I want to tell you about my greatest regret…
I want to share with you my greatest
regret you know I did a marriage seminar
with my husband and we were being
interviewed and I think we had 30
minutes and I think he gave me seven and
they said you know what you know what
are the two things or what would you say
two things that you would say that’s a
nice I said number one I would have
risked more I would have given my
husband permission to make more mistakes
I would have taken more chances looking
back and not been so afraid and secondly
I would have loved my husband fearless
clean you know a lot of us are measured
in our love with our husbands I don’t
know if you have the same background as
me possibly not but I remember for the
first 10 years I live with about 80% in
about 80 percent I would love then I
would start padding and my husband would
say why are you patting me I’m not
trying to have sex with you I’m just
trying to hold you and I’d be like I
don’t know there’s just something that
feels scary I don’t know if you are a
child of divorce but when you have that
in the back of your mind you’re thinking
that somebody is always going to leave
and so you’re afraid to go all-in
because if you go all-in and then they
leave you think you’re going to have
nothing left where the truth is you need
to go all-in because love never fails
and if you don’t go all-in then you’re
never going to know what you might have
had I remember John would say I don’t
know if we’re going to have to be
seventy years of age before you finally
figure out that I’m not your father and
I’m not going to leave you but we are
going to miss a lot of fun in the
interim and I thought you know what
that’s just not fair
so I’m going to challenge you to love
fearlessly see Jesus loves us fearlessly
he is all in with us he’s not afraid
that we’re going to make a mistake he
knows we are going to make mistakes but
he goes ahead and loves us fearless leap
and women who choose to love fearlessly
live fearlessly and there is nothing
more attractive than a woman who is
fearless and the world is watching and
waiting for us to love fearlessly
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