What makes someone a follower of Jesus? Going to church? Donating money to good causes? Trying to be a good person? The answer is actually much simpler: all we have to do is follow the Leader. In this message, Dr. Stanley outlines exactly how to walk in the footsteps of Jesus, surrendering our lives and mirroring His life of prayer, service, and sacrifice.

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followers of Jesus are willing to serve

others by giving to them by encouraging

them in some fashion by presenting them

with the truth of the gospel how

presenting they were the truth of the

gospel when they don’t want to hear it

followers of Jesus make a difference

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if I should ask you simple question are

you a follower of Jesus how would you

answer that you a follower of Jesus well

if I ask that to some people they would

say do you mean

do I believe in God no I just said are

you a follower of Jesus well they might

respond well I’ll know about him that’s

not the question and oftentimes they

would say well I do attend church that’s

that’s not the question either oh they

might say when I go to church every once

in a while they observe Communion and I

participate in that no I asked you if

you were a follower of Jesus well I give

the good causes that’s not the question

well I think I’m a pretty good person I

didn’t ask you that I tried a living a

good life I don’t drink I’ve run around

on my wife I didn’t ask you that I pray

when I feel like I have a need of it

didn’t ask you that I ask you if you are

a follower of Jesus it’s amazing how

many people have different answers and

then I do consider myself a religious

person I didn’t ask you that either

well my parents were very religious and

I didn’t ask you that either and the

truth is all of those answers any one of

them are all of them together would not

equal whether you’re a follower of Jesus

or not and many people think if certain

activities issue in their life certain

experiences then they they must be a

follower of Jesus they must be a

Christian not necessarily so

and so I want you to turn if you will to

Matthew chapter Thor and look at this

eighteenth verse are you a follower of

Jesus listen what the scripture says the

eighteenth verse of Matthew four now as

Jesus was walking by the Sea of Galilee

he saw two brothers Simon who is called

Peter and Andrew his brother casting a

net into the sea for they were fishermen

and he that is Jesus said to them follow

me and I will make you fishers of men

and they immediately left their nets and

the yenna followed Jesus where does

Jesus Christ fit into your life and so

when I think about that that’s going to

be the title of this message

following Jesus so what I’d like to do

in this message I’d like to give you the

activities the experiences of a true

follower of Jesus so that you can decide

whether you are not because there are

certain things that are absolutely

essential to a follower of Jesus many

people think they are many people are

not sure many people are no they’re not

and many people truly are followers of

Jesus so the purpose of this message is

simply to clarify that so I hope you

have a pen and a pencil or a piece of

paper and I want you to write this down

because when somebody says you a

follower of Jesus you can say yes

specifically if you know how to say yes

and I want you to examine your heart and

ask yourself the question not that you

go to church not have you been baptized

not have you taken communion

not have you done all these things but

am I true follower of Jesus so what does

a true follower of Jesus look like what

does it sound like what are the

evidences for the experiences of a true

follower of Jesus so I trust that you’ll

write them down now

to be a follower of Jesus step number

one you must be born again John 3:3 says

truly truly I say to you unless one is

born again he cannot see the kingdom of

God or enter the kingdom of God

so the first basic step of being a

follower of Jesus is being born again so

forget the church of business baptism

and all that stuff it’s being born again

which is a matter of confessing your

sins surrendering your life to Christ

accepting his forgiveness of your life

and beginning to walk in his ways first

of all being born again have you ever

been born again Jesus could not have

made it more clear when he said being

born again not just being better not

just improving being born again as a

result of your confession repentance and

surrender your life to Christ as Savior

Lord

step number 1 did you get that say man

step number 2 and that is if you’re a

follower of Jesus you’re going to be a

person who prays listen to what he says

an example of Jesus in Luke 6 verse 12

it was at that time that he went off to

the mountain to pray and he spent the

whole night in prayer to God

well somebody says well I pray how often

do you pray well once in a while know if

you’re really a follow up Jesus prayer

is a major part of your life in fact how

do you start the day off and living in

this world without talking to God and

how do you go to sleep at night with

