands you would

get saved

immediately but you don’t know that

and a believer living in sin living a

backslidden life

you know do you know what you’re missing

you’re missing the best of god’s

blessings

because he desires to bless us with his

best then of course

continuous wavering destroys our faith

when you say well yes he will no he

won’t yes

you get in that habit after a while you

don’t believe anything you say well i

tried

and it didn’t work i trusted him and he

didn’t come through

god always comes through the issue

is am i in a position for him to bless

me by trusting him

and sometimes of course the result of

that is we mislead other people

and i think about parents who

disobey god don’t trust god they sit

around the table at night moaning and

groaning because

this has happened to them of this

they’ve lost this and they lost that and

why does god treat them that way what

are you doing you you you’re drilling

into your children’s minds

that god isn’t trustworthy you can’t

really trust him he’s not who he says he

is forget this bible business because

what and what you do you destroy your

children’s faith

you impact listen you impact other

people you mislead them

and as a result you you we lose our

influence

when you go to work for example every

day and you’re complaining about this

and complaining about that

and they say hmm what’s wrong with them

what’s happening to them

we have an influence and a testimony we

can make an impact or we can fail

and the greatest way to make the

greatest impact is trusting god and

allowing people to watch

how god works in your life it’s costly

very costly not to trust him

and one of the reasons it is we make

wrong decisions if he tells me to do

something and i don’t do it

i make a wrong decision i suffer the

results and the unbeliever looks at you

and says well

if your god’s all that good then why

doesn’t he provide for you

and so they have a right to expect you

and me to live

above what is the natural normal life

that they think about

very very costly we make wrong decisions

it costs us our peace for one thing you

can’t have a staggering

wavering faith it’s on today and off

tomorrow and have any peace whatsoever

and anxiety jesus says don’t be anxious

about anything

god doesn’t want us living with anxiety

and worry

he wants us living in trust

believing him and we can always rest in

his awesome

faithfulness to us then of course as we

say we make constant decisions

those decisions oftentimes are financial

decision

relationship decisions and work

decisions

because when we fail to trust him it

always

cost us something and sometimes a great

deal

and then it’ll discourage your prayer

life he said why should i pray

i trusted god and this didn’t happen but

did you really trust him was your heart

clean

were you trusting him or were you just

going by feelings was it on the day and

off tomorrow

and then i would say one last thing that

is how do we correct this

how do we correct how how can we get our

faith steady

focused no matter what’s going on well

there’s several things

number one when you listen

when you begin to waver in your faith

stop and ask yourself these questions

very important question just stop and

ask yourself you find yourself waving

you

you think you know what god said you’re

not sure then

listen to these questions number one

where do these doubts come from

one of the first questions you ought to

ask and you see when you ask the

question where do these doubts come from

does this sound like god is this the way

god opera is this the way god

acts and some oftentimes you’ll say god

would never say that

according to scripture that’s not the

way god operates so you ask yourself the

question

where do these thoughts come from

secondly ask yourself this question

has god ever failed me in the past

and the answer is no he has not has he

ever failed me in the past

why do i think he’s going to fail me now

and the third question is this

did god not promise to meet all my needs

and you look in the scripture and you go

to philippians chapter 4 what does he

say

my god will supply all of your needs to

conan’s riches in glory in christ jesus

if he’s not then there must be something

going on in my life that i need to deal

with

the fourth question is this did he not

give me the holy spirit to enable me

to achieve and to do whatever he called

me to do yes he did

or what’s going on here in my life that

i’m struggling in my faith

then of course did he not did he not

promise to be with me

at all times here i am worried about

this thinking i’m going through this by

myself

didn’t he promise to be with me in every

circumstance yes he did he said i will

never fail you

nor desert you nor leave you under any

circumstance

so if that’s true i know that whatever

i’m going through i can trust

god that he’s going to go with me

through it

he’s going to preserve me he’s going to

protect me and he’s going to teach me

what he wants me to learn

if i’ll just listen to him carefully

and then the question is anything too

hard for god what would you say to that

well three people said no what would you

say to the question

is anything too hard for god

right then if i’m facing a difficulty

where should my focus be not on the

difficulty

but upon my father and whom

there is nothing too difficult and of

course

is watch this last one is this one of

those forks in the road

is this one of those forks in the road

in which my unbelief

could cost me

for a whole lifetime a lifetime of

regret

write it down is this one of those

situations in which

the wrong decision lack of faith

failing to trust him could cost me

in my future all of my life

that i’d have to end up saying if i’d if

i do this and if i do that

if i to the other how do i correct it i

ask myself some questions

