Dr. Stanley traces the downward spiral sin leads us on when we believe Satan’s lies and ignore God’s Word. But no matter how dark sin may make our lives, God is willing and able to forgive—just like the father in the parable. Learn how simple repentance restores right relationship. For more messages from Charles Stanley, including this week’s broadcast, go to intouch.org/tv.
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in touch with Dr Charles Stanley
reaching the world with the Gospel of
Jesus Christ through sound Biblical
teaching next on in touch Dr Stanley
begins his series welcome home parable
of the prodigal with part one the
condition of the heart
thank you the condition of your heart
determines the direction of your life
I don’t know what direction you’re
walking in right now
but the condition of your heart I’m not
talking about the physical heart your
spirit
determines the direction of your life
if you’re walking in the right direction
good walking in the wrong direction it’s
going to be fatal very important
that you walk in the direction of the
Lord Jesus Christ you may have other
ideas most people do but eventually
you’re going to discover whatever God
teaches in his word is the way it is not
the way some people think it is it’s the
way that it is in this particular
passage of scripture Jesus has really
described how all of us are
all of us will find their way at some
point in this passage of scripture
because we’re either
a
sinner living in sin like this young man
or
we are having unforgiving Spirit like
his brother
or we have a wonderful forgiving Spirit
like the father
the story of The Prodigal Son
has all of us in it somewhere and that’s
what I want us to talk about in this
particular Passage
so I want us to read part of this 15th
chapter of the Luke and if you’ll turn
there for a moment
Jesus was telling the Pharisees he’s
talking to the Pharisees and telling
them some stories here giving them some
illustrations and he talked about the
sheep that gone astray he talked about
the Lost coin and then he came to the
Sun
and this is probably one of the most
memorable stories Jesus ever told one of
the most effective
and all of us fit in this chapter one
way or the other
and so today I want to say look at the
sun and the scripture says in this 15th
chapter beginning in verse 11.
and Jesus said a man had two sons the
younger of them said to his father
father give me the share of the estate
that falls to me so he divided his
wealth between them
not many days later the younger son
gathered everything together and went on
a journey into a distant country
and there he squanded his state with
loose living
now when he had spent everything a
severe famine occurred in that country
and he began to be impoverished
so he went and hired himself out to one
of the citizens of that country
and he sent him into the fields to feed
swine
he would have gladly filled his stomach
with the PODS of the swan were eating
and no one who was giving him anything
but when he came to his senses he said
how many of my fathers hired men have
more than enough to eat and I’m dying
here with Hunger I will get up
I’ll go on to my father and I will say
to him father I have sinned against
heaven and in your sight no longer
worthy to be called your son make me one
of your hard servants so he got up came
to his father but while he was still a
long way off his father son felt
compassion for him ran and embraced him
and kissed him
and the son said to him father I’ve
sinned against heaven and in your sight
I’m no longer worthy to be called your
son but the father said to his slaves
quickly bring out the best robe put it
on him put a ring on his hand and
Sanders on his feet bring the fatted
calf we getting her to have a big party
I love that that’s what happened
so I want you to see something here
the word of God is true from Genesis to
revelation
and when God gives us a very clear
picture of something he wants us to
understand this is the way it is not the
way you think it is this is the way it
is
and this young man’s life is a perfect
example of where most people are living
today or want to live I want you to ask
yourself the question where am I headed
if the condition of my heart determines
the direction of my life where am I
walking where am I headed so I want us
to think about it first of all
I want us to look at step number one
which is the desire he had
in his heart
and so after a while he decided I don’t
want to live any more like this I want
to enjoy life like other people enjoying
life
and so he went to his father and he said
I’d like you to give me my part of your
estate that’s coming to me
and just let me do what I think I would
like to do and thinking in his heart
listen if my dad did this well you ought
to see me
and so his father didn’t argue with him
because he knew how absolutely
determined he was to have his way and so
the scripture says that his father
divided their state
and um
he divided them between him and his
brother
and so not many days later what happened
the scripture says he made a decision
and he made a decision to live his life
his way where he wanted to live that’s