perfect security without talking to God

how do you face the issues in life

without prayer that is prayer should be

a habit and not only a habit but a very

important part of our life pray about

what pray about everything and Jesus

prayed about many things but what I want

you to notice is this he watched this

this is the son of God he began his day

alone with God how many times have I

mentioned that to you about starting the

day with

prayer and getting alone having a quiet

time if you’re gonna be a follower of

Jesus

I’ll follow what that’s what the leader

does right so first of all you

born-again and secondly you’re going to

make prayer a very very vital habit in

your life so I would ask you this

question most of you who consider

yourselves followers of Jesus where this

prayer did in your daily life is it’s

something you do when you get in trouble

when you have a need when you get sick

if you think about it are you almost had

an accident you thank God but prayer

pray without ceasing the scripture says

Jesus began his day and not just in this

verse but other verses began his day

alone talking to the Lord and of course

the disciples they couldn’t stand this

they dare to find them and interrupt him

but prayer is the second very vital part

thirdly if you really and truly are a

follower of Jesus you’re gonna listen to

him in Matthew chapter 17 verse 5 listen

what the scripture says while he was

still speaking a bright cloud

overshadowed them and behold a voice out

of the cloud said this is my beloved son

with whom I am well pleased listen to

him that’s the scripture and I believe

one of the greatest weaknesses among

believers is failing to listen to God

God is the sovereign god of this

universe Lord master over all things who

requires our obedience surrender and our

acknowledgment of his rule as God in

this society and in this world how many

of us are listening to him when is the

last time you got on your knees or you

got by yourself in your particular place

the brain just said Lord today I’m not

going to tell you anything I just want

to listen to

you know do you say well I’ve listened

to God and he didn’t say a thing you

know why your attitude wasn’t right

yeah the sovereign god of the universe

who loved you enough to send Jesus to

die for your sins is always available to

hear the prayers of his children who

come to him in sincerity it doesn’t mean

we have to come to him all contest up

because sometimes we come to him in

order to confess and repent of our sin

whatever it might be what a follower of

Jesus is the person who prays and the

person who listens to God as well as

song to God so I would ask you the

question have you been born again what

place does prayer have in your life and

how often do you take time to listen to

him but do you all do all the talking

and many people pray like this well I’m

coming to you today from my needs you

know all my needs and I’m trusting you

to protect me watch over me and care for

me and you know what I’d like to have

you know the things in life on my prayer

list and I’m gonna trust you to take

care of me today in Jesus name Amen that

is all about me myself and I not all

about or any of all about washing me

holy God who deserves our Allegiance and

obedience to walk faithfully before him

number four if I’m gonna be a follower

of Jesus I must believe in this simple

verse for God so loved the world that He

gave His only begotten Son that whoever

believes in Him will not perish but have

everlasting life trusting him faith in

Him

John 3:16 for example that verse is

absolutely essential in order for us to

follow him if I don’t believe him I’m

not gonna do what he says if I don’t

believe him I’m not going to obey him if

I don’t believe in I’m not gonna walk in

his ways if I don’t believe him I’m

gonna live my life centered around what

I want when I

whatever that might be can you honestly

until they say I live by faith I trust

God for my needs I trust God for my

difficulties hardship pain I trust God

when I’m in a sense of facing temptation

what part does faith have in my daily

life in a practical kind of life so

number five if I’m a follower of Jesus

I’m going to obey I’m going to obey John

8:12 says I am the light of the world he

who follows me will not walk in darkness

but will have the light of Life

that is who follows me who obeys me if

I’m really and truly a follower of Jesus

obedience is absolutely essential and

besides that it’s a desire of my heart

if I understand who Jesus is I would be

absolutely foolish not to obeying the

Bible says the wages of sin is what

that’s pretty weak the wages of sin is

what that’s right why do I want to sin

against God if I know that ultimately

there’s gonna be death not just physical

death it could be death to my true

ability to love somebody it could be

death to my opportunity from God to be

blessed fun actually because I’m

disobeying him financially and we could

go right down the line obedience is

absolutely essential to being a follower

of Jesus and you say well why don’t you

spend all that time with that let me ask

you a question what did you spend most

of those early hours and days of your