listen watch this carefully the second

thing i’m going to do

i’m going to meditate upon the word of

god watch this

daily

unhurriedly

and applying what i read if i want my

faith to be steady

i’m going to be meditating upon the word

of god which means i read it

i ask him what it means to me i want to

i want to

i’m not going to get in a hurry i’m

going to apply it to my life

and ask him to show me what are you

saying to me in this passage watch this

god speaks in different ways but one of

the most accurate

primary way god speaks to us is through

his word

and the question is what is he saying

somebody says well god’s never spoken to

me oh yes he has

yes he has that’s what this book’s all

about god’s speaking to us

and if i’m going through some situation

and i want to correct

my wavering faith i’m going to ask those

questions and i’m going to get in the

word

and i’m going listen i’m going to

meditate on it carefully

and i think oftentimes when you do it

privately

and i’m going to apply what i read on

i’m going to listen to what he’s saying

and i’m not going to doubt him because

he knows i’m coming to the word

seeking an answer and seeking

clarification

likewise i’m going to try to recall

instances in the past when i was

troubled and

god faithfully answered my petition

this is why i say you should have a

bible whatever bible you have

and it ought to be one with enough

margin in it that you’ve got

room to write in it and then when you

come to one of those situations and god

speaks to your heart through a

particular verse

write in the margin a date and just put

one or two words what that is

you know what happens after a while your

bible becomes a biography of god working

in your life

now i would never tell anybody how to

read the bible necessary but i’ll give

you a suggestion

when i’m gonna when i’m reading and

meditating on the word of god

i do not use this bible right here

you say when you preach out of it that’s

right when i open this bible

i’m going to work i’m listening to god

for what he wants to say to me

but to me primarily through me to you

so what do i do for my own private

devotion i read two different other

bibles

you say well do they say something

different no they just sit in a

different way

and one of them is the living bible

because it’s so very

ca it’s so down-to-earth and casual the

way it’s written but it’s true

and uh i will usually read either that

or one other version i’m not going to

tell you what that is you

thought oh i got to go and buy me

another no you got the right version

in fact the one you have in your hand

that i preach from is the most accurate

it’s the most accurate translation it’s

boxy it’s not easy to memorize they

can’t old king james version is the best

is the best bible to memorize it just

flows this thing doesn’t flow like that

at all

but it’s the most accurate what i’m

after is god what did you say

how did you say how did you say it i

want to be sure that what i convey to

somebody else is exactly what you said

when i’m reading from my own personal

devotion then i listen

i don’t have you in mind sorry i

i have me in mine what does god want to

say to me

you have to decide how you read the word

of god

but read it and ask and remember we said

read it carefully

unhurriedly and you prayerfully

and you read it for god to speak to you

you’re you and you and you’re reading it

very sincerely god

my heart’s open to what you have to say

then i would say

courageously choose to obey

and leave all the consequences to it

that sometimes

it’s going to take a lot of courage to

trust him

i think about my son andy when he was

just about

five years of age and we had him at this

pool learning to swim

i’ll never forget this as long as i live

sand is your turn to dive in

and i look at him and he’s walking

around the pool like this

talking to god about giving him the

courage

to jump in and i thought about how many

times god

i haven’t been in a pool but i’ve been

in front of a lot of other things saying

lord

give me the courage to take a leap

and i can tell you and all these years i

lived the christian life

i’ve never leaped and regretted it

not one time i couldn’t tell you enough

how awesome it is to trust god and the

thing about that you’re living your life

without him

let me tell you it is foolish it is a

disaster

you’re suffering for things you would

normally have to suffer for you don’t

have

what god would provide for you he’s a

great god of goodness and love and mercy

and kindness and generosity

to his children if you’ve never trusted

him as your personal savior

nothing i’ve said is going to work for

you it’s when first of all you come to

grips with your life

and recognize that jesus christ is the

son of god

whom he sent into this world and your

behalf and mine

in order to die on the cross and in

doing so

he took all the sin of all humanity

placed upon him

and condemned him listen condemned him

with the death

that those without him would suffer one

day

but he only suffered it for that short

period of time

for all of us when you’re willing to ask

jesus to forgive you of your sin

and tell him that you’re trusting him as

your personal savior you’re not trusting

in your goodness

you’re trusting him as your personal

savior you’re believing that his death

paid your sin dead in full

asking him to forgive you receiving him

is your savior your lord and your master

the moment you do that he’s willing to

forgive you and

set you on a whole new path and the path

i’m talking about is the path i’ve just

finished talking about

it’s the walk of faith that you’ll be

happy

and grateful to god from the first day

you took that step

and that’s my prayer for you in the face

of challenges

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if you want great faith one of the