always
a step in the wrong direction if you
forget that the condition of your heart
will determine direction of your life
and many people make a decision in life
and they don’t realize that that
decision is just here
it’s what happens after the decision and
the devil whether you believe him or not
he’s real
the devil is very careful to make you
believe that your choice minus God is
the beginning of real life
and so this young man decided he’d leave
home and I can imagine as he decided to
do it that um
he probably put on his best and said I
want to look good where we’re going
so the scripture says he made a decision
and he Departed
and he went to the far country that’s
the King James version until far country
so the question Comes Is this where is
the far country
a far country is wherever you choose to
go outside the will of God
and I can remember one Sunday morning a
lady young lady walked down the aisle
and told me what was going on in her
life and I had preached on this
particular Passage
and she said pastor I’ve been in a far
country I’ve been living in a far
country
listen you can live in a far country and
never leave your house
you’re living without God in your life
you’re living in a far country
I remember the same message that a young
fellow walked down the aisle and he said
to me
last night I slept with my girlfriend
this morning we woke up I turned on the
television and there you were
and he said I knew I could not lie here
a moment longer I got up and he said she
wanted to know where are you going he
said you don’t understand
so he got dressed came to church got
saved that morning walked down the aisle
he said I want to be saved today because
I’ve been in the far country anywhere
you’re living outside the will of God
for your lives of our country it can be
a block away or it can be a thousand
miles away
it’s the condition of your heart that
determines where you are and what’s
going on in your life so the scripture
says he packed his Duds and left
he was going to live life for the first
time the way he wanted to live that’s
always Satan’s lie listen Satan’s always
pointing to something you don’t have and
simply saying to you if you had that or
if you had her or if you had him or if
you lived there if you were here if you
drove that if you could live in that
kind of house always if you this that
the other that’s not the issue
Satan always paints pictures watch this
that he knows gets your attention
that’s the kind he paints
and with the picture comes the Assurance
you could have it if you just do what he
said
if you just follow him you could have
whatever you want you could live
wherever you live drive whatever you
drive have who or whatever it might be
and so just follow him that’s the
downward steps away from almighty God
and that’s the way it works and so the
scripture says he Departed
and naturally what he was thinking of
what a fantastic time he was going to
have he had half of his father’s estate
so plenty of money
and secondly he didn’t have to give an
account to anybody that’s one of the
devil’s lies you don’t have to give an
account to anybody listen you have to
give an account to God 24 hours a day
whether you a 24 or well you’re 104 you
do not have the privilege of living
without accountability you may live
without accountability on this Earth to
parents and so forth but you’re
accountable to God it is a it is
appointed unto man wants to die and
after this the Judgment because we’re
all accountable so he left he had lots
of Big Dreams and his departure was
awesome for him because this was the
beginning of a new life how many people
have made that mistake I’m going to live
for the first time the way I want to
live nobody’s going to be telling me
what I can’t do what I can’t do I can
buy what I want go where I want and have
who I want
that’s the devil’s that’s always his
approach that is if you’ll serve me the
devil says just watch what I’ll do the
only problem my line is this he only
tells you the first part
as always the second part to the message
he doesn’t tell and Satan painted this
awesome picture for him of deception and
um
so he left
and so he had a wonderful time he
thought
and so the scripture is very evident God
doesn’t leave out anything in the Bible
so how did he spend his money
and he was spending his money partying
drinking carousing have what he thought
was a good time
watch this
Satan always blinds your mind
to the effects and the nature of sin and
its consequences at the moment
eventually you’re going to see it but at
the moment he blinds the consequences
right now you feel good you look good
you have it all and so everything is
fine
that’s the devil’s line you’re going to
be fine you’re going to meet beautiful
women you can drink all you want to
drink look how much money you’ve got
Satan never says how much money you’re
going to have when I get through with
you
he doesn’t say how how are you going to
feel feeling so immoral and partying and
drinking and carousing and sleeping
around with other women then how are you
going to feel
well but you see that’s the devil’s way
of catching so many people
living in sin