children’s lives saying that it’s what

you must do I want you to grow up to me

and you were teaching your children to

do what to obey you because you wanted

them to grow up and be the best they can

be if you follow Jesus you obey Him if

you don’t obey Him you thank him

for sending you in the heartache and

troubles and trials to correct your

sense of misdirection and life obedience

to him is absolutely essential and

people don’t like to talk about obeying

God they want to talk about how good god

is well sure God’s good and you know one

of the reasons he’s so good it’s because

he teaches us to obey Him who is the

source of every good thing that comes

our way

now I hope you writing these down and

I’m trusting you when you before you go

to bed tonight check yourself out in

fact it’d be a good idea if you had this

list right by your bed so you would say

okay Lord I know my follow of you so I

know I’m born again I’m praying and

listening and would check yourself out a

true follower of Jesus Christ is gonna

do every single one of these so far

we’re right correct amen that’s pretty

weak but you’ll wake up in a minute

you’re gonna obey and then you’re going

to love him if you’re gonna follow him

you’re going to love him listen to mark

12:30 you shall love the Lord your God

with all your heart with all your soul

and with all your mind and with all your

strength look at that love the Lord your

God with all your heart not a divided

heart having the world in half with God

all your heart with all your soul that

is all your very being your whole

personality and he says with all your

mind that is if I love it watch this if

I love God with all my mind I am going

to be careful what I place in my mind

what I think about who I think about and

the kind of thoughts I have if I’m a

true follower of Jesus and love him with

all my heart soul and my

mind I’m gonna be very careful what our

place in my mind you can’t listen you

cannot love the Lord your God with all

your heart and sit and watch something

on television that absolutely messes up

your mind

challenges your sense of obedience

challenges your sense of Puritan y’all

right now if you really and truly love

him and we come to this whole issue of

loving him that love is going to affect

what I think the way I think where I go

what I say what I do loving is going to

affect every aspect of our life so when

I think about people saying oh yes I’m a

believer I’m a follower of Jesus and yet

they’ve not even thought about how their

activities indicate whether they’re a

follower of not then share him that is

till somebody else about him listen to

what he said in Matthew 28:19 you know

these verses go therefore and make

disciples of all the nations that is

spread the word get to the truth of the

word of God to all the nations the

people who love us the people who hate

us and I think about how that verse is

taking place today all over the world

there are people who risk their lives 24

hours a day they get the simple truth of

the gospel that the people around them

Jesus sent His disciples into a world of

hatred bitterness animosity and death

but it is our responsibility to get the

word out so that means I’m to tell

somebody but let me ask you a question

when is the last time you deliberately

willfully singled out somebody that you

knew really and truly needed to know

about the Lord Jesus needed to be saved

when’s the last time you said something

to them maybe just a little something

inviting haven’t you anything

in order to get them to the place that

they’re saved and begin to follow Jesus

he said that to his disciples but he

meant for us all to do that go into all

the world and preach the gospel yes but

we can tell them have one on one they

didn’t have television radio microphones

or anything but they transformed the

world of their day and today we have the

privilege of penetrating every single

piece of Earth upon which you and I live

we have the ability and the capacity to

get it there but here’s the truth I’m

not too sure how authentic I would be if

I were not interested in somebody it’s

one thing to say everybody what bet

somebody everybody knows somebody that

you say something – at least sparked

their attention about their relationship

to God that’s what a true follower of

Jesus knew was we follow Jesus not blind

but we follow Jesus sensitive to people

around us who are not following him who

desperately need him every single one of

us knows somebody today who needs Christ

in their life a true front watch us the

true follower doesn’t shut their ears or

their eyes or shut down their feelings

we are sensitive to somebody else around

us who so desperately needs him then of

course number eight serve Him if I’m a

true follower of Jesus I’m gonna serve

in some fashion listen to what the

scripture says in John 12 26 if anyone

serves me the father will honor him that

is crystal clear if anyone serves me the

father will honor him you want to be

blessed by God that’s the shortest one

of the shortest promises in the word

listen if anyone serves me the father

will honor him all of us

have the capacity to serve the Lord in