things that’s absolutely necessary

is that you and i read the word of god

we we meditate upon the word of god we

absorb it and then do what

we obey it and then watch god work

father’s day advice scene one take one

when i’d get ready to leave the house my

father would always yell down

remember who you are and that really

stuck with me

he’d say son five minutes early that’s

on time

on time was late and he would always say

tell your kids about jesus

i love you dad and

cut that’s a wrap people

where did you grow up um

maybe we’ll go to the park today

absolutely yeah

be careful hold on

i’m a planner ready for everything

now i’m out of work for months i can’t

imagine how my wife and kids gonna see

me

just one day at a time now that’s about

all i can take

and i’m praying like i never prayed

before

now every day

it’s the ultimate conversation

it’s very important for a child to get

off to a good start in life

we all know this and it’s why a parent

will read to a child who can’t yet talk

and ensure that their young ones eat

right stay healthy

but how much more important is it to

give them a foundation

in almighty god i can tell you from

personal experience

that such a beginning is far more

valuable than the right schools

more precious than any inheritance you

would leave them to be raised with a

biblical understanding of god

and to feel his love through a godly

parent is to be born into privilege

now wouldn’t you like to give a child

that kind of start well today’s email

comes from to us

from a young lady who wants these things

for her son

the email reads i watched in touch a

while ago when dr stanley’s son

was preaching what stuck out to me was

when andy said

he couldn’t remember a time in his life

when he didn’t have hope in god

i’m the mother of a seven-month-old son

and this

is something i want to instill in him

how can i teach my son to always have

hope

in the lord that’s a wonderful question

well let me just start by giving a

little personal testimony

as far back as i could possibly remember

i remember my mother talking about god

when i didn’t even understand i’m sure

what she was talking about

she was always talking about him and

whenever we would discuss things somehow

god was always in the issue and i

remember there were times when we had

great needs just the two of us

and she would say well let’s talk to god

let’s pray or

whatever she would say in different ways

different times but also remember that

she and i would always kneel at

nighttime

by the bed and my mom would pray i can

still hear a voice

i can still hear her call my name in

that sweet wonderful way

i would simply say this when your mother

does that

it’s ingrained in you you just grow up

knowing that god is an

absolute vital part of your life and i

would say the same thing for my children

that i wanted to do the same for them so

i would kneel by the bed at night

and talk to them about jesus about god

when they didn’t know what i was talking

about

but i knew that one day they would

understand and it wasn’t for me to

decide what that day was

i just wanted to be sure there was

nothing left unsaid

and i would simply say to this mother

and to every mother the key

in teaching your children to trust god

to hope in god is example

no matter what you say it’s always

example

when they see you and they hear you

talking about the lord and your

dependence upon him

and your confidence in him and when

you’re praying

about everything with your child very

early in life

continually speaking encouragingly about

him

speaking often about him and his

presence and his love and his provision

no matter what problem that comes up

bringing god into the issue

and what happens is after a while

they’ll bring it up

they’ll be talking about god and they’ll

be talking about asking him to give us

help

so when you think in terms of your child

remember this carefully the child

may may listen the child may hear what

you say

but they will do what you do if you want

to grow your child up to believe in god

through the lord jesus christ and to

have hope in him

and trust in him and confidence in him

it comes from you mom and dad

no matter what somebody else says it’s

what you say

but also more important what you do

begin before the child even

understands you say well why should i

talk to my kid about

about jesus about god when they don’t

understand in their little subconscious

mind it’s being poured into them

that awesome truth and god is saying

more to them than you could ever imagine

by example teach them to pray very early

as early as possible what a wonderful

privilege think about this what a

wonderful privilege you have

to work and to watch and to pray and to

rejoice as that child grows up

trusting jesus as savior very early

believing that god is sufficient for

every need of their life

and most of all seeking god’s will and

purpose and plan

for their life what an awesome

opportunity

well thank you for joining us today for

in touch scripture tells us

those who wait for the lord will gain no

strength

they will mount up with wings like

eagles they will run and not get tired

and they’ll walk and not become weary

truly

god acts on our behalf on behalf of all

of those

who wait for him make this the example

of your life

and your children will have the best

start

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