disobeying God and having plenty for the
moment
but that doesn’t last because you see
it’s a downward step
and so he lived like he wanted to live
for a while
but after a while the scripture says um
he began to wander a little bit because
listen you can’t help with so much sex
so much drink so much carousing so many
different kinds of friends and the same
thing over and over and over again that
he began to one around think well you
know what am I going to do now and
what’s next and so forth and uh
he began to be a little dissatisfied
sin always brings you to a point of
total dissatisfaction
you can’t be satisfied with sin and so
he found himself wondering
then he felt himself warning
that is um
you know
these things don’t satisfy me now
what’s happening I’ve had all of this I
want and all that I dreamed of and
something’s missing every once in a
while he probably would think you know
back home
those wonderful meals my mom cooked
I had my dad I could ask questions about
my mom she was always there but then he
would brush that aside and think about
well I got to get over that so another
drink or another woman and he could
forget it for a little while until his
want became stronger and stronger and
stronger and stronger
now watch this
here’s the problem
Satan never tells you what’s coming
he always wants you to think of today
how you feel today what you have or what
you can’t have but is that he doesn’t
tell you about the times that are coming
because he wants to destroy you
and so all of a sudden he finds himself
getting lower and lower on his resources
and finally he hasn’t gotten the money
at all
now what about his friends
a lot of people who make you think that
you’re a friend as long as you have
something to give
you don’t have anything to give it’s
amazing how they just evaporate right in
front of you or what happened to so and
so
well he got busy what what about this
person what about that
and so here he was
he had all the drink he could want
he had all the women he could want
he had all the pleasure he could think
of and now he didn’t plan on something
he didn’t plan on the famine that
suddenly came to the land
watch this you can’t plan on the devil’s
traps
you can’t you might think you can but
you can’t he’s going to be there sooner
or later and he’s going to take you down
in one way or the other I think about
how many broken homes and how many how
many broken lives and how many broken
bodies because people listen to the LIE
of the devil you’ll be okay you’ll be
all right what does he say you’re an
exception
that that happened that that won’t
happen to you yes it will
and the next thing you know the
scripture says he began to be in want
and as he was he finally had to hire
himself I don’t know who he hired
himself out to first but finally he
ended up in the lowest place he could
end up as a Jewish boy
is a young Jewish man he ended up
we would say in our time slopping Hogs
but they were eating pods there were
Hogs eating pods and here he is in a Hog
Pen feeding the Hogs
the pods
what else he had to think how did I get
in this place
I had it all
and now I don’t have anything
and it got even worse that there was
such little food in the Hog Pen he had
to race the Hogs to get to the next pod
unless they eat that and he had nothing
that’s a long ways from having
everything wonderful father wonderful
mother
wonderful lifestyle having everything
wonderful family feeling loved taken
care of
everything was fine now look at him
many people have lived the story
in fact you know some of them I know
some of them
I know a few that I’ve tried to tell
them what was happening and they didn’t
listen
because you see the devil he he is a
master at closing your ears to the truth
while he’s the pastor he’s your
Christian friend what what does he know
about you and oftentimes when you try to
tell somebody I need I need to share
with you what’s happening I see
something happening in your life you
don’t listen just out of my business
and when I think about this young man in
the hog pan what he began to think about
I had it all
I had everything I thought I wanted
I got everything I wanted to get
and now what did he get me it got me at
the lowest point of my life
my clothes are gone my dignity is gone
my sense of self-worth has gone I don’t
have anything I’m starving to death
and here’s what a false dream planted in
his heart caused him to end up in a Hog
Pen now listen carefully all the hog
pins weren’t destroyed a few thousand
years ago
their hog pins today
wherever you’re living without God in
your life
it may look like it’s good
you may have everything you want
but if you are spiritually without God
you’re still in a whole pen
and as long as you listen to the devil
as long as you refuse to surrender your
life to God it’s just going to get worse
and worse and worse
Solomon simply ask you this where are
you in this downward trach you started
out with everything but where are you
now
are you satisfied where you are now no
do you know how to get out of this no
well I want to show you how I want to
tell you how no matter how deep you are
how distance you are from God I want to
remind you this that God hasn’t stopped