some fashion well how do you serve the

Lord by serving somebody else in some

way the many many ways to serve the Lord

but the issue here I think is that he

wants us to give ourselves away to us

think about this is that not what he did

he came into the world thirty years he

lived those working years as a carpenter

and then those last years he spent

preaching the gospel sharing the truth

and dying on a cross for you and me what

was he doing he was serving the father

and every time you and I do something

that is godly that’s wise that’s helpful

even what we say or what we do what do

we do we’re serving him so that’s what

that’s what true believers do followers

of Jesus are not self-centered followers

of Jesus look around them followers of

Jesus are able to hurt where the people

are hurting followers of Jesus are able

to discern when someone around them is

hurting and nobody else seems to care or

understand followers of Jesus are

willing to serve others by giving to

them by encouraging them in some fashion

by presenting them with the truth of the

gospel or presenting they were the truth

of the gospel when they don’t want to

hear it

followers of Jesus make a difference and

then of course this is one we don’t like

followers of Jesus suffering or willing

to suffer fine

Philippians 1:29 is a great verse for

you it has been granted for Christ’s

sake not only to believe in him but also

the suffer for his sake now you say well

I don’t know why I have to suffer to be

a Christian you may not ever have to

suffer to be a Christian but if I’m

going to follow Jesus

I’m probably going to suffer in some way

you say well pastors don’t suffer you

didn’t haven’t lived in their shoes and

other people oh well yeah if you follow

Jesus you’re gonna suffer watch way

you’re gonna suffer rejection by some

you may suffer financially you may

suffer jawed job-wise

you may suffer in relationships if

you’re a true follower of Jesus some

people don’t want you in their in their

circle you know what they don’t want you

you make them feel uncomfortable because

there’s something about your personality

that doesn’t fit who they are they love

the world you don’t you don’t drink what

they drink go where they go dressed like

they dress and so there’s something

about you that you don’t fit but the

scripture says with the suffering that

is weird to be where we need to be

whether we were accepted or not we’re to

do what we need to do whether they like

it or not we’re to share the truth of

the gospel when it’s acceptable or when

it’s rejected true followers of Jesus

now if you’ve written those down without

trust that you have but a mother said by

the bedsides your house and but tonight

for you go to bed just look over them

you don’t say everything I said just a

born-again pray listen believe obeying

loving watch this when you write before

sleep go over something like this and

you go to sleep with that in your mind

that’s the last thing you’re thinking

about all night long your mind is

working that truth into your thought

processes when you wake up in the

morning if you simply went over all

those today and you simply said Lord I

want to be a follower of Jesus today

thank you that I’m born again in praying

so forth and go right down the list it

will not take you very long you love all

my heart

because your mind has been programmed to

think the way God wants you to think

and what happens God transforms our life

well that even realize think what’s

happening and that’s my prayer for you

now you’re here this morning maybe you

just dropped in as a visitor or maybe

you’ve been coming service several

Sundays but you’ve never been born again

you’ve never trusted Jesus Christ the

saving surrendered your life to him

that’s step number one and I would

encourage you because you see the rest

of this doesn’t count what forget to

rest them did you deal with the first

one because everything else is a step up

on the first one and if you are willing

to ask the Lord Jesus Christ to forgive

you of your sins and you’re surrendering

your life to him today and you want to

build upon this foundation of your faith

in Christ he’s willing to forgive you of

your sins and he’s willing to start with

you today living the most awesome life

you could ever imagine

amen amen let’s stand if you will

father how grateful we are that in all

of your infinite wisdom you made truth

simple enough for all of us to

understand and other we could walk in

obedience near will etch these truths

into all of our minds and ours

father I pray that you’ll bring to every

single person’s memory tonight before

they turn off the last light to read

these over and to ask you to work them

into their heart and after they turn on

the light tomorrow morning to read them

again

and Lord that you would bring them too

but they’re mine one of them or all of

them during the day as they meet other

people listening to their heartaches and

problems and burdens we are followers

Lord we want to be true the genuine

life-changing followers of Jesus and we

thank you for that in Christ’s name Amen

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