loving you
you may be unfit to be hugged unfit to
be kissed
you may be unfit for anything in your
eyes but God still loves you and so it’s
just a matter of making a decision
he’s at the Bottom Rung of the ladder
all his friends are gone all this money
is gone all of his self-dignity is gone
everything’s gone it’s just he and the
Hogs
I wonder who you’re fellowshipping with
are they people sort of in the same
Condition You Are
listen to what happened to him the
scripture says when he came to his
senses
many people need to come to their senses
because the holy watches the holy spirit
of God
will work on you work on you work on you
work on you and remind you
of God’s offer of Love is offer of his
presence his power and whatever you need
in life he’s going to provide he has the
offer
the scripture says when he came to his
senses he said
how many of my fathers hired men
have more than enough bread
but I’m dying here with hunger
now it could stop right there
that’s where how many people are
they drink every night they Corrals
every day and they’ve lost this job that
job the other job and they’re living in
sin and the truth is they may be smiling
on their face but they’re hurting so
deep in their heart their hearts are
torn apart
too embarrassed to go home
maybe they have no home
maybe they’ve hurt themselves so badly
they can’t go home and so what they have
to say is what can I do
well listen to what the scripture says
he says
at that low State I will get up and go
to my father and say to him father I
have sinned against heaven and your
sight
the perfect solution listen
that’s always the right thing to do that
is he came to his senses and my prayer
for you is this whoever you are wherever
you listening from whatever your
situation circumstances you may be as
low as the prodigal you may be lower
than that but you are not hopelessly
helplessly lost if you will listen to
what I’m about to say
because God’s love for you has not
ceased he’s willing knowing what you’ve
done with your life what you are doing
with your life you may be 21 years of
age and already messed it up so badly
you may be so embarrassed at 18 years
old you can’t even go back home
you may have left your family
you have living a double life but I want
to tell you this you’re not going to be
happy you’re not going to find any peace
no joy you can’t make enough money you
can’t have a big enough idea about
yourself you can’t have enough status to
keep you afloat because the spirit of
God is going to work in your heart and
convict you of sin and if you keep
listening I’ll tell you what you can do
you can change all of that if you’ll
remember this the heavenly father loves
you in spite of all your sin all your
Disobedience all your drunkenness all
your sexuality all these things that
you’ve done in your life he’s still
listening if you’re willing to ask him
to forgive you of your sin don’t try to
justify God I’ve sinned against you just
like this boy I’m just going to get up
and say I’m going to my father and say I
have sinned against heaven and before
you no more worthy to be called your son
are you willing to say that to God are
you willing to say to him Lord I’ve been
sinning against you I’ve turned away
from you I’ve known it wasn’t right I’ve
just turned to death here to the gospel
I’m asking you today to forgive me of my
sin I’m not making any promises I’m just
surrendering God I’m surrendering my
life to you I’m asking you to save me
forgive me cleanse me I’m asking you to
do what you said in the Bible that is
the right my name in the Lamb’s Book of
Life I yields my life to you
thanking you for the Forgiveness of my
sin and God I want to be a new person
starting right now
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I know that was fast
that you got the message
and all you have to do if you can’t
remember anything but Lord you heard
what he said that’s what I believe
I I that’s that’s what I’m that’s what
I’m feeling Lloyd
he’ll change your life seated right
where you are right now no other way you
are you may be seated here
or 10 000 miles away
God will forgive you
he’ll cleanse you he’ll straighten up
your life he’ll make you a new person
are you willing to receive him
as your savior and your lord
what a wonderful Simple Story
for his father received him
and the scripture says in the most
beautiful way he got up and came to his
father while he was still a long ways
off his father saw him
never forgotten him he must have looked
a whole lot different than when he left
he saw him
felt compassion for him his father took
off running
ran didn’t wait for confession this is
an awesome scene ran hugged him kissed
him and the scripture says the son said
to him father he started confessing his
sins his dad is hugging him all the time
forgiving him
and promised him here’s what I’m going
to do
foreign
you’re totally forgiven
and to show you we we have the best role
rang the best sandals you know what
that’s a simple story but it’s the truth
of the way God the way God sees things
he’ll save you from the mess you’ve made
of your life if you let him
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